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Believe me there are lots and lots of mothers out there who don't love their children ore particular children and most times the kids sense it and it can destroy them for life.even if you don't love her,try not to be partial in anything you do.what you do for the other kids do for her so that she won't feel neglected or alone.I know how that feels because I was the unloved child(I am a twin but she loves my twin brother unconditionally and the others)Quote:
Originally Posted by luvyacyabye
It very hard for moms to understand how a mom can't not feel love for one of the children's I have the same feelings for my oldest son I try spending time with him and it dosen't seem to work my son is ADHD his always angry seens he was born he has put me throw hell he was born at 23 weeks he was in the hospital for 4months after he was born when he came home he would cry day an night he would only sleep for about 20 min or 30 min at a time it was crazy I would always tell myself that once he got older it was going to get better but is not it's just worst. I don't hate him is just that I just don't feel the same love that I have for my other 2 chirldren, about a week ago he went out side to ride his bike with out asking and we couldn' fine him for about 20min and my hard felt like it was going to come out of my chest so I know I love him but is just not the same connection that I have with my other 2.
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