Originally Posted by
Fr_Chuck
Baptism in churches that do infants, such as Lutheran, Anglican, Catholic, Orthodox and a few others take this as a serious sacrament. They teach that a infant is born with sin, the original sin of Adam ( please lets not argue that here) and that baptism is needed to save the child, who will latter at confirmation confirm his baptism vows at about the age of 12. And once done, there is no need to repeat it. Other churches may have a blessing of an infant or a dedication of the child. This is not a sacrament to them and not a serious issue.
To not tell the truth to a pastor would be to me unforgivable, and there will of course always be a pastor if you "shop around" who will not mind doing a second service if you really want one for show.
But you could have the baptism at one place and then have a re-dedication service ( looks like a baptism) at the other if you want to.