View Full Version : Should I tell Him?
confuzedgrl19
Aug 19, 2008, 09:54 AM
There is this guy that I have been close friends with, we have so much in common, and I can tell him just about everything. Its been about 4 to 5 months that I've developed stronger feelings for him than just friends. I also feel as though he likes me but I can't really tell. I get so nervous when he's around me and I can't help but smile every time I see him. He makes me happy. I'm just not sure if I should face him and tell him how I've been feeling. Anyone have advice?
CURIOUS08
Aug 19, 2008, 10:00 AM
I'm going through something similar. Trying asking him to go out in a more or less "date" kind of atmosphere... Perhaps flirt with him... cuddling up to him... see how his reactions are.
jjwoodhull
Aug 19, 2008, 10:03 AM
Ask him to do something - just the 2 of you, then see how it goes. If you are still unsure about how he feels then you will have to decide weather or not to tell him how you feel. Think about it. If you never tell him, you could lose the chance for a great relationship. If you do tell him and he doesn't feel the same way things could become awkward.
talaniman
Aug 19, 2008, 10:06 AM
How long has this been going on!
Janmarie
Aug 19, 2008, 12:24 PM
There is nothing wrong with telling a guy how you feel about him only if you are not comming from a place of desperation or neediness. Some guys may like the idea of a girl telling him that...but there are also guys who would prefer to be the one chasing the girl.
Develope your ability to look and see what is appropriate right now. Use your most powerful tool..your intuition. And if you do decide that it is appropriate for you to tell him how you feel do it from a place of confidence within yourself.
talaniman
Aug 19, 2008, 11:47 PM
Have you ever gone on a date, just you two? If so, at who's suggestion?