Well my girlfriend just turned 21, and I'm still 20. Well during her Thanksgiving break she went back home, and she had a girls night out, which is OK with me, I don't really care. But I said no guys and she said OK.

Well she just got back to school, and she was acting really weird, when I was around her phone, and I wasn't doing anything just sitting here, and then she got up to take a shower, and get ready for work and she took her phone in the bedroom with her, and she NEVER does that. So I was like screw it and looked at your texts.

She had guys texting her saying we should go to bars and I can pay you back for the beers that I own you, and she said yes definitely. And her best friend said should we invite guy and **** might come. And she I don't care. Well I asked her about the text, and she said that there was no guys, and her friend was talking about her brothers.

I wouldn't make it into a big deal. If she is lying the truth would come out jealousy is not a good thing to have in a relationship. You should trust what she says and leave it at that. It could have been her friends brothers. Do you hang around females when you go out?

You got to relax kid. Jealousy is one of the most pointless and ugliest things on this

The only reason why she portable did tha with the phone is because she knew you would freak

What's the deal she can't go out with boys and her girlfriends? You don't trust her? If that's the case you need re evaluate your relationship and yourself.

Just because they want sleep with her do they get to? No

Get rid of that emotion trust me it does nothing and your mind will make you go insane
I. Use to be jealousy when I was you age and I lost so many relationships due to it

Learn from my mistakes don't control other people don't keep them in a cage where they can't go out with this person because something might happen

Trust me if it's going to happen it will and all the worrying and jealousy will do nothing.

All the best

Why is it such a big deal she party with only girls? Nobody does that and I think she lies, and hides things from you because you make a big fuss about it all the time, not just when she goes home. Am I right?