Originally Posted by
HeadStrongBoy
I can empathize and understand how you feel. Both my parents come from a European and artistic background with a deep appreciation for the charms of nature. And they made every reasonable effort to share their love of that culture with their children.
However, as wonderful and as loving as that was, it is no substitute for the Holy Bible, God's word to us. The Bible defines a church by three very specific traits.
[1] A hierarchy of spiritual overseers, elders, deacons, pastors, teachers, etc.
[2] A membership that must be fed with God's word, and that can be disciplined by acts such as excommunication.
[3] It must offer the ceremonial rites of water baptism and the Lord's table (communion).
Unless those three criteria are met, it is not a church by the standards of the Holy Bible.