Well, I guess I will have to take the Bible's view on it or yours. No offense, but I'll go with the Bible. I just can't find any Biblical reason to be thankful that "women are finally gaining ground as church leaders." I realize it is a popular cultural idea, but I cannot be led by culture. Now I would be thankful for women to take their proper and utterly vital place in the family and in the church. But as with all things, it would need to be in line with the Bible. Either that, or we should just throw out the Bible and stop pretending to believe it.
As to your point that women are quite capable of leading men stupidly astray (which is plainly true), I'm not sure how that helps your case.