Hi my name is sophie,I was with my boyfriend for 2 years. We went through a miscarriage within the first year which was really heart breaking but we got over it, we were like any normal couple, little argument and then we would be fine. But the last few months of our relationship I started feeling really down because quite a lot of people I knew were having babies and I started to feel like I was a failure as a woman. But because of that I started getting at everyone including my boyfriend about everything. After a few month I ended up telling him what was wrong with me for them few month and when I did he left me. I did the normal thing any girl would and I kept saying sorry and trying to ring him and talk to him but I seemed to be pushing him further away. It has been over a month and a half now since we broke up but I still want him back. He sad he could not trust me because I kept it from him and that he still loves me but not like he used to :( I have never lied or cheated and the only reason I kept it from him was because I wanted to sort it myself to try and make myself a stronger person. But what do I do because I miss him so much and I really do truly love him :(

This question reminds me of a very good quote in the signature of a very wise member of this site.


"Life throws tons of obstacles at couples, if you two are built for greatness, you conquer them together. If you two aren't meant for greatness together, you conquer them apart."