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  • Aug 18, 2009, 06:28 PM
    albear
    On the 'our poor starby' thread M
  • Aug 18, 2009, 06:29 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Omg I'm so sorry. I didn't even give you the link!

    Its on 'our poor starby'

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/lounge...by-343423.html
  • Aug 18, 2009, 06:51 PM
    friend4u178

    Thanks bear :)

    Best to do it like this Jenni , takes you straight to the Post :cool:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/lounge...ml#post1733834
  • Aug 18, 2009, 06:54 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Ahh thank you friend *hugs*
  • Aug 18, 2009, 07:38 PM
    Alty

    I remember that night. I was so shocked to see her pop in. I knew she was still in hospital and had tried and failed to get a computer, so to see her online was shocking.

    I also remember my last conversation with her. I broke down, burst into tears. She kept telling me she'd be okay, but I knew she wouldn't.

    Miss her so much. She was an original.
  • Aug 19, 2009, 12:11 AM
    shazamataz

    I missed that night, saw the post the next day.
    Sad that I missed her coming on here for the last time.

    Still have a lot of good memories though.
    Even though I did only know her for a few months she was still a good friend and made me feel very welcome here.
  • Aug 19, 2009, 12:40 AM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    ... She was an original.

    Yes, she definitely was an original! I just loved the way that she would be so loving and helpful! She also knew, very well, how to give a person a more proper perspective on things. I'm sure that those of you who collaborated with her on this site a lot, know specifics as to what I mean by that last sentence! ;)

    Thanks!
  • Aug 19, 2009, 07:15 AM
    binx44

    I'm really at a loss for words. I was so hoping she'd be the strong starby and pull through it all. I was dreading the day when we got the sad news... seeing the picture of her made the tears really come she looked so happy... Rest in peace starby and may the sun always warm the path at your feet
  • Aug 19, 2009, 09:09 AM
    liz28

    I just heard about Starbucks passing and sorry to hear but I glad she isn't suffering anymore. At least sh eis in a better place and made peace with her family. Also, it is good that she have so many people that cared about her. She might be gone but you will always find her in your heart or you can look up towards the sky. Btw, she was a pretty lady. RIP Starby!!
  • Aug 19, 2009, 04:19 PM
    firmbeliever

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/death-...ml#post1064556
  • Aug 19, 2009, 04:57 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever View Post

    Wow! I never saw that post.

    Wow! It's a bit creepy to see that post and know what we know now.

    Just... Wow!
  • Aug 19, 2009, 05:28 PM
    N0help4u

    Wow that is eerie reading that now
    BUT I do believe that because I have known a few people that said they weren't going to live past a certain age and they didn't.
  • Aug 20, 2009, 07:38 AM
    firmbeliever

    I looked around and found a lot of Starby's posts.. here are some more;

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/psychi...ml#post1190266

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/lounge...ml#post1129914

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...tml#post870401

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...ml#post1312350
  • Aug 20, 2009, 07:48 AM
    Stringer
    Thank you Firm.
  • Aug 20, 2009, 11:02 AM
    Alty

    Today is Starby's funeral.

    Sadly I can't be there, no money to go, too much else on my plate and really, I'd rather meet her family under happier circumstances.

    My thoughts are with her today and her family. I'm sure all of us are thinking of her.

    Love and hugs to all.

    Sadly I have to get ready for my interview.

    Too much today. Way too much. :(
  • Aug 20, 2009, 11:06 AM
    Stringer

    She is already at peace and watching down on us...
  • Aug 20, 2009, 11:09 AM
    Unknown008

    Hugs Alty. The funeral of a beloved one is the 'final stage' in some way. And yes Stringer, I believe our dear ducky is up there, watching :)
  • Aug 20, 2009, 12:19 PM
    jenniepepsi

    You have her funeral in your heart alty... and that means just as much to her as if you could have been there. *hugs* she understands. Don't let it get you down more than you already are.
  • Aug 20, 2009, 01:18 PM
    curlybenswife
    Its taken me days to put my head in here guess I didn't want to admit the trueth and except the news.
    Im with you guys in spirit every day just real life is so dam busy I find it hard to look after anything other than my family and myself.
    Starby was special there is very little doubt about that she never failed to make me smile when I get round to it ill share some of our conversations from Facebook they were always kind of silly and out there but that's the way we liked it.
    Hugs to you all be greatfull for what you have and savor each day and remember to tell those that matter the most you love them.
  • Aug 20, 2009, 02:32 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife View Post
    Its taken me days to put my head in here guess i didnt want to admit the trueth and except the news.
    Im with you guys in spirit every day just real life is so dam busy i find it hard to look after anything other than my family and myself.
    Starby was special there is very little doubt about that she never failed to make me smile when i get round to it ill share some of our conversations from facebook they were always kinda silly and out there but thats the way we liked it.
    Hugs to you all be greatfull for what you have and savor each day and remember to tell those that matter the most you love them.

    "Hugs to you all be greatfull for what you have and savor each day and remember to tell those that matter the most you love them."

    Yes, very true.

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