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 addicted2dramatics
Oct 2, 2007, 04:13 PM
My friend died a year ago and I still have toublle coping with it. I sometimes have trouble sleeping and I cannot look at the yearbook. His name was Eric and he was a really cool guy. We were good friends and we almost starrted a relationship when it happened. It was a normal day and I went to school but did not see him. During assembly the head came up and told us the news. I cried a couple times and soon I went into shock and forgot all about hiim. I have just now started to remember and I just want ot move on. Any advice?
 Homegirl 50
Oct 2, 2007, 04:19 PM
This is the anniversary date of this happening. It's normal to have this feeling. You should talk to a counselor  and they would give you tips to deal with it.  Are you still in school? They may have someone there you can talk to. I think talking about will help you a great deal.
 KISS
Oct 2, 2007, 04:21 PM
It's part of the greiving process.  I had 3 friends to deal with.  One in grade school was rinding his bike and got hit by a car.  Two in high school.  A friend committed suicide. Another student who was extremely smart got hit by a soccer ball and died.  He had lukemia and didn't know it.  My first experience with death was my grandma at 3 YO.  She died when  was in the room.   The most notable was when we disconnected the respirator from my father and he died about 10 min later.
 
Life is a terminal illness.  Death is part of life.  Grieve.  Move on.