Wow. This sounds like a nasty problem.
I found it interesting that you said you know you're going to hell. I want to encourage you to keep reading the Bible and you'll find more things than you ever thought could fir between those two covers. I would suggest starting with matthew, mark, luke, or john, though. They're easier to understand than the old testament and are great to start with.

The advice I have about your mother in law has already been given: try not to argue. Arguing only makes things worse. I would also suggest reading chapter 31 of the book of proverbs where a woman describes a good wife. Keep in mind the virtues she describes, not so much the chores and work. This was written a long time ago when a hard-working woman did a lot around the house. Today, a hard working woman has the option of being hard working at home or in a job.

Tell him to stick the Bible where the Sun don't shine and be done with it. If he thinks that reading a fairy tale will make you a better person, he and his mother need to get on with THEIR lives and you get on with yours, the way you feel comfortable. MNO one is better than anyone else. Men are not here to serve women and women are not here to serve men. We ARE all equal. I was married for a long time and I helped with everything in the home. And helped raise the children. And cared for my wife when she was ill. You need to find someone that will be your PARTNER not your ruler.

Well thank you all for your help. Nothing really has been going on at the house, I have been having a little bit to drink here and there before I go to be, and I have been derpressed so the house is a little bad. I just don't feel like doing . I wish that I could just snap out of it and things can be like it was the first few months of our marriage. Man when we were dating he was the best man there was. Opened doors for me, took me out to dinner, and the sex... omg.. sorry. Then when we got ingaged it was the same, he was wounderful, and the first 4 months of our marriage was just as wounderful. But till that woman came down.
I just have been crying the past few days. Like that un controlable crying.
I have been reading the vs's that you all have been telling me to read and they have been helping. I try to make cleaning a game, I play music (I have done that is the past to.) that seems to help. I do a little be at a time so I'm not over whelmed. But I love this man ans I don't want to leave him, but it just feels like the only thing to do sometimes.
HOW DO I MAKE THIS WORK. I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH ITS HURTS!!!!