Is my 18 year brother gay? I've never seen him with a girl,he seems very secretive,and he always listens to girly music.But he loves boxing. Oh yeah he also stays in the shower.

LOL!

Very hard to prove that your brother is gay simply based on this info.

Some guys are happy without women in their life at 18, most teenagers are secretive, lots of males like girly music and a lot of people like long showers. None of these things are really strong indicators that he is gay!

You will find out in time!

This doesn't sound like gay behavior. It could be, but it's WAY to broad to say he is or he isn't. Instead of asking questions like this, you should try to let him know that even if he was gay, things wouldn't change between you because brothers stick together. If he is gay, he will want all the support he can get.

I must say, who cares if he is gay! You would love him regardless, wouldn't you? Is he a good brother? That's all that really matters!

What business is it of yours if he is?

Until you catch him playing butt pirate with another guy just assume he is straight.