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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

i wrote to myself to get the thread going okay and please ask other people for advice i am nervous

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That is NOT how to get a thread going. It makes it look very suspicious. You need to give it time for people to answer.

I also fail to see anything wrong with the advice you have already been given. You have gotten some very good suggestions (including your own). So what haven't you tried them? What are you afraid of? What do you think your mom is going to do?

Guess what. I am female. No mother, but that is a different story. I had to ask my FATHER.

Your lucky.

Would you people stop bagging on me about me starting my thread I get it it was stupid okay now please just shut your faces up and give me advice
(please)

I would actually feel better asking my dad
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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

would you people stop bagging on me about me starting my thread i get it it was stupid okay now please just shut your faces up and give me advice
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First, you need to show some more respect. People here are trying to help you. Insulting them is not going to get you very far.


And I ask you, again, What was wrong with the advice you have received so far? You have gotten some very good suggestions, so why haven't you tried them out instead of acting like you haven't gotten any advice?

Who says I didn't use any of it even though I didn't but I just want a lot of advice before I actually make a decision on what to say
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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

who says i didnt use any of it even though i didnt but i just want alot of advice before i actually make a decision on what to say
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And, again, you have GOTTEN lots of advice. You act like you haven't gotten any. I also asked why you are afraid to ask your mom. You never answered. Maybe if we understood that we could help further.

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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

i would actually feel better asking my dad
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My last piece of advice: Ask your father for a bra.

To cat1864 I can't just ask me dad and not tell my mom because she would find out and then wonder why I didn't ask her and to scott gem why do you care how much advice I get its my profile so just give me advice or don't but pleased stop messaging me about other things besides advice okay I would appreciate that thank you
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Not to smart on the way things work around here but you will soon learn or be gone.

Anyway, Why don't you ask your dad and your mom at the same time. That way you aren't just sitting there with the awkwardness between two of you and they could both help you out. It isn't a thing that will be to embarrassing for you. What are you going to do when you need tampons?

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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

to cat1864 i can't just ask me dad and not tell my mom because she would find out and then wonder why i didn't ask her and to scott gem why do you care how much advice i get its my profile so just give me advice or dont but pleased stop messaging me about other things besides advice okay i would appreciate that thank you
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Give me your mom's phone number, and I will call her. This has gone on long enough. It's just a bra, for pete's sake. Whom do you ask for sanitary napkins?

This is not your profile; it is your thread.

I am not going to give you my number I don't even know you!:(:mad::o
Has your daughter had to ask you to get a bra?:confused::cool::eek:

Oh-em-gee.

This thread is still going.

Just ask your mom:

"Hi mom I need a bra- could we go to the store some time".

THE END

Sarah

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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

to cat1864 i can't just ask me dad and not tell my mom because she would find out and then wonder why i didn't ask her and to scott gem why do you care how much advice i get its my profile so just give me advice or dont but pleased stop messaging me about other things besides advice okay i would appreciate that thank you
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First, I'm a moderator on this site, so I do care when someone comes here and keeps asking for advice when they have already gotten very good advice.

Second, there are only so many ways one can ask about this and you've gotten several.

Third, I wonder why you keep dodging the question about why you can't ask your mom?

So what it boils down to, is I think you may be a troll who is playing games with us rather then being serious about asking for help. And we don't like trolls.

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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

i am not going to give you my number i dont even know you!:(:mad::o
has your daughter had to ask you to get a bra?:confused::cool::eek:

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It's worse than that. I have only sons who always asked me their most personal questions. If I had daughter who asked me about needing a bra, I'd say, "Great excuse for a shopping trip. Let's go!"

That's what parents, especially moms, are for. Why can't you (a female) talk to your mom (a female) about this? You even said she brings it up ("she brings it up all the time").

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Why can't you (a female) talk to your mom (a female) about this? You even said she brings it up ("she brings it up all the time").

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I mentioned this earlier. And am also asking WHY? There is a reek of troll here.

Can you people stop talking like that to me show me some respect please I GET IT OKAY it doesn't matter how much advice I get some people may have some that aren't even on here yet

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Originally Posted by hamsterlovera

show me some respect please I GET IT OKAY

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Respect has to be earned and you haven't earned any. You have disrespected us so why shgould we respect you?

You obviously don't get it. You ask for more advice but when we ask you to explain why you can't ask your mom so maybe we can give more advice, you don't answer.

OK. My turn. Look for a situation where your nipples are poking through your clothing and if possible have mom and dad present.

Now you have a situational setting that needs to be addressed.

e.g.
My nipples are poking through the blouse/shirt/dress, whatever. Do you think it's time for a bra. I feel ("embarrased") like this.

Okay... my turn...

Thread closed. This has gone on long enough.