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Genis
Sep 19, 2012, 03:36 AM
I realized that I was bi-sexual when I began checking girls our in 7th grade. I am catholic and right now a few years later, It's all sinking in. I'm in marching band and this summer I met a girl and at first I just enjoyed how without evening knowing each other; we had a lot of things in common, (clothes and style.) We began talking on the last day of band camp and we had A LOT in common and I could tell she liked me as a person, which was good. Then, preformances strated and I added her on Facebook, she began liking and commenting on my status's. I began slowing noticing her beauty, and how perfect she actually is. I got her number and she seemed happy to give it. We texted and I though she wouldn't text me back after that night but at 7:00 am, she did just to tell me have a good day. Oh and she asked me to hang out with her two times before this and I did. We talked, and couldn't stop; it wasn't akward at all.

Then late one night she got into a deep conversation with me and told me she feels like she really actually wants to know me. That she isn't like this with anyone really, I was honored. Every time we text I feel like we flirt, like she said the other night, "where have you been all my life," OKay now no girl I have ever just met says that. We hung out yesterday, she offered and we talked about our lives and how she wants to help me be happy. She brought up what if I was someone's world randomly and would put the subject down. She asked me why I added her and what makes me want to be her friend and I had to lie, kind of. She poked me and told me she really enjoys our time. When she has to leave she never wants to. She's asked me if I was homosexual out of the blue and other questions like what I want on spill it; I know it's her. She's giving up her community band tonight to hang out with me.

She apperently likes someone, but won't say who. She's a ing master piece. I don't want her sex, I don't just want to date a girl because it's the in thing, I want her time and her smile. She's perfect everything about her and I don't know what to do. Should I some how tell her how I feel, or is she just not that into me?

C0bra_M3nace
Sep 19, 2012, 07:10 AM
You never specified but I'm assuming you're a girl as well? See that's the hard part about this whole situation, that you're the same sex. It's very easy to mistake friendly gestures for flirting and romance. I wouldn't necessarily throw the fact that you like her out there just yet. Instead let her know you're bi-sexual so that she isn't blindsided if you decide to confess your feelings to her.

Focus on spending time and getting to know one another, everything else should fall into place. Be careful though because if all she's after is a friend then you can really make things awkward and ruin that friendship by telling her you like her.