I had this boyfriend who was crazy over me, would sing me songs on his guitar, wait hours for me after school in the rain and was just proud to be my boyfriend.. I fell pregnant after 5 months of dating him and he just changed into this other person, broke up with me, spoke a lot of crap to his friends and family making them believe that I lied just to get him back.They believed him because they are his family. .

I'd call him a lot to try and resolve things because I was scared I didn't know what to do:( he forced me to have an abortion to the point were I lied and told him that I had one when in fact I never did. He called me ugly names and said he doesn't know why he dated me, and it can't be his child I'm lying. He then threatened me and said if I don't stop calling him and texting him he'd bring his parents to my family.

I knew he was to scared to do that but backed off anyway, and for the past few nights I keep dreaming about him, keep thinking what it would be like if he came back into my life. I eventually had the abortion cause I'm to young for a baby (yes I know I done wrong).

This is 9 months since we broke up, and I still can't go without thinking about him. The past few nights have been the worse because I can't stop dreaming about him. What's wrong with me? Do I need counseling or something? I feel like I'm crazy. Usually I get over guys way under 2 months but this time its different.

Yes this time is very different as you got pregnant within 5 months, had an abortion, and was disrespected, and dumped. Yes this is very different and will take longer to heal than two months.

More like a year and a half after the emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental assault you have been through.

It takes a real long time... 4 years with someone actually took me 6 years.