Is taking something as God's approval right or wrong?
I am on a crossroad and need help. I have been dating a lady for a few years. She has a baggage yet I love her and want to marry and settle down with her. Our wavelengths match pretty well. However, she is not going to give me a child of my own and I want a baby, she is does not believes in Lord Jesus though she prays to God, marrying her, would save me from from going under more debt, she has good and steady job. I know the Scripture tells us to yoke with believers only. On the other hand, I can marry another lady, who has no baggage, she can give me a child, I do not know her well yet, I would be under debt on marrying her for sure, she would be coming from another country, hence she would have to struggle hard to get a stable job which she would not have for few years, she believes in Lord Jesus.
I have very strong faith on Lord Jesus. I am very thankful to HIM for all the blessings HE has given me and for all the care HE takes of me. HE is on te driving seat of my life. I had been praying for my marriage. Even if I do not get married, HE is for sure going to use me for some of HIS purpose. In last few months to seek a direction, I had been taking something happening as a sign of Lord Jesus' approval on my marriage. And at three instances, those signs told me to marry the non-believer.
How wrong or right is it to take something as a sign of Lord Jesus' approval on crucial decisions in life?