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Bubbly_Dreamer1
Mar 23, 2010, 03:59 PM
My friend and I been friends since January(spp) and We rarely get in fights. We call each other bffs. And such, but when it comes to boys, she always comes to me for advice, but recently, she has been talking to my ex's step brother. And she is getting information on the boy she's been talking to (lets call him Joe and my ex Bill) so, she's been getting information from bill about joe. And JOE talks about me calling me ugly. Let me qoute exactly what joe said "she's ugly, she has an ugly face, pop tart crusty face, dirry hoe" so when I heard this which was this morning (3/23/10) I laughed, because the day I met Joe, I was eating a pop tart. And so I started thinking about what he called me, and it got too me, I am ugly. And what's messed up is how bill told my friend that joe said that. And all of bill's friend think I am a hoe, because I asked for his friends number, and he had his friend say he had a girlfriend, when he never did. And bill didn't want to sit with my friend today because iw as by her... I don't know. And she always ask me for help, but she'll probably go tell them. Help(:
Alty
Mar 23, 2010, 04:44 PM
How old are you?
This sounds like a teen drama, a he said she said, drama, drama, drama.
Don't let it bother you. You know who you are. You know what you are. They're only doing this to make you angry, your best friends included.
One day you'll realize who your real friends are. Hint. Real friends don't stab you in the back.
Bubbly_Dreamer1
Mar 23, 2010, 04:48 PM
How old are you?
This sounds like a teen drama, a he said she said, drama, drama, drama.
Don't let it bother you. You know who you are. You know what you are. They're only doing this to make you angry, your bff included.
One day you'll realize who your real friends are. Hint. Real friends don't stab you in the back.
14. It is teen drama, but my friends always say I'm a 27 yr old stuck in a 14yr olds body. Lol.
I have a boyfriend who is 17 and he always is telling me ot act my age(: silly. But thanks. I'll keep that in mind
Alty
Mar 23, 2010, 04:57 PM
14. it is teen drama, but my friends always say im a 27 yr old stuck in a 14yr olds body. lol.
i have a boyfriend who is 17 and he always is telling me ot act my age(: silly. but thx. i'll keep that in mind
Fourteen is a tough age. I remember.
Trust me, you'll learn a lot in the next few years and then you'll realize how very little you know now.
Just don't let the small stuff get to you, it's not worth it. :)
If_only
Mar 23, 2010, 08:07 PM
Please babe, don't let it get to you one bit. Ur beautiful and you know it! The words used to describe you are very childish I must say. You really don't need this kind of drama in your life so don't even bother.
Aurora_Bell
Mar 24, 2010, 05:54 AM
I agree with Alty, don't sweat the small stuff. 14 is a tough age.
You true friends won't stab you in the back. Do you have other friends that you could start spending some time with? I wouldn't say totally ditch your BFF, but maybe spread your love around!
Calling someone a poptart crusty face?? Now that is immature. Not even funny. I bet you are beautiful! And don't let anyone tell you any different!
Boys at this age are immature too. And they are going through trying to find themselves just like you are. It's easier for people to lash out and hurt someone else than to deal with their own issues.
Don't put yourself in a situation where someone is putting you down! Life's too short to be upset, and you need to enjoy your youth while you still can! :)
jrayment831
Mar 25, 2010, 08:30 AM
I have a 15 year old daughter, and she goes through friends like tissues. So don't let it get to you, and never call yourself ugly, because beauty comes from within, and only you can believe you are any different. Keep your head up high and find some real friends, ones you can trust.