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  • Aug 25, 2010, 01:59 PM
    Kitkat22
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    Originally Posted by SAVEION View Post
    you know i had only been knowing him for a year in 3 months ( my brother hookep us up) but it seem like the longest relationship i had ever been in i just wonder what was the purpose of me meeting him i wonder was it for me just to have gotten pregnant even though i had a miscarrige maybe god just wanted him to be a father in heaven, cause he wanted to be a father soo bad.

    They're together. When it's your time , what a reunion. You hold on to that.
  • Aug 25, 2010, 02:16 PM
    SAVEION
    Do you think that was one of god purpose of us meeting?
  • Aug 25, 2010, 02:17 PM
    SAVEION
    One thing also is that I have two other beautiful kids of my own.
  • Aug 25, 2010, 02:25 PM
    Kitkat22
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    Originally Posted by SAVEION View Post
    do you think that was one of god purpose of us meeting?

    I believe God has a reason for everything. I know he takes loved ones to be with him and we are left to grieve. A friend who came to the hospital to sit with me when my dad was near death said this; "God doesn't take a Christian home as punishment. He takes them to their reward.

    In the case of your loved ones, I think maybe God took them because he looked into the future and saw something far worse in store for them. He didn't want them to have to endure that so he called them home.
    I also believe if your fiancé was a Christian, he is with the Lord today and he would want you to go on.

    Perhaps there are young people out there who will face the same thing
    You're going through and you can be shelter in the storm for them.
    There is always good that comes out of tragedy.. God Bless
  • Aug 25, 2010, 02:44 PM
    SAVEION
    Thank you and god bless you too. You know I feel the same way almost I feel that god took him when his heart was in the right place because he has had trouble in the past and if god would have let him stay here you never know maybe god saw he was going to do something that would have caused him not to get into heaven, god loves us that much.
  • Aug 25, 2010, 02:48 PM
    Kitkat22
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    Originally Posted by SAVEION View Post
    thank you and god bless you too. You know i feel the same way almost i feel that god took him when his heart was in the right place because he has had trouble in the past and if god would of let him stay here you never know maybe god saw he was gonna do something that would of caused him not to get into heaven, god loves us that much.

    Take care of yourself and you and your children will be in my prayer.
  • Aug 26, 2010, 09:41 AM
    SAVEION
    Thanks katt I will pray for you also.
  • Aug 26, 2010, 10:05 AM
    Kitkat22

    YouTube - "Praise His Name" By Jeff And Sheri Easter - 105k -

    Listen to the words of this song. It has helped me through many trials and hurt in my life. Bless you.
  • Aug 26, 2010, 11:34 AM
    SAVEION
    I just listened to that song and it was really nice, thank you.

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