Guys. Guys. Guys.

I have been reading a lot of posts and see a common thread:

You know you've all done it: We've all done it:
Dated a woman who was a bit off. A bit too moody. A bit too wild. A bit too can't-take-home-to-the-parents.

This is your forum to exchange ideas and survive!


The appeal?

They are:
A challenge.
Fun (while it lasts)
Exciting (in and out of the bedroom)
Someone we think we can win over better than anyone else (we can't)


Some Solutions:

Don't confuse Sex for Love
OR
Tears, yells, or silences as your fault
OR
Any of it is temporary. (she may already be medicated)

SO: Have you been there? Are you there? What got you out of the Crazy Hole?


Cheers -

A

SO: Have you been there? Are you there? What got you out of the Crazy Hole?

Great topic Ash, I only got one word for you... FEAR!! She scared the heck out of me.

Indeed!

I am not sure many people will weigh in... but it is an interesting thing to see and to... survive!

I had a feeling not many would touch this... :-)

My crazy stories... where do I begin?

The Crazy Psycho-B!tch

She was hot. She was WAY out of my league. But we dated. She was fresh out of a relationship... but we dated. 6 months went by amazingly. Then, "she" became someone else. The wholesome "pray every night before bed" and "cooks amazing dinners" became... drinks and parties every night and comes home expecting ME to have dinner prepped (this is after I worked a 16 hour shift and she worked 4 hours)

What got me out?. isn't it obvious? I put all her crap into a storage. Gave her the keys. Pce homie.

The Muffin Girl
I had recently gotten out of a serious relationship of 3 years. She asked me out to lunch, and I figured... it can't hurt. It's just lunch. After 2 - 3 lunches, we met up for dinner. At dinner, (after knowing her for 2 weeks) she looks at me and asks, "So, what are we now?" I put my fork down.

::clears throat:: "um...what?"
"What are we now?"
"we are...friends."
"ok, just checking"

I should have ran for the hills, but I was in need of friends... so I stuck around. A week later, we went out to a movie, then we went for desserts at a local bistro late at night. When we got back to my place (where she was parked), we found her tire flat. Since it was raining, cold, and late, I told her to spend the night and I'd change the tire in the morning. I spent the night on the couch while she slept on my bed. NOTHING happened. The next morning, I wake up to the smell of muffins. Yum. Then I realized, she's cooking breakfast. No big deal... she's saying "thanks" for last night... no biggie.

Then I heard the washer running. I thought, "My roomie's doing his laundry..." nope. He hadn't woken up yet. I looked at her...

"Are you doing my laundry?"
"yeah, I saw your pile and figured you needed it done"
"yeah...but...well, thanks...but...really. I can do my own laundry"
"no, really, it was no trouble"
"ok...but in the future, please. let me do my own laundry"

What got me out of that?. isn't it obvious?

Dressed like a guy
She was sweet, pure, honest, and a nice genuine person... but I was young and worried what others might say... I let that interfere... She wore a pocket protector, boys blue jeans, and cowboy boots. She went by a boys sounding name... I was too worried that people would make fun of me... not much of an interesting story other than I just ignored her and she kept trying to find out what was wrong... still feel bad about myself for doing that...

The Queen I was 18, freshman in college...
She told me I couldn't drive over 55. I couldn't hold her hand when we were alone (only in front of her friends). I couldn't keep smoking. I had to go here, not there, wear this, not that. She was hot, but not that hot. All of those rules before we ever got to the first kiss...

I only had to make one rule to get out of that one... I can't put up with you... never told her, never saw her again... just never called her. Her mom tried to lay some guilt trip on me that I hurt her so badly that she left the state...

The medicine cabinet
She went to my senior prom with me... tall, long blonde hair, fair skin, made my old friends green with envy type of babe... she led them to think that we were hitting the sheets that night!

Well, in the process of the night she started pulling out pills... One for her stomach, some vitamins, one for her skin condition, one so those pills didn't make her anxious... then we ordered a pizza... she ate it and never said a word... then out came more pills... one cause she was allergic to milk, one because the milk pill would disagree with some other pill... I swear I thought I was going to get busted in a drug raid! She must have pulled out about a thousand pills in different bags and had them scattered all over the table at my prom and again at the Pizza Hut... I'm not kidding she told me one was for her not to get sick when we kissed, and one was her birth control... she said this in front of my high school buddies and their dates too!

I took her home, and she held my arm saying I want you to know I had a wonderful time time tonight... I knew I could have gone for the kiss... but all I said was... well, take care of yourself... as I left. Never called her again either...

Fatal Attraction
Went to a drive in with her... the movie Fatal Attraction was playing. I never saw a bit of the movie. Other things held my attention that night. I thought her dad was going to kill me the next day cause we got back to their place at 4 in the morning... I ended up married... eventually... carma bit me in the a$$ cause she decided she didn't want to be married any more and just ended the relationship as quickly as I had with those I had dated in the past... and gave me about the same amount of explanation.

Now that's what I'm talking about.

I knew you fellas had some major data to mine. This is good stuff.

I'll add to the vault soon. Where we go and what we do upon realization that all is not well, is ---interesting...

I had a feeling not many would touch this....:-)Mainly 'cause I've never dated the 'crazy woman', I don't need the hassle and the complication in my life.

The pyscho:

It started as a good person to talk to, fun to be around and great sex. Then it gets more serious. She keeps it secret for a while. Then when she decides it's time to tell everybody it all goes wrong.

She turns pyscho, very off with me in public, slags off my exes for no reason, doesn't sallow me to talk to any other girls. Cheats on me, I stay. She's very moody.

Then eventually I get her pregnant after believing she was taking the pill. But before I find out she's pregnant, (she already knows herself) she dumps me. Tells me she's pregnant a fortnight later. But also tells me she has absoultely no intention of getting back with me whatsoever, because she will be nasty to me all the time.

She tells friends she misses me but is an absloute cow to me in public still. The behaviour gets worse, she hits my female friends, accuses them of trying to get on me!

Then she says he kid's not having my name at all. When I disagree she threatens that I'm no longer coming to scans and not coming to the birth either, and promises she will do her best to make it difficult for me...


To be continued...

Can anyone beat that?! 1

That is definitely one of the more jaw-dropping chapters in this so-far small book.

WOW.

I feel for you man!