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boredjonny135
Dec 20, 2011, 02:20 PM
I'm 14 and the girl is 15, is that all right to date? The age difference is 8 months and we're both freshman!

DaniCalifornia
Dec 21, 2011, 05:03 AM
It is okay to date, sure. As long as you don't take it further than kissing, and that the parents approve there's no problem.

X Dani

rikku3464
Dec 21, 2011, 07:01 AM
You you can date. There is no problem. Dude some people are dating from 4 to 6 years apart, which u SHOULD get parents permission for but just a few months that's fine. Just becarfull on what you do, make good decisions, and have fun but not too much fun OK?

SuperstarJoyce
Dec 22, 2011, 04:44 AM
Actually I am 29 days older than my boyfriend.and he thinks that is OK since he love me.and now we are really happy together.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 22, 2011, 11:53 AM
Yes you can date

boredjonny135
Dec 22, 2011, 11:43 PM
I've asked this girl out a few times before and she always said she was busy, and then she promised she would tell me whenever she was free. I asked her again today and she's going on a ski trip with her family and doing family stuff for the rest of Christmas break. Also, she was never really busy, whenever I texted her she would be baking cookies or watching TV. What do I do and does she even like me?

talaniman
Dec 23, 2011, 03:03 PM
She doesn't sound very interested at all. Maybe that's because of your ages, and the texting thing. Have you tried talking over the phone?

You will learn more that way than through texting. I don't know what kind of dates you ask her on, but know that a 15 year old seldom can just go hang out with a guy without the parents permission, so her saying she is busy may just be her way of saying her parents may not approve, so try the phone guy, and see how that works.

Don't ask her out, but get to know each other through conversation.