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Originally Posted by N0help4u

With his record I can't see him getting much more than supervised visits. Go for full custody and have documentation of everything about him.

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I can't see him getting much more... what the hell is wrong with you people? He didn't get 6 felonies in 12 months. She obviously knew. I really don't think he got 6 felonies because he would be in jail a hell of a lot longer than one yr. His mom spoils him? What kind of mom would spoil her kid that has 6 felonies and is hooked on dope? This guy sounds like he has no life and was raised being tortured...

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Originally Posted by jasondbel

i can't see him getting much more...what the hell is wrong with you people? He didnt get 6 felonies in 12 months. she obviously knew. I really dont think he got 6 felonies because he would be in jail a hell of a lot longer than one yr. His mom spoils him? What kind of mom would spoil her kid that has 6 felonies and is hooked on dope? This guy sounds like he has no life and was raised being tortured...

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I am not sure what you are saying.

Fathers love their kids as much if not more than the mothers there is always exceptions. If this guy wants to be a father you can't stop him. If I at one time had to pay 1100 a month for one child and now I got full custody and she has to pay 25 a week then women need to watch what they say about a baby's father. Its hard for men in this world. A man thinks aobut I want this how am I going to pay for it and a woman thinks I want this who am I going to get to pay for it for me.

Whatever!
That is not the way the law works!

Im saying she knew all about this guys past. Why did she breed with him? Now there is a baby and he is a piece of sh//. Sounds to me the guy doesn't want her she can't stand that now she is slandering him. She is not getting what she wants so now and only now is his past a problem.

Tell us, how does the law work? I went to court the judge asked me if I had proof I said no he said pay your support and shut. Motnhs later I busted up in that house and caught her with guys and cocaine and called the police. They were arrested I showed them the birth cert. and left with my son. Went to court had the proof

Let me see he is on drugs and a felon --GREAT influences for raising a child!
How do you know what she knew of this guys past before she got pregnant? How do you know whether this was his past when she met him or if he did these things AFTER they split?

I may be missing something here but it seems you are reading too much into the story.
I know many teen age girls who sleep around and then find the guy is bad news. It doesn't necessarily make them a bad mom but bad at choices they make whereas he sounds like somebody I wouldn't want my child around and most likely a Judge will see it that way too.

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Originally Posted by jasondbel

tell us, how does the law work? I went to court the judge asked me if i had proof i said no he said pay your support and shut. Motnhs later i busted up in that house and caught her with guys and cocaine and called the police. They were arrested i showed them the birth cert. and left with my son. Went to court had the proof

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Okay so that is what this guy needs to do prove she is an unfit mother and maybe just maybe he can get custody OR maybe the kid will end up in foster care.

Well I certainaly do think this father should have only supervised visits until he cleans himself up. Without a doubt. Im not saying she is unfit that was my story (im lol this is great). Im saying drugs and alcohol is a disease and he needs help. Having a baby can change the worst of people. Make someone flip completely around and do the right thing. We need to find out if he those crimes were committed before or after however is he is in jail now and is only going to be in for 1 yr they didn't all happen in the last 13 months no way. He would be gone for life. So she is exaggerating about his crimes or they have been spread out through out the yrs. And this guy is older. Either way she knew.

I don't think the kid should go to foster care either. I think the girl needs to realize that this is the baby's dad and unless he is a sex offender to shut up and give the guy a chance being a father and quit hating on the guy. See all the males I know are excellent fathers. The girls don't get what they want and now the man is a dirt bag.

The bottom line is she files for full custody and gives reasons she feels he should not have custody, visitations and it is up to the Judge to decide in the end so my point is that it isn't up to her or him what he gets. All they can do is make their points and wishes known to the Judge.

I agree.