My husband told me he did love me but he is done trying to make me believe it. He wonts a divorce can I get him to love me again and stop the divorce

Why don't you believe him? How old are you? How long have you been married??

Well I was married before and he cheated on me.and treated really bade and I am not very pretty.. I am 34 years old.just 1 year we got 1 son together..

Why don't you believe him, and how long between your first marriage, and this one? More info please!!

It took me 7 years to get married again we were married for 3 years we now got a 10 year old

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If you can give us more background it will help us understand what your needs are.

I understand that your ex-husband hurt you and caused you to have some trust issues. Did you work through those issues and heal before you began your relationship with your current husband? How long have you been in this relationship? Why did you marry him? Has he done anything to cause you to mistrust or not believe him?

I am going to be blunt and say that if you don't love yourself and let him in past your defenses there isn't much hope. Are you open to counseling for both yourself and marriage? Is he willing to go to marriage counseling with you if he sees that you are trying to dismantle the wall you have built up?