I couldn't have won either way you are right... I am going to try and put it all behind me,that is all I can do.

I don't bring the subject of the past up anymore,the girls just want to forget it all and get on with their lives.thinking about it I don't blame them.
Earlier today the one daughter Suzanne who does ring now and again rang for a short chat,it was great,she says she will ring me in the week,so fingers crossed ay!