She's just trying to help, no need to make it personal.

BTW J_9 I think you handled that very professionally... I couldn't leave you rep, but you deserved it there.

TY Angel. I have 3 teens and a 5 year old. So, I am quite used to this sort of thing.

How did the girl get snotty and deserve a smart remark? She didn't say anything but I know what to do no, thank you. That means she got it, thatnk you for the help. What part of that is confussing?

Sorry Rayne, no one ever said she got snotty. She said she got snotty.

I wouldn't give it time.
If you have a yeast infection - try eating yogurt. It has a live culture (acidophilus) in it that works great for those. It is actually good to eat yogurt when you start an antibotic and continue eating it through the duration and a couple days after - to ward off a yeast infection. Everyone gets them and they are miserable. My first one made me bleed - not fun. I know, TMI!
If you think that is what it is - you can get medication over the counter. Also, don't wear underwear at night - it lets you breath.

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Originally Posted by hnmlces

hi, i am a 14 year old girl who has only had sex twice, this was about 4 months ago, i havent had any sexual activity for about a month and a half now. i wear cotton underwear and i keep myself very well clean. just 3 days ago i went to take a shower and i used a different soap, and i cleaned my vagina with it.. not in it or anything but just the outer parts. the next day i did what i normally do, went to school. by the end of the day i moved a certain way and felt tenderness.. i went home later and checked it out and it seemed a bit red, tender, and itchy. maybe the pants i was wearing rubbed against it..?
the next day it was alittle better but it was still red and itcy, and it one spot it was tender.
i left it alone.
the next day, it seemed to be really dry, around my lips also.. it was peeling a little, not much but it was peeling :confused: still, i left it alone. its alittle itchy still, &still red.

i'm not sure what to do because i have no way of going to a doctor.
maybe i should just leave it alone, not continue to use that soap.. and just give it time?

help please?

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I think it might be the soap if I where you I would use a different soap and tell my mom

Haha wow. All of you get worked up over a 14 year old.
Why would a 40 some odd year old start getting smart with a 14 year old.
Thank you for all your help for those who did help.

:]!

Your welcome and I'm just 15 myself

I think people get worked up because you are 14 and could easily be one of ours.

Haha yeah I think it might have something to do with the soap..
Cause I took a shower earlier today & my symptoms are going away- ish.

They arnt as bad.

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Originally Posted by hnmlces

haha yeah i think it might have something to do with the soap..
cause i took a shower earlier today & my symptoms are going away- ish.

they arnt as bad.

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Well stop using that soap and if it don't stop go to that doc

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I think people get worked up because you are 14 and could easily be one of ours.

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Hah. Maybe?

Be careful what soap you use down there - My GYN. Told me NO SOAP.. at all down there. Which I think is gross not keep clean - so I still do, but it is made for that part.
If the sym. Are still there, but are better after you shower - try taking a bath and soak before you go to bed and then try to air dry - wear boxers.

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Originally Posted by NowWhat

Be careful what soap you use down there - My GYN. told me NO SOAP..at all down there. Which I think is gross not keep clean - so I still do, but it is made for that part.
If the sym. are still there, but are better after you shower - try taking a bath and soak before you go to bed and then try to air dry - wear boxers.

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Thank youuu :]

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Originally Posted by hnmlces

thank youuu :]

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Your welcome

I did the same thing, except I wrote a letter to my mom

My GYN also said to not use soap, he suggested using shampoo instead. Try that. I would like to add that I agree with everyone here. Good advice and very helpful.