I've always felt like my coach picks favorites because she is also my P.E. Teacher. At my school if you get over 45 minutes of detention then you are not allowed to play that week. I got 45 minutes of detention and my coach would not let me play 2 games that week. I talked to her the week after the tournament that I had to miss and she said she was sorry and that she would try to make it up to me. But ever since then, there has been tension between us more than there used to be, when we go to games, she plays people who are worse than me while I sit bench. Several of my friends have noticed the tension and several have said that I can play even better than I play when the coach does but me in the game. I think the coach makes me nervous. What should I do so that there is not as much tension, and so that she does not make me nervous.