Ok I'm the only adopted child in the family. I have 2 nonadopted sisters. My whole family makes fun of me even my parents. My parents make me do all the work around the house. Im 18 and I'm not allowed to date but I'm dating anyway. My sisters don't do anything around the house. They always have freedom and not me. I made contact with my birth parents. I told them about how I'm being treated by my adopted family. At first I was planning on putting myself in a group but my birth parent wanted me to move in with them instead which I already did. Now I have way more freedom. So is it normal.

Does it matter if it's "normal" if it works for you?

I'm sure that your natural parents are excited to see you and there will be a honeymoon period - following that, there are ALWAYS problems with adjustments.

Why did you have problems with your adoptive family?

You are 18, you are free to live anywhere you want.