Well this is my 2nd dilema in 2 months now I'm carry on after my first post ,

Basically my girlfriend of 8 years we have two young girls together, just broke up with me out of the blue and said I made her unhappy ! Well the reason behind this wos she met some one else and finally told me 6 weeks after we broke up because she got spotted and thought it would be best to come from her.

I accepted this it hurt but I kept strong for the girls and started seeing a girl I knew wos still in the early stages but my ex caught wiff of this and begged for me back asking to get married ! Saying its me that she wants so me being stupid took her straight back after nearly 8 weeks of her having nothing to do with me . Now after a week she doesn't want to be with me saying too much has happened and cut me of again ! Now I feel like utter crap again what the hell is she playing at ? And now the girl I wos txting seeing doesn't want anything to do with me , I feel worse now than when I first posted on the forum why did I let her hurt me again with all her broken promises :(

You had high hopes, and jumped at the chance. Most would, and like you without giving it any further thought. Now you know that her intentions were to keep you stuck with no way out. Wonder how she got that whiff of another female?

That confirms what you have been told, be a great dad, and get on with healing, and rebuilding, and never forget the lessons you have learned. Forgive yourself the momentary stupidity. We all would have fell for that one, LOL!!

Thanks again for the advise :) this has got to be the worst 2 months of my life ! I can see she's hurting inside to and keeping a lid on it . I know I'm in for a few more heart breaking months. So wish I didn't go back wos on the mend not by far but a little bit ! Big lesson learnt here is not to go back to get hurt again I'm really fed up to getting hurt .

Just be a good Dad. They are what's important here.

She isn't worth it. I would never take her back after this.

Her actions suck.

She made her bed. Now she can lie in it. Get it, LIE...