Teach your child how to have healthy relationships, to be independent and self sufficient.

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Originally Posted by GABBY0124

Teach my child what?

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To be completely dependent on one person and not live life, not enjoy the company of others, not learn the responsibility of a job, not better their life with school... it all depends on how it is taken in.

O.K Thank you for all the opinions!

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Originally Posted by GABBY0124

O.K But everybody is different and i I have goals too but I am just not doing much right now because all of the medical problems i am experiencing which i posted in other posts.

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The only medical problem that you mentioned was your stomach being sore, and having vaginal bumps. If these are your excuses to not pursue life then you never will, you'll just always make excuses why you can't do something.

Sorry but that is not the only thing I mentioned read the one that sayd what's wrong with me?

Hi,My name is Gabby. I have read your posts about Gardasil and I just wanted to share my story with you.I also live in Philadelphia.I had gotten all 3 of the gardasil shots last year and immediately after the 3rd shot in November I got sick.The very next day I was extremely dizzy and just did not feel right at all.I automatically called the ob-gyn where I received the shot and asked her about the reaction I was having and of course she said that it was not related.Not very long after that I was having stomach problems followed by an unusual cold which I had a nose bleed for several days.And followed by that I had a constant pressure headache which I also feel in my face,back pain,mood changes and muscle twitches.I went to my family doctor and he thought maybe it was my sinuses and gave me medicine and antibiotics which did not help.He then gave me steroids which I had a very bad reaction to and ended up in the ER.I finally went to a ENT and found out that my sinuse were fine.After that the doctor said that I have anxiety and gave me meds for that which I did not take because I knew inside that this could not be anxiety.I then had a new symptom heart palpatations and went to the ER for that and told that I was having pvcs probably from anxiety and then I was really frustrated they were just guessing and giving me the easiest diagnosis.I had gotten numerous blood test,chest x-rays,cts of the brain and sinuse,mri of the brain and sinuses,x-ray of the spine and still after all that the only thing that came back was that a had mild scoliosis,tension headaches,anxiety,high cholesterol,and pvcs.None of that helped at all.It is almost one year later and I have not gotten any better or got any answers.I have been to a number of specialist and even changed my doctor and nothing helped.I gave up on all the meds I was given because none of then helped or they just made the symptoms worse.Now everybody thinks I am crazy and does not want to help me.They say its all in my head which I know different.After reading about all of the girls being effected by the shot I really think that's where all my symptoms are coming from and I just want to be back to normal.I am only 19 and feel like I'm 50!Please reply. Thanks,Gabby

There I rewrote it for you now maybe you can answer me!

From what you described you are using it as an excuse. I have a small child broke my anckle 3 times in 31/2 years had 3 surgical procedures and still worked took care of my house and family managed to have friends.

Why is your girlfriend not working what is her illness?

That is personal.

Sounds like you need to see a good therapist. Without your girlfriend

Thanks