You're doing the right thing. It's an upsetting thing when it involves your children whether it's natural or not. It's still upsetting and I think we all agree on that. The first time I find my son doing it I'll probably get sick to my stomach and cry! Even though it's normal it's like them losing their innocence in some way.

Yes, I have to admit, it was devastating, especially since I was the one who caught them and I saw it all. I appreciate all of your help, and sorry if I was a little defensive... it's just a touchy situation!