I recently started talking to this kid and we've hung out a few times and hooked up. I don't know how to tell if he's into me or not. He did say I'm a really chill girl and he wants to see me again. But the thing is he's leaving for college in a month and I don't want to get too attached. How can I tell if he's into me? And if he is how do I have fun with him without getting too attached?

You could always ask, but as you said, if he's leaving for college in a little bit, chances are, he doesn't want to get into anything.

Take it easy, have your own life, don't make him your life. Simply enjoy getting to know someone.

Well I can't give you more reputation, but I agree.

He's starting a new phase of his life right now.

He will be leaving, starting a new phase in life... doubt he wants something serious

Just be his friend and nothing more. Him going away to school would only cause mixed emotions of trying to manage a long distance relationship and always wondering if you still mean as much or enough to him.

What does hooking up mean?


We've hung out a few times and hooked up

Sorry 'bout the age gap. You can be friends, and have fun, if there is no hanky-panky!

Simply enjoy getting to know someone.

Yes,with friendships,it's the best place to start :)

People have been known (after a reasonable length of time) to start relationships
Just by being friends first :)


He's starting a new phase of his life right now.

As for you,"yourcute21" this boy has college as his future...