View Full Version : Girlfriend wants to discuss sex.
wtver
Feb 9, 2011, 09:06 PM
Me and my girlfriend are both 17 and we isn't virgins nor its out first relationship, and we date for 2 months. So she says we are having a problem which is sex. We haven't done it or discussed it before. What's there to discuss ? The only thing we said was we don't want it to be a scheduled thing. On my previous relationship, we didn't really talked about it, we would just do it whenever we felt like. I don't really know what to say to her.. Help please. Thank you
Tell her that you aren't ready to be a father right now.
wtver
Feb 9, 2011, 09:20 PM
Lol she knows that. Now seriously
I am being serious as I sit here at work with a teen in labor.
If you aren't ready to be a father you shouldn't be having sex. Sex = babies even with protection.
Fr_Chuck
Feb 9, 2011, 09:37 PM
Agreed, no birth control is 100 percent, so unless you are ready to be a father, you don't need to be having sex.
And normally at 17 I don't give sex advise, but "what is there to talk about? ) for real, you don't really believe that I hope.
You discuss everything about it, what you like, don't like, limits dreams, and more. If you can't talk about it, you don't need to be doing it,