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Help I'm in love with this married man for 14 yrs he says he loves me and shows it in everyway possible. I never was treated like this by my husband this man is caring understanding listens to me when I speak makes me laugh. He has given me more in 14 yrs years then I got from my husband he tells me without me he is nothing also says that `when we met he knew I was the 1 he never ever felt this way with hs wife. When I am not with him it drives me crazy am I being played for a fool or should I believe in him, I am truly in love with him.alot more but too much to get into

Do you have a question for us or are you just a home wrecker?

Wonder why he stays with his wife if you're the one? 14 years is a long time to be played, and you are still not sure?

help im in love with this married man for 14 yrs he says he loves me and shows it in everyway possible.

If that were the case, he would have divorced his wife and married you.



he tells me without me he is nothing

What do you want to bet he tells his wife that too?



when we met he knew i was the 1 he never ever felt this way with hs wife.

I'm sure he told that to his wife when he met her.

Let me guess. He's told you that they haven't had sex in months or years. She doesn't satisfy him, etc.

I sincerely hope that none of you have children. If you do, they WILL find out and you will be shunned from their lives for a long time if not forever.

I speak from experience. Not as the other woman, but as the wife. Both you and this man are losers and don't deserve the happiness that a true family can give you.


i am truly in love with him.

Tell that to your children if you have any. See how long they respect you.

Is he for real?
No.

He is having his cake and eating it too and you're waiting on the side-lines. Plus - living a lie (dating a married man). Move on.

Yes, just go up to his door and tell his wife you are moving in with them. Or ask her when she will be moving out so you can be with him.

He is using you but if that second best, leaving her bed to be with you, is good enough for you, and you have no self respect then you get what you wanted.