Ask Me Help Desk - Why do kittens attack and dig their claws?

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Originally Posted by catgirl101

Okay, Okay!!! I apologized. I'm starting to make friends with her so stop worrying about me and getting in my way!!! :(

This site isn't about making friends, it's about posting advice. But, we do make friends here. Wondergirl happens to be a good friend of mine, as are many of the other people on this site. That's what happens when you post together for years and years and respect each other.

As for getting in your way, well, as long as you post inaccurate information, I'll be there to correct you. You may not care about the advice you give, and whether it's right or wrong, but I do. If you post in the pet forum, and you post bad advice, I'll be "in your way". I won't allow someone's pet to die because you think you have a right to post whatever you want.

I was nice before, but you won't listen, so now the gloves come off. Behave, follow the rules, or be forced to leave. And above all, watch your mouth. Your parents may put up with your mouth, but I won't.

So decide. If you want to stay here, then post responsibly, post accurately, take the criticism you're given since you want to be treated like an adult by posting here, or continue doing what you're doing and be forced to leave. Your choice. Now's the time to show us that your age doesn't matter. Be mature.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

He's a she and has a daughter around your age. Now, here is where you learn how to handle pressure. Name one good way.

Take deep breaths?

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Originally Posted by catgirl101

take deep breaths?

Good! How can you respond to Alty? What can you say to her?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Good! How can you respond to Alty? What can you say to her?

"I understand. I will not continue 'goofing around' anymore. But I won't post on threads with real help."

Oh, WonderGirl read my posts in reply to Alty so you can understand this dialogue.
And did you send me a message? Because I can't read it. It says I have 0 messages.

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Originally Posted by catgirl101

"I understand. I will not continue 'goofing around' anymore. But I won't post on threads with real help."

Oh, WonderGirl read my posts in reply to Alty so you can understand this dialogue.
And did you send me a message? Because I can't read it. It says I have 0 messages.

I'm reading every thread you are posting on. :) I sent you a Friend request, but it might have gotten lost in an alley or a canyon.

Always thank people who are trying hard to help you navigate in this world and on a web site.

I got the request. :)

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Originally Posted by catgirl101

"I understand. I will not continue 'goofing around' anymore. But I won't post on threads with real help."

Oh, WonderGirl read my posts in reply to Alty so you can understand this dialogue.
And did you send me a message? Because I can't read it. It says I have 0 messages.

That's all I asked for. :)

Catgirl, you can learn a lot just by reading the threads on this site, and the answers. You'll see that we don't care what you're age is, if you post bad advice, you'll be told about it. My main concern about your age is your lack of knowledge, and the fact that you wouldn't be able to handle, at your age, the criticism you'll get when you post bad advice. Also, I'm very concerned about some of the content on this site, as it's very adult, and you're a child.

Let me put it this way. I have two kids, I'm a mom, my daughter is 10, and my son is 14. I know all of the regular posters on this site. It trust their advice above all else. I know that if my kids came here, they'd be in good hands. If they asked for advice, they'd get good advice. But, the regulars aren't the only ones that post here. We have people that post here just to shock people, just to post nasty things no one should every have to read.

It worries me that you're here, and that you may read those things. My kids aren't on this site for that reason alone. But here you are, 9, and posting, and I have to wonder, what do your parents think about this? Do they know you're here? Do they know what you could be exposed to? Because I do, and it makes me uneasy. It makes me worry about you. It makes me question if you should be allowed to stay here.