Michael261977
Jun 27, 2012, 11:09 AM
I've been in a wonderful relationships with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We are best friends, and live together.
Every year she travels to Europe for work(she is a nanny), and her employers send her off for the last week and a half solo to travel on her own.
Last year, on the final days she was out of touch for two days straight with some guy she met while traveling. She told me everything about him, about he was the only person on the trip who respected her relationship with me and felt comfortable hanging out with. While I found
This disturbing, I trusted her. Well, she is off once again and left her computer open for me to use.
During a history search I came across a quite a few searches on CL for casual encounters m-w in the past 3 months. No biggie, I do it sometimes for laughs as well. I looked deeper and found she had replied to one prior to us dating. I was floored she would do such a thing, but the past is the past so whatever.
Then I came across a photo of her and this guy from her Europe trip last year nuzzling each other with the title"yup" attached to the picture. It could very well be innocent, but I'm confused as to how to handle this information. Now I'm not so sure if she is the woman I think she is.
She begins her solo trip in a week and I'm sick with worry.
Am I over reacting?
Every year she travels to Europe for work(she is a nanny), and her employers send her off for the last week and a half solo to travel on her own.
Last year, on the final days she was out of touch for two days straight with some guy she met while traveling. She told me everything about him, about he was the only person on the trip who respected her relationship with me and felt comfortable hanging out with. While I found
This disturbing, I trusted her. Well, she is off once again and left her computer open for me to use.
During a history search I came across a quite a few searches on CL for casual encounters m-w in the past 3 months. No biggie, I do it sometimes for laughs as well. I looked deeper and found she had replied to one prior to us dating. I was floored she would do such a thing, but the past is the past so whatever.
Then I came across a photo of her and this guy from her Europe trip last year nuzzling each other with the title"yup" attached to the picture. It could very well be innocent, but I'm confused as to how to handle this information. Now I'm not so sure if she is the woman I think she is.
She begins her solo trip in a week and I'm sick with worry.
Am I over reacting?