I'm in a 4 year relationship. My boyfriend is very stubborn. Whenever we meet, we have a good time chatting, and hanging out, kissing and hugging, but the problem arises when he demands more then that. I'm not yet married to him, so I want to remain pure till my marriage. I don't want too much an extreme physical relationship with him.

Whenever I try to make him understand, he says I don't love him and sometimes he says he wants to die. This habit of his is mentally torturing me. I know what I'm doing is absolutely right. How can I make him understand and how do I overcome this BIG PROBLEM. I now hate my relationship and leaving him is just out of question.

PLEASE HELP ME.

How old are you and how do you not have a long term plan after 4 years? Why can't you dump an immature fellow who has no respect for your boundaries, wishes and beliefs, and tries to guilt you into giving him sex?

The problem is you allow his foolish behavior and give no consequence to them because a serious female would never put up with his behavior nor lead him on for 4 years. So what's the deal this relationship I more important than your own dignity and self respect and you allow this mental torture?

How old are you both and does he wait another 4 years until marriage or NOT? What's the plan? Or is he just a place holder until your husband appears in your life?

Of course dumping him is your solution, setting him free to explore and experiment with his own life, and get all the sex he wants. He damn sure ain't ready to be a husband, or is it you are not ready to be a wife. Or both. Please explain this waste of time to me.