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  • Jul 14, 2007, 10:08 AM
    speedball1
    "My only point is that why would someone want to continue to post on a Christianity Forum if they are athiests. If they don't believe in God, I was just thinking they may believe in the dirty devil."
    Good question by "Pop-my Cork". I'll answer it as best I can. I post on a Christian site because your-alls world is so black and white. The bible said it! I believe it, etc" No room foir question or any kind of discussion, unless it agrees with scripture. You all have so many off-the -wall beliefs. One expert on this board informed me, in all seriousness , that the earth was only less the 6000 years old and the dinosaur bones were placed there by the devil to confuse us. Now, who can resist tossing a few "zingers" into a flat statement such as that? People like popover are fun to tweek. In short you "fundies" (and you know who you are) put the FUN in Fundamentalism
    I would post over on "The Dirty Devil Board" except fundies are much more fun to play with. Ya want " Absolute Truth" ?? Here goes mine, " religion began when the first priest met the first fool." Now THERE'S absolute truth!!
  • Jul 14, 2007, 11:24 AM
    poppa0777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Capuchin
    I think you miss the point here. It's not that I wouldn't accept God's word as the final authority (if there were any evidence to there being a god). It's just that I don't see any reason to accept that the bible is God's word.

    (I used 'I' here because it is my own view, but I hope I convey the view of NK and ordinaryguy here also)

    Then I have to ask why you post on a Christian forum? I'll give you an example... I don't believe in flying saucers, little green men, etc. etc. SOooooo, I don't post on those kind of forums. It would be pointless and a big waste of time... unless of course my agenda was to only quibble with people. If you are looking for people to "prove" our beliefs to you, it won't happen because first, you must have at least a "willing" person with an open mind. I was hopeful when I began posting on a Christian forum that I wouldn't run into this. I was wrong, but you must understand that it doesn't make any difference whether you accept the Word of God as God's will for mankind or not... that will not change the fact that it is. No sir, not a chance.
    God does not attempt to prove his existence. We either do or we don't. It's that simple.
    I'm going to venture a guess that you would like to see absolute scientific proof of all of this. I don't think you will, as accepting God and His Bible is purely an act of blind faith. Period.
    Additionally, please understand that every born again Christian has a duty to spread the gospel news. We are very much aware that a very large percentage of people will not accept it, but that does not relieve us of the command to do so.
    You will see by my posts that I seem to be intolerant of other's views at times... I've even disagreed with Tessy. That's because her and I have somewhat different views on some subjects... even as you in the scientific community. The fact that we are unwavering in our faith, as some of you have pointed out, is a compliment, even though I'm sure some of you didn't intend it to be.
    Finally, I will go on record saying that I am proud to be a Christian, and that I am strong in what I believe... The entire Word of God. This strong faith is what helps to keep me from wavering. God bless each of you.:cool:
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  • Jul 14, 2007, 11:43 AM
    Capuchin
    I post here because the people who post here often misrepresent scientific understanding. If they make a mistake, I will correct them. I'm sure none of you wish to be ignorant.

    I am also interested in questioning and learning about the beliefs of others. I hope that is not a problem.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 11:44 AM
    poppa0777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    It's not quoting the bible which is seen as pompous, it's the way the scripture is used to "show" someone they are wrong. If you want to quote the bible to support your opinion, fine. If there is a debate over what the bible says about bears killing children (sorry, I just can't get over that) use all the scripture you want. But to quote the bible or use religious rhetoric to say someone WILL do something is pompous and rude. It's similar if I said "One day you WILL realize you are wrong and you will feel silly you wasted your life praying to a false god!" That too, is a pompous and rude statement. It doesn't matter if I believe it or not, it's rude to attack someone in that manner. I'm sure if I gave any Christian on this board a disagree which said that I'd be run out of here, yet it's ok if it's done the other way around.

    Jillianleab,
    I understand what you're saying... it's just that for me there is no turning to the left or to the right. I would consider that compromise, and I am not going to compromise. Do I sometimes come on too strong? Probably, but you have no idea what God pulled me out of 32 years ago.:)
  • Jul 14, 2007, 11:52 AM
    speedball1
    Pop-My-Zit, You asked me why I post on Christian chat rooms and I gave you my answer. You asked,
    "My only point is that why would someone want to continue to post on a Christianity Forum if they are athiests. If they don't believe in God, I was just thinking they may believe in the dirty devil."

    Good question by "Pop-my Cork". I'll answer it as best I can. I post on a Christian site because your-alls world is so black and white. The bible said it! I believe it, etc" No room foir question or any kind of discussion, unless it agrees with scripture. You all have so many off-the -wall beliefs. One expert on this board informed me, in all seriousness , that the earth was only less the 6000 years old and the dinosaur bones were placed there by the devil to confuse us. Now, who can resist tossing a few "zingers" into a flat statement such as that? People like popover are fun to tweek. In short you "fundies" (and you know who you are) put the FUN in Fundamentalism
    I would post over on "The Dirty Devil Board" except fundies are much more fun to play with. Ya want " Absolute Truth" ?? Here goes mine, " religion began when the first priest met the first fool." Now THERE'S absolute truth!!

    And your response was,
    poppa0777 disagrees: Go take a nerve pill... you're not
    What a wimpy response! I'm not what?? Come on sport! You can do better then that if you try. Mama won't letcha come out and play with the big kids? Afraid we'll infest you with the two things that religion rejects? Reason and logic.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 12:34 PM
    jillianleab
    poppa my intention is not to make anyone compromise their beliefs. Your religion works for you and I respect that. My lack of religion works for me. I ask for the same respect. That is why when you go about posting comments which tell people what they WILL do in the future it is very rude. I do not know what led you to god and you don't know what led me from him. But consider this: maybe you don't give YOURSELF enough credit for pulling yourself out of whatever horrible life you had 32 years ago. I do not wish to turn you into an atheist, I simply wish for you (and other fundies like you) to respect people's differences and acknowledge that not everyone believes as you do. Perhaps you could consider that I haven't "found my way yet" and you can hope and pray that I do, but there's no need to tell me what I WILL do someday. You have no way to know what I will or will not do. In your world, only god knows that for sure, right? But go ahead, pray for me. I will hope that one day you come to understand Jesus and god are not the solution for EVERYONE. I understand it is your "duty" to try and get other people to follow Jesus, but don't you think you could do that to people who are actually looking for a change in their spiritual beliefs? What you do by throwing scripture in a non-believer's face is drive them FURTHER for the acceptance of god, which is contrary to your intention. If someone posted here looking for spiritual guidance you can jump all over them with you bible-speak, but until I post that I am unhappy with my current path, I ask that you refrain for trying to convert me. I can tell you with absolute certainty you have as much of a chance at turning me into a Christian as I have at turning you into an atheist.

    You keep asking why non-Christians post on this board, and I gave an answer a few posts back. But in addition to that, I admit, I'm fascinated by human psychology and sociology, and observing and interacting with religions people lets me get a clearer view of such things. I find religion so hard to understand because of what I see as clear contradictions and it makes me wonder how anyone can believe such things (still waiting on the bears killing children thing, btw).

    I think if you would step back for just a moment you could probably learn a lot from non-Christians. You don't have to accept our views as your own to understand where we come from and why we believe the things we do. All you have to do is have empathy and a little respect for others.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 12:43 PM
    ordinaryguy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    Well, i could show you my softer more gentler side, but what fun with that be? ;)

    Eeeww, that would just be creepy! I've come to enjoy your prickly argumentative side so much that the whole notion of a softer gentler Tessy puts me in a state of extreme cognitive dissonance. If you were that way habitually, I might have to give your religious views a more serious look.
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    I don't think it is pompous when the scripture is quoted.

    I agree that it's POSSIBLE to quote scripture un-pompously. I've seen it done; even done it myself occasionally.
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    I wouldn't go to a Muslim Board. I agree, anything from the Koran, I would find fault with. So I don't go there and argue my faith. But if I DID, and they quoted the Koran, I wouldn't find it pompous...i would EXPECT it. Since it is their foundation!!

    Yes, dialog with those of a different faith is so icky and tiresome. Better to stick with those who already agree with you.
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    I can't give you my faith and I can't prove the Bible is true..

    A point of agreement! You aren't going all "softer and gentler" on me are you?
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    BUT I can make a good argument every now and again. :)

    I'm looking forward to it.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 01:43 PM
    Ionse
    Body begins to decompose and you cease to exist. I guess nobody knows for sure.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 02:22 PM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by poppa0777
    but you have no idea what God pulled me out of 32 years ago.

    Well here's the thing Poppa. A whole lot of us did not have some trauma or crappy childhood or whatever it is that you faced. Perhaps you NEED a book to help you make good decisions; hey if that's what you need to keep on the straight and narrow then good for you. A whole lot of us have had great parents who taught us well and thus we make good decisions. We do NOT need a book to tell us what to do. Please stop treating everyone like they lived your live or they make crappy decisions without your book's help. I'm proud that I had a happy childhood and that I make good decisions on my own.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    It's not quoting the bible which is seen as pompous, it's the way the scripture is used to "show" someone they are wrong. If you want to quote the bible to support your opinion, fine. If there is a debate over what the bible says about bears killing children (sorry, I just can't get over that) use all the scripture you want. But to quote the bible or use religious rhetoric to say someone WILL do something is pompous and rude. It's similar if I said "One day you WILL realize you are wrong and you will feel silly you wasted your life praying to a false god!" That too, is a pompous and rude statement. It doesn't matter if I believe it or not, it's rude to attack someone in that manner. I'm sure if I gave any Christian on this board a disagree which said that I'd be run out of here, yet it's ok if it's done the other way around.

    Jill,

    Yes, I understood the FIRST time.. my point is. I said that I didn't use scripture to show someone where they are wrong unless I am talking to a fellow christian who I believe has doctrine issues. I get that not everyone believes the Bible and doing that is a waste of time. However, if you come in to a Christian board and say this or that is in the Bible and it isn't... Well, I may argue with you a bit. The difference between us? I don't care if people say to me... you are silly and wasting your time praying to a false God. That kind of thing doesn't bother me in the least. (I know not everyone is like that.) I believe what I believe... I'm in a Christian forum and I'm not somewhere else trying to push Jesus down someone's throat. What I DO find amusing though, is the atheists that come in here and get all offended.! To them I say... Hey it is really easy, just go to the top of the Ask me help desk and click on home... find another topic THAT DOESN'T STRING YOUR BEAN... loll

    And I never have understood the big deal with the red marks anyway... when it is all said and done.. do we get a prize for not getting them.?
  • Jul 14, 2007, 03:55 PM
    jillianleab
    Tessy how wonderful that you "got it" the first time, but that was the first time I said anything about quoting the bible being pompous. Read carefully and you will notice the comment I was referring to was not one you had made. I'm not arguing about the bible saying this or that, I'm actually not arguing anything. I'm simply saying I think it is pompous to throw scripture at someone who does not share your beliefs. I never said you were guilty of such things. Also, you are making an assumption that I care, or am offended by what is said to me in these threads; I'm not. Call me a heathen, tell me I'm going to hell, it doesn't matter to me. I'm as secure in my beliefs as you are in yours. Telling me I WILL accept the word of god or whatever, or that I WILL go to hell has no effect on me, except to think, "Gee, what a pompous a** who can't accept that others believe differently!" I can think someone is pompous without being offended, in case you didn't know. If you would like to point out where you think I was "offended" by something someone said, I'll be happy to explain to you why you are wrong. You seem to be under the impression people are offended very easily, and I believe you are mistaken in most cases.

    The "disagrees" given on this board are meaningless, but their intention is to let new users judge how valuable they think the advice given is. That is why it is incorrect and rude to give a "disagree" to someone who has expressed an opinion.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 04:30 PM
    poppa0777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speedball1
    Pop-My-Zit, You asked me why I post on Christian chat rooms and I gave you my answer. You asked,
    "My only point is that why would someone want to continue to post on a Christianity Forum if they are athiests. If they don't believe in God, I was just thinking they may believe in the dirty devil."

    Good question by "Pop-my Cork". I'll answer it as best I can. I post on a Christian site because your-alls world is so black and white. The bible said it! I believe it, ect" No room foir question or any kind of discussion, unless it agrees with scripture. You all have so many off-the -wall beliefs. One expert on this board informed me, in all seriousness , that the earth was only less the 6000 years old and the dinosaur bones were placed there by the devil to confuse us. Now, who can resist tossing a few "zingers" into a flat statement such as that? People like popover are fun to tweek. In short you "fundies" (and you know who you are) put the FUN in Fundamentalism
    I would post over on "The Dirty Devil Board" except fundies are much more fun to play with. Ya want " Absolute Truth" ?? Here goes mine, " religion began when the first priest met the first fool." Now THERE'S absolute truth!!!

    And your response was,
    poppa0777 disagrees: Go take a nerve pill...you're not
    What a wimpy response! I'm not what??? Come on sport! You can do better then that if you try. Mama won't letcha come out and play with the big kids?? Afraid we'll infest you with the two things that religion rejects? Reason and logic.

    Dear Mr. Speedball,
    Being a human being, I made a mistake and hit the wrong key while typing my response to you. I am not going to argue with you, I'm not going to "come out and play", because I'm not playing. I would have thought that someone of your age would have more on his mind than "play". If you are 80 years old you should be making serious plans for what comes next for you. This is really sad.The eternal soul of a man is far more precious than to "play' with. I truly hope you resolve that issue before your death. God bless you. :confused:
  • Jul 14, 2007, 05:19 PM
    Tessy777
    Jill,
    Okie dokie. I guess we will agree to disagree. I don't see anything pompus about posting scripture on a Christain board. It is what I would expect to find if I were an atheist. I do think there are times when it is appropriate and times when it isn't. I totally get that you can think something is pompus and not get offended. I think it all the time and I never said YOU got offended and said SOME atheists do.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 05:33 PM
    jillianleab
    Tessy you seem to not understand something: the problem is not quoting scripture. Posting scripture does not make one pompous. What makes one who quotes scripture pompous is when the individual does so with the intent to "convert" or "prove" something that the recipient will not respond to. Quote all the scripture you want, but if you do it inappropriately, don't be surprised when you are considered pompous. But you say you don't care what people say to you, so why do you care if people call you pompous, intolerant, etc? Perhaps you are trying to convince yourself, rather than others?

    Quote:

    I never said YOU got offended and said SOME atheists do.
    Actually, what you said was :

    Quote:

    The difference between us? I don't care if people say to me... you are silly and wasting your time praying to a false God. That kind of thing doesn't bother me in the least.
    Which indicates YOU do not get offended but I do ("The difference between us" is a dead giveaway).
  • Jul 14, 2007, 06:12 PM
    Tessy777
    Jill,
    I don't care if people call me pompous, Actually, I have NEVER been called pompous. I was called intolerant. I was just curious as to why I was called that. I never did get a straight answer from the person who gave me the dreaded "red" mark when he called me that.. lol. I don't think he knows.

    Here is a question for you Jill, and I actually have thought about this a lot lately. If you are an atheist, why do you care that God allowed bears to kill teenagers? You say you don't think the Word of God is true and you don't get offended by it because it isn't true. And yet... it appears to string your bean? Why?
  • Jul 14, 2007, 06:30 PM
    jillianleab
    Great question, Tessy, and one I'm more than happy to answer.

    My "bean is strung" because passages like that one indicate god is NOT forgiving or loving (at least not all the time). That particular passage, if I'm correct, has god sending bears to kill a group of teens (the versions I read don't specify teen, but maybe I haven't looked closely enough) because they made fun of someone. To me, it doesn't matter WHO they made fun of; they were ripped apart by bears for childish behavior instead of being taught that that behavior is inappropriate and hurtful. I'm sure in your youth (and perhaps adulthood) you have made fun of someone. How horrible would it be if a bear ripped your brain out of your nose because of youthful indiscretion, at god's hand? When this passage was pointed out to my husband's coworker, he said, "They were wicked, they deserved it." I was appalled! How can someone who preaches love, acceptance, tolerance and so on say that a child deserved to be MAULED BY A BEAR?

    There are many passages in the bible which have god doing horrible things, yet people of faith profess how wonderful he is. I find it contradictory to say he is so great when he commits such atrocities. I use the "bear passage" as an example, and it's also a little funny, when you think about it (at least in the cartoon way I picture it in my head). I'm sure you have a reason excusing the actions I have a problem with, but that's what I find so fascinating about people with faith - they will "turn the other cheek" for god when if anyone else did such a thing, that individual would be condemed and on their way to hell.

    So all in all, there are a lot of things in the bible I don't understand, and I have a hard time seeing how a reasonable person can follow someone/something which has done so many terrible things. I guess I don't think "the good outweighs the bad" or "the ends justify the means" in this case.

    I have a whole list of passages which confuse me and make me say, "How can anyone put their faith into this?"
  • Jul 14, 2007, 07:08 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    Great question, Tessy, and one I'm more than happy to answer.

    My "bean is strung" because passages like that one indicate god is NOT forgiving or loving (at least not all the time). That particular passage, if I'm correct, has god sending bears to kill a group of teens (the versions I read don't specify teen, but maybe I haven't looked closely enough) because they made fun of someone. To me, it doesn't matter WHO they made fun of; they were ripped apart by bears for childish behavior instead of being taught that that behavior is inappropriate and hurtful. I'm sure in your youth (and perhaps adulthood) you have made fun of someone. How horrible would it be if a bear ripped your brain out of your nose because of youthful indiscretion, at god's hand? When this passage was pointed out to my husband's coworker, he said, "They were wicked, they deserved it." I was appalled! How can someone who preaches love, acceptance, tolerance and so on say that a child deserved to be MAULED BY A BEAR?

    There are many passages in the bible which have god doing horrible things, yet people of faith profess how wonderful he is. I find it contradictory to say he is so great when he commits such atrocities. I use the "bear passage" as an example, and it's also a little funny, when you think about it (at least in the cartoon way I picture it in my head). I'm sure you have a reason excusing the actions I have a problem with, but that's what I find so fascinating about people with faith - they will "turn the other cheek" for god when if anyone else did such a thing, that individual would be condemed and on their way to hell.

    So all in all, there are a lot of things in the bible I don't understand, and I have a hard time seeing how a reasonable person can follow someone/something which has done so many terrible things. I guess I don't think "the good outweighs the bad" or "the ends justify the means" in this case.

    I have a whole list of passages which confuse me and make me say, "How can anyone put their faith into this?"

    Jill,

    God is sovereign and He does what He wants. That is all I can say. I don't understand everything about HIM... no one does. I certainly wouldn't say someone deserved to killed by bears. Having said that, I believe just because I can't figure HIM out doesn't mean that HE isn't perfect. I believe HE is.. HE is all knowing and HE sees the beginning from the end. All we see are that teenage boys were killed by a bear for being "teenage" boys. Doesn't seem fair but He is sovereign and he didn't have to ask me first. I'm sure to an atheist that sounds unreasonable. That's OK.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 07:21 PM
    jillianleab
    Like I said, I was sure you would have a reason for excusing the action. It's another example of that "blind faith" which is so foreign to me. At least you admit that to an atheist, your line of reasoning sounds unreasonable. That's more than many Christians (especially those on this site!) would give.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 08:26 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ordinaryguy
    Eeeww, that would just be creepy!! I've come to enjoy your prickly argumentative side so much that the whole notion of a softer gentler Tessy puts me in a state of extreme cognitive dissonance. If you were that way habitually, I might have to give your religious views a more serious look.

    I agree that it's POSSIBLE to quote scripture un-pompously. I've seen it done; even done it myself occasionally.

    Yes, dialog with those of a different faith is so icky and tiresome. Better to stick with those who already agree with you.

    A point of agreement! You aren't going all "softer and gentler" on me are you?.

    I'm looking forward to it.

    Ordinaryguy,

    LOL!! I enjoyed your comments. Bring it on dude... bring it on!!

    Oh and just for the record... there ain't nothing creepy about me. ;)
  • Jul 14, 2007, 08:47 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    Like I said, I was sure you would have a reason for excusing the action. It's another example of that "blind faith" which is so foreign to me. At least you admit that to an atheist, your line of reasoning sounds unreasonable. That's more than many Christians (especially those on this site!) would give.

    Jill,

    I have to admit... I don't understand the beliefs of an atheist. Do you believe there is a God and you just really don't like Him? Or... do you believe that He doesn't exist?
  • Jul 14, 2007, 09:03 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    Like I said, I was sure you would have a reason for excusing the action. It's another example of that "blind faith" which is so foreign to me. At least you admit that to an atheist, your line of reasoning sounds unreasonable. That's more than many Christians (especially those on this site!) would give.

    Actually Jill, I don't have a reason. I make NO EXCUSES for God. How could I? He is God and I am not. I simply said, He is sovereign. I post this all the time... I believe that man hates the sovereignty of God. It ticks him off... or "strings his bean" if you will. I don't consider my faith blind I just think it is faith.
  • Jul 14, 2007, 10:40 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by speedball1
    "My only point is that why would someone want to continue to post on a Christianity Forum if they are athiests. If they don't believe in God, I was just thinking they may believe in the dirty devil."
    Good question by "Pop-my Cork". I'll answer it as best I can. I post on a Christian site because your-alls world is so black and white. The bible said it! I believe it, ect" No room foir question or any kind of discussion, unless it agrees with scripture. You all have so many off-the -wall beliefs. One expert on this board informed me, in all seriousness , that the earth was only less the 6000 years old and the dinosaur bones were placed there by the devil to confuse us. Now, who can resist tossing a few "zingers" into a flat statement such as that? People like popover are fun to tweek. In short you "fundies" (and you know who you are) put the FUN in Fundamentalism
    I would post over on "The Dirty Devil Board" except fundies are much more fun to play with. Ya want " Absolute Truth" ?? Here goes mine, " religion began when the first priest met the first fool." Now THERE'S absolute truth!!!

    Speedy.

    I agree. I do put FUN in fundamentalism. But in all fairness, I personally never said that the earth was 6,000 years old. I asked what Christians thought of that idea? The person that thinks Satan put the dinosaur bones around to confuse us... said that was HIS opinion and He KNEW that HIS opinion wasn't shared by most here. Are there goofy things said in here? Yes. I certainly do not agree with every Christian on this board. But we aren't ALL goof balls. I am a fundie who believes in absolute truth. Am I offended because you don't? NO. you told me once what a happy life you live. We all get ticked sometimes.. I know I do. But if I go back and read your posts.. I got to tell you speedy for a happy guy.. you sure do sound bitter and angry. I know, I know... you want to blame it on all the "fundies" that you have encounter in your life. The ones that you put in jail. The ones that screamed at the women going into abortion clinics. Well, I'm a Christian. I don't picket abortion clinics, and I'm NOT stupid and I AM a fundie. Was there a question you had?. something you wanted to discuss? Or are you here to be just to be nasty?
  • Jul 14, 2007, 11:34 PM
    Capuchin
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    Jill,

    I have to admit...i don't understand the beliefs of an atheist. Do you believe there is a God and you just really don't like Him? or...do you believe that He doesn't exist?

    Atheism, by definition, is the disbelief in the existence of God or gods.

    Agnosticism, which I myself identify better with, is the belief that the existence of a God is unknowable.
    Maybe I should say that I have a little apatheism thrown in too, the belief that the question of the existence of a God is unimportant.
  • Jul 15, 2007, 05:03 AM
    ordinaryguy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Capuchin
    Maybe I should say that I have a little apatheism thrown in too, the belief that the question of the existence of a God is unimportant.

    Yes. Too often it's a convenient cop-out to obsess over the unanswerable questions--Is there a God? What happens after death?--instead of more practical ones like What should I do next? Or How can I get along better with the difficult people in my life? Some people seem to think that the more practical questions of life can't be properly answered without reference to God and the afterlife, but I suspect that most of them haven't really tried to do it. My experience has been that it isn't really so hard, and it gets easier with practice.
  • Jul 15, 2007, 05:59 AM
    speedball1
    "I have to admit...i don't understand the beliefs of an atheist. Do you believe there is a God and you just really don't like Him? or...do you believe that He doesn't exist?"

    Tessy,
    We don't use the word "belief" Too much. We prefer facts and proof. It's not that we acknowledge your god and just don't like him. We just can't see much difference between your god and the earlier gods from other mystery religions. There's just as much proof for one as the other. And, unlike some christians on this page, we don't wish to proselytize atheism, we are athiests, not anti-thiests. We don't care what you believe. Just don'
    T attempt to jam your particular belief system down our throats and tell us we're going to "burn in hell" unless we believe as you do.
    I confess, thirteen years of "tweeking" blue-nosed, tight a$$ed protesters has conditioned me to push back when someone testifies to me without me asking. Poppa was just too vigorous in his proselytizing for me not to jump in and have a little fun at his expense. Sorry pop-up, but your nose was just too blue not to tweek it a little. I'll be leaving now. Having fun over here has kept me from more important tasks on this site. It's been fun, don't take anything I've said personally and Poppa, for Gods sake lighten up a little and smile more! Peace and happiness be with you all! Tom
  • Jul 15, 2007, 06:59 AM
    excon
    Hello Hope:

    There ain't no god. When you die, the worms go all inside your nose.

    excon
  • Jul 15, 2007, 07:21 AM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon
    Hello Hope:

    There ain't no god. When you die, the worms go all inside your nose.

    excon

    Excon,

    I agree our bodies do get worms in them. I THINK she was referring to the soul though.


    Tessy

    P.S. what's the matter? You not getting enough attention from the "right wingers" on the political boards? You sure you want to come in and discuss Christianity. I got to warn you... you may leave a little bloody and bruised. Lol ;)
  • Jul 15, 2007, 09:18 AM
    jillianleab
    Tessy the other atheists have pretty well answered your question about what atheism is. I think it's important to reiterate what speed said, however, that we aren't anti-theist (well, I'm not, there are some who are), but just simply don't believe in the "magic man in the sky". Or the magic man who lives in the volcano, or the rain god, or the wind god, or the... well, I think you get the point. I think Cap and Ordinary also touched on something important - there are other things more important to worry about than the existence of god. I'm sure that's very hard for you to wrap your head around since you believe your eternal soul is at stake, but imagine for a second your soul is NOT at stake. Imagine this life is all you get - suddenly other things are more important.
  • Jul 15, 2007, 09:47 AM
    Tessy777
    Jill,

    I know there are important things in this world. As hard as you find THIS to believe... my head wraps around that concept REAL good. Being a Christain doesn't make me stupid, nor am I not well rounded in my personal life. (I DO care about MY eternal destiny though on account of the eternal part being a longer period. ) I actually care about a wide variety of things. And on occasion, I have been known to wander off this board and hit some other topics. Scary as THAT may sound.. LOL. Mighty thoughtful of you to remind me though.;)
  • Jul 15, 2007, 11:40 AM
    jillianleab
    Tessy I didn't mean for that to sound patronizing. I said that because it has been my experience with many people of faith that they cannot possibly imagine anything being MORE IMPORTANT than the fate of their eternal soul. I didn't mean to indicate you are unintelligent, or that the ONLY thing you care about in the world is getting into heaven. Give me a break, I'm not that crass! My point was it might be difficult for you to see that there are things MORE IMPORTANT than where your soul goes, given that you believe in heave/hell for eternity. You say yourself that you care about it because it's for eternity, which indicates it is of utmost importance to you. To an atheist, it doesn't even rank. That was my point.
  • Jul 15, 2007, 12:46 PM
    poppa0777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tessy777
    Excon,

    I agree our bodies do get worms in them. I THINK she was referring to the soul though.


    Tessy

    P.S. whats the matter? you not getting enough attention from the "right wingers" on the political boards? You sure you want to come in and discuss Christianity. I gotta warn ya...you may leave a little bloody and bruised. lol ;)

    Excon,
    If you are an ex-con, I'm sorry you didn't benefit from your incarceration. But at least you are being honest about looking for trouble. On this forum, we Christians will tell you the truth from the Word of God. I understand that you do not believe vin God, but bI'm glad that does not change the fact that He reigns Supreme, the Ruler of the universe
  • Jul 15, 2007, 01:06 PM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by poppa0777
    I'm sorry you didn't benefit from your incarceration.

    Hello poppa:

    Isn't there some Christian thing about not casting the first stone?? Hmmm. Looks like I know more about Christianity than you do. Isn't that sumpthin?

    excon
  • Jul 15, 2007, 05:32 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon
    Hello poppa:

    Isn't there some Christian thing about not casting the first stone???? Hmmm. Looks like I know more about Christianity than you do. Isn't that sumpthin??

    excon


    Steve,

    THAT is exactly what Jesus said. One of my very favorite stories in the gospels. I KNOW you already know this but I will say it anyway... I was just eggin you on a bit with the bloody and bruised thing. You already know I'm a "right winger" but I'm not comfortable enough debating politics with you... but Christianity?. I can hold my own and you know it! So I guess what I was trying to say is... hit me with your best shot! I dare you... ;)

    Tess
  • Jul 16, 2007, 03:44 PM
    poppa0777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon
    Hello poppa:

    Isn't there some Christian thing about not casting the first stone???? Hmmm. Looks like I know more about Christianity than you do. Isn't that sumpthin??

    excon

    EXCON,
    I took the time to read your profile, and if what you said is true about your many incarcerations, how do you figure I was "casting stones"? I only referred to what you already said. It sounds like you have far too much time on your hands. :)
    Your assertion that you are up to the challenge on knowing about Christianity... I will only advise that you get it out of your head and into your heart... and you'll never have to worry about being incarcerated again. Make sense? If there's ever any way I can help you, please let me know.
    Love in Christ,
    Poppa:)
  • Jul 16, 2007, 03:58 PM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by poppa0777
    and if what you said is true about your many incarcerations, how do you figure I was "casting stones"? I only referred to what you already said.

    Hello again poppa:

    I said I was incarcerated. You said it failed. Not the same thing. Not even close. One's a fact. One's a judgment. Big difference. You insulted me, and now you deny it.

    Boy oh, boy - throwing stones and then lying about it. Not only do I KNOW more about Christianity than you, I am a BETTER Christian than you - and I'm an atheist.

    excon
  • Jul 16, 2007, 04:15 PM
    Mario3
    When we die we go some place where we can haunt the living daylights out of people
  • Jul 16, 2007, 04:17 PM
    Mario3
    Tessy, why do christian nuns only wear black from head to toe? Why can't they show their hair or their legs or their arms? Why does Jesus's mom always have her hair covered?
  • Jul 16, 2007, 04:22 PM
    jillianleab
    Quote:

    I will only advise that you get it out of your head and into your heart... and you'll never have to worry about being incarcerated again.
    Because there are no Christians in jail?
  • Jul 16, 2007, 05:45 PM
    PixieMama
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jillianleab
    Great question, Tessy, and one I'm more than happy to answer.

    My "bean is strung" because passages like that one indicate god is NOT forgiving or loving (at least not all the time). That particular passage, if I'm correct, has god sending bears to kill a group of teens (the versions I read don't specify teen, but maybe I haven't looked closely enough) because they made fun of someone. To me, it doesn't matter WHO they made fun of; they were ripped apart by bears for childish behavior instead of being taught that that behavior is inappropriate and hurtful. I'm sure in your youth (and perhaps adulthood) you have made fun of someone. How horrible would it be if a bear ripped your brain out of your nose because of youthful indiscretion, at god's hand? When this passage was pointed out to my husband's coworker, he said, "They were wicked, they deserved it." I was appalled! How can someone who preaches love, acceptance, tolerance and so on say that a child deserved to be MAULED BY A BEAR?

    There are many passages in the bible which have god doing horrible things, yet people of faith profess how wonderful he is. I find it contradictory to say he is so great when he commits such atrocities. I use the "bear passage" as an example, and it's also a little funny, when you think about it (at least in the cartoon way I picture it in my head). I'm sure you have a reason excusing the actions I have a problem with, but that's what I find so fascinating about people with faith - they will "turn the other cheek" for god when if anyone else did such a thing, that individual would be condemed and on their way to hell.

    So all in all, there are a lot of things in the bible I don't understand, and I have a hard time seeing how a reasonable person can follow someone/something which has done so many terrible things. I guess I don't think "the good outweighs the bad" or "the ends justify the means" in this case.

    I have a whole list of passages which confuse me and make me say, "How can anyone put their faith into this?"


    My husband and I have had similar discussions when discussing the subject of religion. It makes their god out to be something to be feared that if you piss HIM off, you had better watch out. What? Does that make me more compassionate then the christian god being that no matter what my children did wrong I would never want to see something so horrible happen to them? I love my children unconditionally. Even if they were to come out as homosexuals, or wose - a jock :eek: ! I'd still love and accept my child. Even if my child disowned me, and said horrible things to me and hurt my feelings - that is MY child. I would never cast my child into a horrible place of fire to burn for all eternity. I love my child too much to make/watch them suffer.. . So since "God" obviously does not mind seeing such horrible things done or doing such things to "His" children, would that make the parent full of unconditional love more compassionate, loving, and understanding then "God"? And if so, how does this make sense? How can you then go and say "God is good"... Things like this just do not make sense to me. And I really do want to at least UNDERSTAND how one accepts this as "good" and all powerful, all loving and kind, because flooding the earth was not kind to most of "Gods children" either.
  • Jul 16, 2007, 05:54 PM
    Tessy777
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Mario3
    tessy, why do christian nuns only wear black from head to toe? why can't they show their hair or their legs or their arms? why does Jesus's mom always have her hair covered?

    Mario,

    I am not Catholic so I don't know... maybe allheart would like to be the better person to ask. No one really knows what Mary the mother of Jesus looks like. It was the Jewish culture back then for women to cover their heads so she probably did.

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