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Roybelle
Feb 7, 2012, 04:54 AM
I want to tattoo my husband's name on my body and I ask him if he want the same. He agreed but with a little icon only and refused to put my name on his body. I read from internet that only one reason is: the one who doesn't want to to that have some inscure about the relationship if it will break in the future then will be difficult or expensive to remove. Does he love me or not. Is he thinking that our relationship will end in some day, that why? Why he think about that while I feel very confidence to tattoo his name on my body? He had many time broke up with his exes in his past, is that the reason make him decided that?

Roybelle
Feb 7, 2012, 05:04 AM
True love DOES still exist and CAN last “TILL DEATH DO US PART”, and if you are worried about all the what ifs that could happen then maybe you are with the wrong person?

smoothy
Feb 7, 2012, 05:56 AM
Here is a fantastic reason why one should not. Two actually.

#1. Its his body, its his choice, just as your body is your choice... and nobody should pressure someone else to get something they aren't 1000% sure of getting.

#2. Despite the best of intentions in the beginning... almost half of all marriages end in divorce... that leaves you with a tattooed reminder on your body that is expensive and difficult, and in certain cases impossible to remove.

Trust me on #2. Names of children are one thing... but names of boyfreinds, or girlfriends or spouses is another... those might and often will change.

I once dated a woman that had done that... she also tried the laser tattoo removal, that in her case left her with very pronounced Keyloid scars (yes she was white). What has been done can not always be undone.