Ask Me Help Desk - How to make your mam proud

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I thought I covered this - for the attention. Next you'll set your hair on fire.

Haha, that happened to me when I was younger. Ha, it wasn't funny at the time,but when I look back at it, it is because I don't know how I got my hair near the candle. And I don't do anything for attention.

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Originally Posted by Alty

So your mom knows about the cutting, the molestation, and all your other issues, and sent you to counseling?

But you said she's mad because of something you told her about your life. What other secret could you possibly have that's worse than what you've told us?

As for me being proud of you. Kid, you're not mine, and no I'm not proud of you. I'm not going to lose sleep over anything you've posted here because I've seen it all before, not only in my life, but on this site. If you don't think you have a problem, then why are you posting about all the problems you have? But, bottom line, you're just another poster. You may think your issues and your posts are original. They're not. You're the same as every other teen posting here looking for attention. So don't worry, I'll forget all about you in minutes. You're one in a million, just on this site alone.

You came here for help. Do you actually want help, or are you just looking for more attention? Your posts speak for themselves. I agree with Judy. You just want attention.

But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx

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Originally Posted by bubblegumxox

But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx

And I LOVE your good spelling and commas! Your teacher would be proud of you! I certainly am!

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

And I LOVE your good spelling and commas! Your teacher would be proud of you! I certainly am!

Thanks.

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Originally Posted by bubblegumxox

But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.

I love the passive/aggressive "thank you"... "Thanks for your answers and judgements xxx"

For a person who doesn't care it does appear to be all about the judgments. How sad for someone to cut, leave permanent scars which someday a boyfriend, husband, CHILD will see and question - all to prove she's her own person (or something along those lines).

The other side of this is I can't imagine the pain of this person's mother - a 13-year old daughter with big attitude, apparently unsupervised with loads of time for the Internet, a cutter who brags about it and is proud of her scars, a child posting about needing a boyfriend at 13, a child who can't tell the same story in two places. I would bet the OP's life isn't easy. I would bet the mother's life is worse, much worse.

Sad all the way around.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I love the passive/aggressive "thank you" ... "Thanks for your answers and judgements xxx"

For a person who doesn't care it does appar to be all about the judgments.

The other side of this is I can't imagine the pain of this person's mother - a 13-year old daughter with big attitude, apparently unsupervised with loads of time for the Internet, a cutter who brags about it and is proud of her scars, a child posting about needing a boyfriend at 13, a child who can't tell the same story in two places. I would bet the OP's life isn't easy. I would bet the mother's life is worse, much worse.

Sad all the way around.

Okay.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.

Okay.