This is kind of silly but I'm seriously worried- My boyfriends and I have never had sex. But we do use other forms of pleasure like handjobs and fingering. My boyfriend says there is very very little chance he had wet sperm on his fingers before fingering me, because he had to pull his pants up and mine down so very little chance. I'm getting a few cramps here and there but my period was due a day ago. I'm going through my parents divorce right now and I'm stressed out about this. Is there a chance I'm pregnant?

Nope its not silly. Anytime sperm is around the vaginal area there is a chance of pregnancy.

Is there a big chance in my situation or am I just worrying myself late?

Chances would be slim but there is still a chance, wait and see if you miss your period.

I'm 1-2 days late is that a missed?

1-2 days isn't anything to panic about, if you haven't had it in a week then test but its not uncommon to miss a whole month, you said there is a bit of stress going on at home so this would explain when or if you miss a month. Test next week if its still not here and if your test is negative then just wait until next month and see if it comes.