That's terrible Chery!! On the bright side though, if your results came back unfavorable the doctor would have been made aware immediately. So, hopefully everything came back just fine.

Hugs to you dear!!

I knew the kittys would make you smile chery hehehehee they make me grin too it's the one breed I would dearly love to own bengals are so sweet.
Keep smiling hunny xxxx

Morning everyone! Chery, I can't imagine the waiting you have to go through just to find something out. Of course doctors are so busy and so are the staff, but when you call and call can wait and wait you would think they sense your urgency sweet. Here are a million hugs from me to you. :)

With all of your hugs and support, I feel a little calmer now.

Tomorrow, I will have a serious talk with the doc and he will know exactly how upset I was and what I expect from now on.

Thanks again.

/lotsa hugs to everyone, but especially to Chery

Need me to go kick some staff's behinds for you, Chery?

Just popping in to giv eyou some hugs Chery!!

Cheers to everyone else as well :)

Synn... your avatar is wonderful...
Hi Al!
Oh fresh and clean out of the shower. I might even feel like myself again!

I hate job hunting.

Ugh

Sorry to hear about your doctor, Chery. Hugs to you.

How is everyone? I spent most of last week painting, ugh.

I agree with Synn! I hate it too. Blah! But on a brighter note, if you get to check jobs out online, you can check in here more often and we all like that!

What is your line of business, Synn?

/lotsa hugs to everyone, but especially to Chery

Need me to go kick some staff's behinds for you, Chery?

Thanks syn.. I'll do my own kicking tomorrow.

Love your avatar.

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Sorry to hear about your doctor, Chery. Hugs to you.

How is everyone? I spent most of last week painting, ugh.

Grateful for all those hugs, they'll help me maybe sleep a little tonight.

What kind of painting?

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/3/3_2_108.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNfox000) I think body painting is more fun...

I'm an admin, Em. The problem is that my work history has been weird and sporadic, so I have some strange levels of experience in some programs--like NO Powerpoint, but some experience with PeopleSoft, only it was a modified version for the education system.

It's amazing what you can tell about a company from their ads when they're looking for admin/clerical. It's an essential part of every business, but treated in some cases as if any person who can read can do the job.

Painting my new office. It has a window! The window faces a brick wall, but it is a window! Beats the shared office I had.

I did some foam art with my daughter this weekend. She insists the Pilgrim is a Leprechaun because of the hat. So we have a Native American, horn of plenty and a Leprechaun in a black outfit on our kitchen table.

A virtual cornicopia of strange things on your table. Has the Leprechaun given you any crap? I find them to be little smartasses.

Hello all! Hope everyone is doing well. I miss talking to you all. CBW you staying well? J-9 how's school treating you... start, you staying busy? Synn? Everyone else?

Started prenatal arobics last night for my last few weeks... im loving it already.

Have to work 3-11 this week to train with the day crew.. not looking forward to those hours, there is no time for anything else. Will be happy when I'm back to my normal schedule which I have grown to love.

Finally finished the baby room this last weekend, and now I'm just picking up the little things at the stores and putting them in their place.

Well I'm already being beckoned again from upstiars... better start lunch. Have a good day!

Okay, just for an idea, here is one of my test questions... How do I know? One of the instructors told us, LOL. Let's see if anyone can get the answer right...

You are caring for a newborn with nuchal rigidity, a poor suck reflex, and a weak cry. You suspect the infant has:

A) spina bifida
B) Chiari II Malformation (Arnold-Chiari malformation)
C) epilepsy
D) craniosynostosis


Hmmmmmmm, I know which one I'm going to pick.

Now, back to my studies.

All I can offer is to hold the baby and kiss and love it while you nurses do your thing...

I'm going to guess D, because that is the letter I choose when I don't know the answer on multiple choice quizzes.

Very good guesses guys, but the answer is B.

Testing reasoning here (taught to me by my psych instructor) three answers are one or two words, in this case the answer that has the most words is correct. If three answers have 6 words and one has 2 words, the one with 2 is correct.

If 3 answers have the words "always" in them and one answer has "occasionally" well, then that is your answer.

Just some test taking strategy if you ever go back to school.

I am confused but I will survive!

Here's an easy one taken from my test bank that we study from...

The nurse is admitting a young child to the hospital because bacterial meningitis is suspected. Which of the following is the major priority of nursing care?

A. Initiate isolation precautions as soon as diagnosis is confirmed.
B. Initiate isolation precautions as soon as the causative agent is identified.
C. Administer antibiotic therapy as soon as it is ordered.
D. Administer sedatives/analgesics on a preventive schedule to manage pain.

Yeah, I'm taking a break right now. Need one as my head is hurting. I should stop studying so that I don't OVER study (which I do actually have a tendency to do).

My guess is C.

The first two would make you think because of "isolation', but the words "confirmed" and "agent identified" are the catchers. And with the suspecion of meningitis, the child would already be placed in isolation.

Am I right, huh, huh,.

I could use a gold star today.

I called my doctor again this morning and he asked me to come in. So, I went in and he did not tell me anything I did not already know. The tumor is there. The doctor blah, blahd the usual options to be taken, and I stopped him. I do not plan on surgery, chemo, or anything else. I don't plan on spending the last few months or more in any darned hospital.

I believe in Quality and not Quantity and lately the quality part of my life has deminished to the point of no-return.

So, Monday I go back and let him do a few more tests for beurocratic protocol.

He was kind enough to prescribe some valium for me and told me to come see him any time I felt the need.

I'm going to guess "D" because I don't like pain..

YAY! Cheri, you are right!! Good girl...

Cher, you know I would be there with you if I could. Good thing you have your real daughter with you. I too believe in quality vs quantity.

Sorry, Rich, love, 2 points taken off. Cher was correct. And her reasoning was AWSOME!!

Shucks! Taking two off...
I still don't like pain!

J--log into MSN and help me pick on Nos, if you're taking a break :)

My guess is C.

The first two would make you think because of "isolation', but the words "confirmed" and "agent identified" are the catchers. and with the suspecion of meningitis, the child would already be placed in isolation.

Am I right, huh, huh,...

I could use a gold star today.

I called my doctor again this morning and he asked me to come in. So, I went in and he did not tell me anything I did not already know. The tumor is there. The doctor blah, blahd the usual options to be taken, and I stopped him. I do not plan on surgery, chemo, or anything else. I don't plan on spending the last few months or more in any darned hospital.

I belive in Quality and not Quantity and lately the quality part of my life has deminished to the point of no-return.

So, monday I go back and let him do a few more tests for beurocratic protocol.

He was kind enough to prescribe some valium for me and told me to come see him any time I felt the need.
I love you Chery

I love you too, Chery.

Good for you for deciding how to live your own life.

I'd love to log into MSN right now, but got to go do the hair and makeup, Rae has a playoff game to cheer at and they are doing a new dance routine. I got to show up till half time, then a friend will bring her home.

Well, I agree that's way more important! Cheer on Rae for me too!

They are doing a new dance to "Do The Superman" or something like that. I'll stay till halftime as they are in the Conference. Our team is UNDEFEATED!!

Yay Cardinals!!

J_9, start, CBW, and synn..
Thanks for all the good vibes.

Yes, I do have my daughter here and she is a lot of help. What makes me sad is that she is trying to be so strong, as always, when in reality I know she hurts. She thinks she has to be the pillar of strength for work, Alex, her guy, and me. I just hope that when it's time for her to need someone, I can still be there. I made her promise that she will see a colleague of mine here and hope she goes to see him soon.

Thanks for the gold star, Janine. It helps to know that I have not lost it.

Love you all.
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P.S. that valium is working fine - I slept for 6 hours last night.
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Hugs darling Chery you know everything will work out in the end one way or another your daughter will be just fine especially if she has your will and power xxxx

I will probably also furnish you with her email address via PM so that she gets a chance to meet my 'other family' and benefit by being a part of it.

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Hehehehehe I don't mind :D I like talking ;) need to go sort madams lunch I haven't the foggiest what to give her today mind you...

Chery, 6 hours is GREAT! Happy for you... and hey, remember your daughter loves you... and all of us here... :)
CBW... mornin what are you feeding Millie?

We had chips and grated cheese lol

Yum... I call those cheesy chips... and the kids eat them up as fast as a piece of candy!
J... hope your test is going well...

Ah I don't put the cheese on them I don't like it has to be on the side lol

Test went well. Just waiting for the results. I HATE waiting!!

I hate it too... I am finishing and sending your thingy... I am sending it in the morning, I will send it urgently... I hope it gets there, I will be very disappointed if it doesn't

Sweetie, if it doesn't get here in time, that's okay, I can send it to them. I will be buying another gift as well.

We usually have a spaghetti cook-off when they come here, so I am getting a huge soup post and going to fill it with all kinds of pasta, ladles, herbs, etc.

Wooo Hoooo, I passed with flying colors!! Highest score in my study group. 90%, only missed 5 questions. I knew I missed 4, will have to see what the 5th one was.

Ha that's great doesn't mean you don't need to study twice as hard for the next one though :D
Congrats hunny xxxx

Nice one J, but I will still ban you if you don't get down to some SERIOUS studying for the others.

Next one will be a little tough, but not bad. It's on fluid and Electrolyte imbalance and Acid Base Balance. Had both the last 2 semesters, so still kind of a review.


Nice one J, but I will still ban you if you don't get down to some SERIOUS studying for the others.

I know you will Ben, that's why I lurve you!! :p

Notice I wasn't on as much this time. :cool:

Got more study time in.

J... good thing Ben is here... I would talk to you for hours and hours... LOL

Congrats J! Hope everyone is great!

Congrats, J! My heroine!

I knew I had it in the bag when I answered the first page of the test and thought "You gotta be kidding me!!!" Giggle.

Next test is pretty much a review also and isn't until November 5.

Woohoo! Then you can enjoy the wedding this weekend!

Got to let you know (so you won't worry--I know you people!) I'm going out of town tomorrow through Sunday. I'll be up at the inlaws chopping wood! Yay me! (Not!)

I need to figure out how to link YouTube stuff here at some point, I think!

And I'm on a roll for reds this week! Maybe I should just go back to being quiet in my corner!

GWdXGUz9U_8

Edit: CBW, you're the BEST!

I'm at a roll for reds too. LMAO, I got one cause I wouldn't answer a homework question.

LMAO you should see bens hell he has loads for not answering homework and simply merging q's.
Glad the little crash course helped Synn ;)

Thanks for giving Synn the course!!

Ah, I don't care, I think it's funny actually when a get a reddie from N00bs.

It just makes me mad when I was actually TRYING to be helpful and get one.

When I'm just mad and spouting off, I deserve it, but I actually sometimes put thought into it!

Taken care of... ;)

You rock.

Here's some more weird music!

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Am I eclectic? Yes, yes I am

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WOO HOO... I don't know what is on the page before this one... but damn that's a good song! Woo hoo!

Having fun here... LMAO

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Here's one more before I run off to bellydance

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Will you bellydance for me?

Me too?

Oh man! I just got the news hot off the wire that Kid Rock recently spent one night in Paris. What's up with that cowboy?

Oh man! I just got the news hot off the wire that Kid Rock recently spent one night in Paris. What's up with that cowboy?
What? Kid Rock Rocks!

INXS, Let me give you a little hint: Best dam love making background music on the planet! Something about the drum beat... downstroke 4/4 beat slow time boogaloo babydoll!

My performance is December 2nd. $5 at the door.

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Good morning my lovelys (cackles frantically) I have my mischivious head on today hehehehehehe

Me too CBW. After some more sleep, I feel great.

Drummers... oh yes!

I once was at a Carlos Santana concert with a friend and he was jealous. We sat up behind the band and I was totally mezmerised by that drummer. I creamed my you-know-what that night.

Some other good CFM music is supplied by Bonny James - he's a super saxophone artist.
Then, there is Michael Bolton, before he got his hair cut. Can I Touch You is one of my favorites from him.

Yup, Im a 56 year old who will never grow up.

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Nothing wrong with that hunny growing old is a state of mind anyway ;)

YouTube - Can I Touch You By Micheal Bolton (http://youtube.com/watch?v=dW1I8OB2F4Q)
Here you go Chery...
CBW you in a mood? Ohhhhh good I love you that way!

Kind of funny mood at that feeling like a naughty school kid lol

You want to sneak under the bleachers and make out? LMAO!

Oh sh#t no tongues though mum says ill get pregnant

He he... then we could smoke cigs and hang out real late just to get into trouble... kissing would be a must... LMAO and uh if you hadn't noticed, you are pregnant... ALREADY!

Oh my you guys are too much!

Awww Tus you want to come too?

I am in!

Make sure you have chocolate and crisps too :D

Yum... mmmm

Me too CBW. After some more sleep, I feel great.

Drummers.... oh yes!

I once was at a Carlos Santana concert with a friend and he was jealous. We sat up behind the band and I was totally mezmerised by that drummer. I creamed my you-know-what that night.

Some other good CFM music is supplied by Bonny James - he's a super saxaphone artist.
Then, there is Michael Bolton, before he got his hair cut. Can I Touch You is one of my favorites from him.

Yup, Im a 56 year old who will never grow up.

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Michael Shrieve was that drummer. He really was a great drummer.
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Wow, thank magprob. I couldn't see too much, but I saw his back and all those wonderful moves he made while drumming. A true magician on them there drums, he was.

Not the same feeling in my britches this time, but I'm a lot older now.

I would absolutely freak out if there were no music.

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[QUOTE=Chery]
Not the same feeling in my britches this time, but I'm a lot older now.

Really? After all these years, Goldie Hawn still makes me howl at the moon and hump my masters leg! :p

Oh geeze... oh geeze... ohhhh man... ohhhhh! Just when I think we are getting somewhere... oh geeze...

Thinking you're getting somewhere is just an illusion in the secret garden.

I know... I know...

That's the whole point though isn't it everything is a secret and no one and can tell ;)

I won't tellllll...

Giggle no you better hadn't they will all want to see that email otherwise ;)

LOL... your sis huh... just like you or?

Well, no, I have let the cat out of the bag. Sorry.

Am I allowed to say A-hole on here? CBW anyone?

In your case that's B-hole.

Thjis lady golfer came into the pro shop and told the pro that she just got stung by a bee. The pro asked her where she got stung.
She replied, "between the first and second hole."
"Your stance is too wide." he replied.

Pooey!. A-hole A-hole A-hole A-hole A-hole!!

Repeat after me, arsehole arsehole ;)

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Not the same feeling in my britches this time, but I'm a lot older now.

Really? After all these years, Goldie Hawn still makes me howl at the moon and hump my masters leg! :p


http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/23/23_165_8.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNfox000)Believe it or not, when I was in my twenties I fell for a guy who is still practicing as a Pulmonary Specialist in Laguna Beach. He had red hair and wonderful red freckles. And when I watch CSI Miami, I still have tingles when I see David Caruso. Ironic how both of their first names are David. Does that mean anything?

A red headed Pulmonary Specialist? Well, I'm sure he had to revive you on more than one occasion! :)
Being a redhead myself, I know how that goes. Fire!

Fridays are slow... gosh, laundry done, dishes, counters, tables, laundry again, kitty is fed, beds made, gosh... thanks you guys... made me work my fanny off!

You need to get a toothbrush and Comet and scrubb along the baseboards. Let's go... snap to!

Grrrrr...

A red headed Pulmonary Specialist? Well, I'm sure he had to revive you on more than one occasion! :)
Being a redhead myself, I know how that goes. Fire!

No, I worked for him and also dated him for over a year. He was the best ever! 5 foot 1, but every inch of him was pure power. He also played guitar for me in bed, we had breakfast in bed, etc... he even proposed.. but My mother was against him because he was Jewish. Too bad I listened to her or I'd not have lung cancer now and I'd be living in Laguna Beach. Oh well, I still like redheads.

I sometimes think my daughter is making a mistake with her guy, but I'd never say so to ruin things for her. She's happy and she deserves to be no matter what I think.

TTFN.

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Now, another problem, I have a super cool camcorder but it's PAL... my PC and software work with NTSC, so now I cannot even record Jaime's pregnancy, ultra-sound, or Alexander's first day on earth and put them on a CD for Jaime. I guess I'll just give her the camcorder when I get ready to make my exit. I know there is software that converts, but too expensive for me and I would not have the patience to learn how to do it. Grrrrrrr.

No, I worked for him and also dated him for over a year. He was the best ever! 5 foot 1, but every inch of him was pure power. He also played guitar for me in bed, we had breakfast in bed, etc....he even proposed..but My mother was against him because he was Jewish. Too bad I listened to her or I'd not have lung cancer now and I'd be living in Laguna Beach. Oh well, I still like redheads.

I sometimes think my daughter is making a mistake with her guy, but I'd never say so to ruin things for her. She's happy and she deserves to be no matter what I think.

TTFN.

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Now, another problem, I have a super cool camcorder but it's PAL... my PC and software work with NTSC, so now I cannot even record Jaime's pregnancy, ultra-sound, or Alexander's first day on earth and put them on a CD for Jaime. I guess I'll just give her the camcorder when I get ready to make my exit. I know there is software that converts, but too expensive for me and I would not have the patience to learn how to do it. Grrrrrrr.

You have lung cancer? I am so sorry to hear.

Hey there. It has been a while since I posted. I have an odd question for you all... what is your favorite flavor of ice cream? It is supposed to signify something about your personality and I thought I would let you be my gineau pigs. Any takers?

Ummm, I don't really like ice cream all that much. But I guess if I had to pick (and it's sorbet if that makes a difference) Haagen Das Raspberry Sorbet.

So, what's that tell you?

Ummm, I don't really like ice cream all that much. But I guess if I had to pick (and it's sorbet if that makes a difference) Haagen Das Raspberry Sorbet.

So, what's that tell ya?
Tells me you want to...
I won't even go there... You OK J..

I just love Jalapino marshmellow ice Cream! What does that say about me? That I'm HOT AND STICKY?

Hey, Start!! Mag, be a good boy!!

Well? You good? Too busy? Too... anything... you miss me..

I'll try.

I'll try.
All I hear are lies...
J How are you sweet?

I'm good Start, tired, been busy all day with Mom and showing her around town, etc. Just tired, excited about tomorrow though, so will probably be hitting the bed soon, got a 3 hour drive to the wedding, then a 3 hour drive home. Will be a long day.

It will be a very special day... Wish I could give you some time to relax!

Hehehehehehe it will be a lovely day enjoy it despite the drive xxxx

I just have one question, are Hogwarts sexually transmitted?
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Ummm, I don't really like ice cream all that much. But I guess if I had to pick (and it's sorbet if that makes a difference) Haagen Das Raspberry Sorbet.

So, what's that tell ya?
You are shy, yet emotionally robust, skeptical, detail oriented, opinionated, introverted, and self critical.

Is it right?

I just love Jalapino marshmellow ice Cream! What does that say about me? That I'm HOT AND STICKY?
Nice one... sorry, I couldn't find the personality profile of that ice cream... Thanks for the laugh. I needed it today...

You are shy, yet emotionally robust, skeptical, detail oriented, opinionated, introverted, and self critical.

Is it right?

Only somewhat. I am NOT shy, LOL, emotionally robust, well maybe, skeptical sometimes, well most of the time, detail oriented (I better be as a nurse), opinionated you betcha, introverted NO WAY, self critical on certain things.

Well, the wedding is over and I have a beautiful new daughter in law. I'm so happy!!

Congrats J-9!
Hello everyone... today was the last day of the crazy shift thank god.

Have to drive up to cincy tomorrow to get fitted for a bridesmaid dress (yes at 30 weeks pregnant - it sux) to top it off I won't get to wear it until July 5 , 2008... which will give me enough time to drop the baby weight... lol... why they can't fit me after these last 10 weeks are over, I don't know... but since its vera wang, it has to be ordered far in advance... lol... I can't wait to see the alteration lady's face... should be humorous. Im not that big, I actually stopped gaining weight, but I'm definitely bigger than my typical size 9... lol... and a little fuller in the upper closet if you know what I mean... but I'm there for my best friend so its not like I need to look the best that day anyway... haha. Then we are off to trick or treat at the zoo that night. Woo hoo!

Hope you are all well. I feel llike I have neglected the board so much... :(

Peanut butter and chocolate...
Al I do miss you... If you want you can borrow the bright F-ing orange bridesmaid dress I wore two years ago... no I am not angry about it... just a little embarrassed... Thank goodness I didn't bring my camera... wooo hooo ho!

congrats J-9!
Hello everyone...today was the last day of the crazy shift thank god.

have to drive up to cincy tomorrow to get fitted for a bridesmaid dress (yes at 30 weeks pregnant - it sux) to top it off i wont get to wear it until July 5 , 2008...which will give me enough time to drop the baby weight....lol...why they can't fit me after these last 10 weeks are over, i dont know...but since its vera wang, it has to be ordered far in advance...lol...I can't wait to see the alteration lady's face...should be humerous. Im not that big, I actually stopped gaining weight, but im definately bigger than my typical size 9...lol...and a little fuller in the upper closet if you know what I mean...but im there for my best friend so its not like I need to look the best that day anyway...haha. then we are off to trick or treat at the zoo that night. woo hoo!

hope you are all well. I feel llike I have neglected the board so much... :(
The alterations would be worthy of a good laugh!
You haven't neglected the board! You got a life! Though we've missed you some... Aarr!

She has neglected us rich ;) hehehehehe you know I love you really Al, J I need to talk to you when you get 5 hunn no big rush just stuff to share ;).
I have a question though this garden of ours is looking flipping shabby its time to get the mower out boys and ladys we need to get those bulbs in ;) who is up for some manual labour hehehehehe

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CBW, got you covered. How's it look so far?

Just a few ideas, but someone else will have to mow.

That's what the men are for chery ;) heck they might as well be some dam use right giggle

I can mow... I will mow I mean boss...

I don't mow, LOL. Sorry I let the garden get a little overgrown, but I have been tremendously busy lately. School, Mom, the wedding, time for a vacation for me. LOL

There I go being a man again... screw it I will only do the women's work from now on...
Vacation? Lets all meet somewhere and get lost love...

Hey, Janine, you don't have to do everything... there is a thing called job-sharing and we each can do our bit. That's what friends are for.

You help in so many other ways here, and don't forget you also need a break, lots of rest so that you can pass further tests with flying colors. Sit back for now and watch this garden grow love.

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This garden helps to relieve my stress. It's full of family, fun, and friends. Tests? Nah, don't have to worry about another one of those for 2 more weeks.

Hehehehehehe ooooo yes lets go on a cyber holiday where shall we go...

Thats what the men are for chery ;) heck they might as well be some dam use right giggle

I know there are a lot of good men around, just none of them around where I am right now. My current on is only good for one thing, being the softball for my bat, but I don't want to die in jail.. so I'll let him bide his time and when he gets to those 'gates' he'll be turned back and thrown down the elevator to hell. We all pay eventually, that's my current comfort on the issue.

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Are we going to start talking about men... You don't even want to know...

All men are barstewards some just learn to cover it better than others giggle, just remember we love you though.

EEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeek,

Lol I skipped out on going to get fitted... it will have to wait until next Sunday.. lol... who's up for tahiti?

MMMMMMM won't it be a little warm in our condition Al??

EEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeek,

LOL its OK joe you're a honery women :D

And Ben?

Thats what the men are for chery ;) heck they might as well be some dam use right giggle

I know there are a lot of good men around, just none of them around where I am right now. My current on is only good for one thing, being the softball for my bat, but I don't want to die in jail.. so I'll let him bide his time and when he gets to those 'gates' he'll be turned back and thrown down the elevator to hell. We all pay eventually, that's my current comfort on the issue.

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Men... if we start talking about them, we'd have to start a whole new thread.
I have horror stories you'd wouldn't believe (although, maybe you would).
Maybe just such a thread might give men insight of how not to treat women and would explain why so many of them ask 'what did I do wrong?' or "why is she cheating on me?" I bet we could really tell them what they did wrong and it just might help women in the future if men would only learn from it.

Where would we start? In the kitchen? In the livingroom? In the bedroom? How they act in public?

Don't get me wrong, there have been men in my life who were absolutely wonderful, I just didn't realize it until it was too late.

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Chery,
Start a thread like that.. I am sure there will be a lot of input even from the men:)

Ok, I'll obligate myself for the first post in it, but you guys will have to come up with the title.

So... think of a good one.

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Input from men running out the door lol could be interesting though :D

Attention A-holes
OR ARSEHOLES as CBW... says it!

And Ben?

LOL do I have to include him?

LOL!
"Men,Heres how to please your woman" ;)
I am sure that will get everyone's attention at least!

Is Ben a honery member too;)?

That is way nicer than mine... Go Start... get it done... Go to sleep Firmy!

LOL!
"Men,Heres how to please your woman" ;)
I am sure that will get everyone's attention at least!

Is Ben a honery member too;)?

You can't really include him in anything though fb as he see's all anyway

Oh really!
Now that is a scary thought;)

BOfH is watching my every move... :eek:

CBW, whewwww. What a relief. Proud wants to know why I am considered one of the honery women. :eek: :eek: :eek:

Oh yes nothing he can't see lol

MMMMMMMM that could take some explaining Joe possibly because you spend so much time with us all ;)

OK, I need to do some research now...

Remember how he chased you to get you? What did he do then that he doesn't do now?

What things did he compliment you on and now takes for granted?

Did he fake pride in what you shared with him and now goes uhhuh when you want his opinion?

When did he stop taking you out once a month?

Does he still have that admiring spark in his eyes when you do things together?

There is lots more, but enough for a start. Once these are answered, I'll start the new thread.

Any ideas are more than welcome.

P.S. Joe and Ben, These little trips back in the past are only because we are curious and not just complaining... and you are welcome to comment too.

Yes... it shall ALL start from there sweet...

OK folks, I commented on the first question of the 'initial chase' on the following thread I started.
Check it out and let me know what you think.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/men-there-more-after-initial-chase-read-learn-143213.html
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CORRECTION - It was moved to RELATIONSHIPS... don't know why, now every newbe can see it too, but maybe it will help.
Ben... was I too explicit, or did I do something wrong in posting it?

Hey everybody! I got through my dance competition. Brought home bronze medals in both competitions I danced in. I realized that I am NOT an adrenaline junkie and may be the last feis I compete in. Won't have to worry about it for another year, anyway.

:D Wow... I have been wondering EM... Good job... did you have so much fun sweet? I would love to see if there are pics..

Hey everybody! I got through my dance competition. Brought home bronze medals in both competitions I danced in. I realized that I am NOT an adrenaline junkie and may be the last feis I compete in. Won't have to worry about it for another year, anyway.

Congrats dear. Dancing is a wonderful way of expressing, and keeping physically fit too. After I had my baby 32 years ago, I danced like heck around the house and got my figure back in no time. Wish I could still dance, but I enjoy music just the same.

Thanks!

Photos aren't allowed during the competition, but there was a photographer hired by the Feis committee that was working the crowd. Hopefully when they post the pics, I can show you one.

The girls looked so fantastic in their competition dresses. Adults in our school wear only a white blouse and black pleated skirts. We looked like the waitstaff at the convention center!

Did I tell you that my digital camera was stolen when we went on vacation? I feel like I lost an appendage! I borrowed my boss' camera and snapped these at work. They are identical. The center part is on a spindle and it spins.

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Wow, looks like I missed out on a lot, but a little too tired today to even try and catch up. Got lost on the way to school... Yeah, the same school I have been going to for years now. NO IT WASN'T MY FAULT, lol. Tanker truck turned over and closed the highway, had to go on rural roads, in the pouring rain, and no detour signs to direct us.

You should have taken the little bus to school. That will teach you.

Need some help here!
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/sad-empty-depressed-143794.html

Morning Peeps how are you all this morning?

Bright and bushy tailed.

LOL glad someone is ;)

Well I am off to do some more driving. I drive more when I am on vacation then actually getting here. Arrrg. Lol

Well I am off and running. Hope you all have a great day. Coming Laura you can be bright and bushy tailed too. It is past lunch time for you. Lol (;

Past lunch time and I'm all pooped out giggle have a great day joe xxxx

I woke up all pooped out. Connor found an old glow stick in the garbage and proceeded to try and "break" it last night to make it glow after we put him to bed. Needless to say, he did break it and got all the chemical in his eyes. WE had to call poison control then nearly drown him in the tub flushing out his eyes... fun! He's back to normal now, but Im sure tired...

Oh the glow sticks we have known, the broken ones too... Poor Al, I was up all night with Jett, I think I may need to get him in for some oxygen... if his treatment doesn't set in soon.. Mornin sweet hearts

AA: glad to hear your little one is okay. How scary!

I woke up all pooped out. Connor found an old glow stick in the garbage and proceeded to try and "break" it last night to make it glow after we put him to bed. needless to say, he did break it and got all the chemical in his eyes. WE had to call poison control then nearly drown him in the tub flushing out his eyes...fun! he's back to normal now, but Im sure tired...

Holy crapola what a nightmare thank goodness you guys worked so fast to get him sorted you better be resting you don't need shocks like that.
Hugs and love to you hunn xxxxx

Hi CBW, how is the "wind" any better?

I have made myself into a honery guy I'm farting and belching like one lol

I like hearing about these things... Thanks CBW... make my day every time!

Wow what a night AA!

CBW: Let 'er rip!

Hi everybody else :)

Did you hear about the English boxer whose father had constant diarrhea?
A slap happy chappy with a crap happy pappy.

Again I missed too many pages to even attempt to catch up.

All the excitement is over now. I'm just waiting for the news of being a grandmother. I'M TOO YOUNG TO BE A GRAMMA!! Maybe they'll wait 10 or 15 years.

Again I missed too many pages to even attempt to catch up.

All the excitement is over now. I'm just waiting for the news of being a grandmother. I'M TOO YOUNG TO BE A GRAMMA!!! Maybe they'll wait 10 or 15 years.

Keep wishing... lol...

CBW -yes, I'm glad everything went OK as well, we didn't know it was the glowstick at first, I thought he was having a stroke or something with the way he was acting, convulsing and such, but the woman at poison control assured us it wouldn't cause permanent damage, but said he was probably feeling like his eyes were on fire, I felt terrible. I had some contractions afterwards, but they died off... I did have a spark of worry there for a little while though, I did not want to go back to the hospital.

We went and bought Meet the Robinsons today and just sat there watching it and the rain all day, so I'm well relaxed now.

Im getting to that point where I'm just he crabby pregnant lady now. I try not to say much to my poor co-workers for fear of snapping at one or two of them. I hold my tongue quite a bit lately... Im counting down these last 91/2 weeks... whew.

Emland - congrats on the dancing, the medals are lovely. Wish I had the guts to do something like that.

Well, I should probably stop sitting here and get back to my ads. g'night you all.

Glad you are well Al... I miss you bunches!

Hey! Look! It's the tooth fairy! CHK-CHK... Blammm! Got them.

LOL what happened mag did she ask you for a loan ;)

LOL, CBW!!

Morning crew!!

Hehehehehehe its either that or she turnt him down j ;)

Man... she paid well too...

I know Al there's always one spoil sport isn't there ;)

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A slap happy chappy with a crap happy pappy.
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Chery... you look wonderful today!

Thanks for noticing, I got a new bow for my hair and new lilac shoes. They are so comfy.

How are you doing today?

Headache and need to get things done around here... I am going to PM you later...

headache and need to get things done around here...I am gonna PM you later...

I'll be here. If your headache is allergy related, try some horseraddish, it works wonders.

If you want, you can also IM me..

What else can I do to you... LMAO

what else can I do to you....LMAO

Naturally another big HUG! That seems to work a lot for me lately.

Naturally another big HUG! That seems to work a lot for me lately.
Big warm soft loving hugs coming your way love...

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Oh oh oh and here's another

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And another lol

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Ok ill stop now enough hugs for everyone??

Awww... I love hugs... I wonder if you guys know that... my family gets real sick of me... especially my 13 year old son... awww mom... stop it...

Oh hell now she is going all mushy you women are a nightmare ;)

Not mushy... not now...

Little sugary in here - pass the insulin!

Start and CBW - you have no idea how much you gals cheer me up right now. I love you so much for all those vices and cute pictures. I'll redeem that coupon as soon as possible. Now I got to pack for the hospital, will take my laptop to play games even if I can't get on the net. I get so bored... Will try to be back by Friday, and then on Monday it time to spend a few more days there. I hope they reserve a room because I want to keep some good spices there and not have to lug them around all the time.

Love, Chery
Here is someone I'll miss while gone too, along with you guys.

I get mushy easy too, but I'm too tired today. LOL

Spices Chery?

Chery, postcard is on the way tomorrow... Love you... now go be good and play some games...

Will do mommy, eh... start.

Janine - spices, because the hospital food is yucky! They don't even supply salt and pepper. And, german hospital food sucks.

I'm sure the nurses will store them for me somewhere, they have been pretty nice to me. It's not their fault that I'm sick and not the most cooperative patient. Not really looking forward to going, but oh well.

Ha I know exactly what you mean those 6 weeks I spent in hospital with millie before and after she came out were flipping vile only dam thing they did OK was chocolate and pear pudding with custard I used to send ben out to buy fish and chips and take away when he got there from work the food sucked big time.
We will be thinking of you as ever my lovely I'm sure your a lot nicer to the hospital staff than most just remember we love you xx

Oh WOW, a neighbor of mine that woks in the hospital radiology department just approached me and told me how sorry he was about my condition. He also knows I spend most of my time at home and that I like to watch TV. He ordered a Digital Kabel receiver for me and will have it installed in November so that there will be more programs for me to choose from. I think that was such a nice gesture. It is hard for me when people are nice because I'm not used to it. But it sure makes me feel terribly humble. His mother has also invited me for lunch every day now, when I am home. This is so strange, I don't know how to act.. but deep down I'm grateful as heck.

WOW, Chery, that is really great!! It just shows how much people do care about you.

Heck lady take them up on there offers someone else's food always tastes much nicer when you can't be bothered :D

I'm not sure of their motives, but don't really care right now.

At first I was the american broad who was with a german jerk - the neighborhood had known him when he was first married and how he treated his wife and child.. I guess they felt sorry for me.
Now, I'm the american broad who he dumped and guess they have to show solidarity. No matter for what reason, it feels good to have someone on my side for a change.

Oh WOW, a neighbor of mine that woks in the hospital radiology department just approached me and told me how sorry he was about my condition. He also knows I spend most of my time at home and that I like to watch TV. He ordered a Digital Kabel receiver for me and will have it installed in November so that there will be more programs for me to choose from. I think that was such a nice gesture. It is hard for me when people are nice because I'm not used to it. But it sure makes me feel terribly humble. His mother has also invited me for lunch every day now, when I am home. This is so strange, I don't know how to act.. but deep down I'm grateful as heck.
Oh, chery, so happy for you. Accept the help and love. You give it in so many ways... do it with grace too.
I will do what I can for you from here... you know that right?

You've got nice friends, Chery. Enjoy your cable - stay off the 900 channels!

EM.. no 900 channels here, I enjoy national geographic, sci-fi, cartoons, etc. There are even music channels and I hope I can find some nice jazz. He said if my little TV is not good enough, he'll give me one of his 60 centimeter flatscreen televisions. He's in his early thirties and I know he's not flirting with me, but he's always so polite and helpful.

Start... I know you're there for me no matter how busy you are and how much you've on your' plate. You are my Warrior and you know it. You make my life richer just by being you.

Chery, we are all here for you PEANUT!! ;)

I sure hope you get a signal in that hospital. You need some outside stimulation.

Chery... I haven't been saying much here lately (I, for some weird reason, just don't have much to say in general lately). I do, however, care muchly for you, and hope that your hospital stay isn't TOO tedious.

I'm glad you have good neighbors.

You are often in my thoughts, and always in my prayers.

CHERRY OH BABY
(E. Donaldson)

Oh, Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in need of thee
You don't believe it true
Why don't you love me, too
Its so long I been waiting
For you to come right in
Now that we are together
Is make my joy run over

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah...

Oh Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in love with you
You don't believe I know
So why don't you try me
I'm never going to let you down
Never make you wear no frown
You say you love me madly
Then why do you treat me badly

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in love with you
You don't believe I know
So why don't you try me (try me)
I'm never going to let you down no
Never make you wear no frown
You say you love me madly
Then why do you treat me badly

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah...

ROLLING STONES BLACK AND BLUE ALBUM

Recorded in December, 1974 and in October & November, 1975. Released in 1976 on the album Black & Blue.
Lead Vocal: Mick Jagger Vocal Harmony: Keith Richards Lead Electric Guitar: Ron Wood Rhythm Guitar: Keith Richards Bass: Bill Wyman Drums: Charlie Watts Organ: Nicky Hopkins

For some odd but unknown reason I have visions of mag singing that with a bottle of whiskey in one hand standing in just his underpants over in the fountain lol

Chery...I haven't been saying much here lately (I, for some weird reason, just don't have much to say in general lately). I do, however, care muchly for you, and hope that your hospital stay isn't TOO tedious.

I'm glad you have good neighbors.

You are often in my thoughts, and always in my prayers.

Thank you ever so much. I'm not that religious but am grateful for all the prayers in my behalf right now. I don't know what I would do without all you good folks here on this site.

CHERRY OH BABY
(E. Donaldson)

Oh, Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in need of thee
You don't believe it true
Why don't you love me, too
Its so long I been waiting
For you to come right in
Now that we are together
Is make my joy run over

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah...

Oh Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in love with you
You don't believe I know
So why don't you try me
I'm never gonna let you down
Never make you wear no frown
You say you love me madly
Then why do you treat me badly

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Oh Cherry, oh Cherry, oh baby
Doncha know I in love with you
You don't believe I know
So why don't you try me (try me)
I'm never gonna let you down no
Never make you wear no frown
You say you love me madly
Then why do you treat me badly

Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Whoa, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo, eeyo
Yeeeaah, yeah, yeah, yeah......

ROLLING STONES BLACK AND BLUE ALBUM

Recorded in December, 1974 and in October & November, 1975. Released in 1976 on the album Black & Blue.
Lead Vocal: Mick Jagger Vocal Harmony: Keith Richards Lead Electric Guitar: Ron Wood Rhythm Guitar: Keith Richards Bass: Bill Wyman Drums: Charlie Watts Organ: Nicky Hopkins

Thanks hon. No frown now... I like oldies but goodies.
Love you madly...

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Good Morning, and CBW, I would imagine the same thing...
Synn, miss you lot's
Chery, I am going to get lot's done today in your honor sweet... thinking about you all day today!
Mag... nice song!

Synnen really like your avator.

You know... I don't know if I've posted a single thanks for that.

So... thank you to all of you who have admired my avatar. My friend Tuneses designed it for me, on another board.

The lust one... is that two boys kissing?

It IS two boys kissing!

That was all the girls deciding that the half naked women in the guys' avatars was getting to be too much :)

Synn I see you have come across the wonderful brookeleigh isn't she something else the girl is seriously pushing her luck...

Hmmm, Synn, I have to say I am not that comfortable with the boys kissing, but if they look like that and want to kiss me... well, then OK! Did I just say that out loud... crap, That was meant for MSN... CBW, where are you?

OK, good! For a moment there I thought it was David Hasselhoff Kissing himself in the mirror. Whew! Now that would have really grossed me gagged me out.

The wonderful who?

WHa-Wha-Wha-Wha-WHAT?

YouTube - Kiss - Crazy Crazy Nights (http://youtube.com/watch?v=DKXSamYcL8o)

YouTube - Kiss - Crazy Crazy Nights (http://youtube.com/watch?v=DKXSamYcL8o)

I got to go to my first Kiss concert for my 40th birthday!! Woo Hoo, they were in make-up again!!

I love this one!!

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Hola! Como estas?

I'm sleepy... and I miss my friends...

I'm so happy to see you back. Missed you woman!!

I'm beat too. Been up since 7 this morning and in the hospital till 11, got home at 12:15 and am trying to wind down now to get some shut eye.

How's the new job? How's Connor?

I like the new job and the new shift. I love being home. Connor's good... he has a MRI on Wednesday to look for what's making the nerve in his eye bulge, but otherwise good. I have noticed some slight regression as we get closer to our due date... but nothing I haven't been able to nip in the bud.

I have been really tired this last week, and I'm not sure why, but I hope it ends soon, I have zero energy... probably all the rain...

How's school treating you? Learning lots? Having fun? Family doing good?

You have the rain too? Been 3, almost 4 days non-stop for us. Got Daddy J out building the Ark now, well he is in his dreams, LOL, I'm NEVER awake later than him.

Glad the new job is going so good. I don't know if I could manage 3rd shift (isn't that what you are working?) and kids home during the day.

Your energy zap could be from the pregnancy, happens a LOT in the 3rd trimester.

School is good, thanks for asking. I had clinicals in pediatrics today. Had the cutest little boy tonight. He had MRSA on his bum just like Little J did this summer. Poor guy.

Yep! Its been raining since Sunday...
Not a true third shift... I typically work from 6-1:30 or so... so I still get a good amount of sleep before Connor wakes up (tyipically around 9)...
IM glad clinicals and what not are going good, I know you love working with the kiddos.

Glad you get some sleep, that's an awsome shift you have!!

Kiddos are great, but I still prefer psychos. Oops did I say that?

Lol... as a psycho myself, I thank you! Lol..

I LOVE the psycho's...

It's just so interesting, amazing, and totally misunderstood.

Maybe I just understand them cause I'm a psycho myself. LOL

Takes on to know one... lol.. in know what you mean though.. unlocking the brain and the mystery of it all... fun!

Morning Ladys I so wish I was still in bed what a awfull night hugs to you all xxxxx

You are really getting close to a new thread;)

Morning Ladys i so wish i was still in bed what a awfull night hugs to you all xxxxx

Lots a hug to you too. Why are you having awful nights? I wish I were there to help.
I also dreamt of moving in with start... that was so real, after seeing her pictures.

My brother promised me that I can move in with him once I'm in my Urn. If I get my medical retirement in time I might move there sooner, just a problem with medical insurance. If it weren't for money, I'd be where I really want to be.. in the USA. I would have enough to share rent and utilities.. But I feel I'm 'home' when I'm here on AMHD with my family.

Unfortunately I was born as an illegitimate child to a US soldier here in Germany and would like to get US citizenship (Koreans and Viets get it without problems). I can prove my dad was a US citizen and that my brothers and daughter are also, so maybe I'll still have a chance to go to the 'home' of my heart. I'm a little sentimental right now and thinking of so much I still have to do before I leave this planet.

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Me too, CBW me too... I can't breathe and it stinks.

Cbw... Al... youa re good women to suffer through for the babies...
Chery, come on to the U.S... we can go from there...

I know Al annoying isn't it wouldn't be so bad if my wonderful husband sense the sarcasm I'm really not very pleasant would stop snorring I'm so tierd its untrue my tummy is aching like crazy where he is having major wiggles I feel really low and unloved and I'm seriously ready for a real blazing row of the dam internet, every night I log off and go sit next to himself to get totally ignored I know I'm hormonal and others are dealing with worse but right now this is important to me I feel so dam lonely its weird this has to be the first time in years I've wanted to be with my real family although I know there's no love there.

Oh, CBW, I wish I could come wallow in yourself pity right now as I feel EXACTLY the same way you do. We could wallow together and maybe make each other feel better in the long run. I feel like sh!t today, and just want to crawl under the covers and cry myself to sleep.

Oh man you girls, I am going to pack my bags...

I am soooooo never having any more kids

I will have them for you... if you ever want one...
LMAO... Start get yourself together and bags packed the girlie need you!