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lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:21 AM
Hi, I had my lmp July 12th it lasted until tha 17 I had intercourse using tha pulling out method tha 23rd and 24th and tha 30th 2nd of aug. 4th 5th and 6th my 1st fertile day was tha 23rd through tha 29 or 28th can I b pregnant now?:confused:
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:23 AM
My period is suppose 2 come on tha 8th I had intercourse yesterday going on 2 today using tha pulling out method can I get pregnant 2 days be4 my period is due?:confused:
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:24 AM
The "Pull Out Method" is not reliable at all. Its very possible that you could be pregnant. Wait and see if you have a missed period, then take a home test.
In the mean time, use actual protection to avoid pregnancy and STD's.
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:26 AM
Yes you can be pregnant, whether you used protection or not. No form of birth control is 100% effective. If I am calculating correctly you shouldn't be due for your next period until around August 14th. -correction, august 9th. i apologize- I am sorry to say this, but you are going to have to wait for that next period. If it doesn't come, then you will know you can start testing for pregnancy. Also, if it doesn't come, wait about 14 days after the missed period and take an HPT using your first morning urine. Or you can go to the doctor and get a blood test.
From here it is just a waiting game because you won't really know until you miss a period :)
**EDIT** - Learning is right, the pull out method is not effective. While he may have pulled out during ejaculation, he releases pre-ejaculate throughout intercourse that you or he cannot feel, and it does contain sperm. It is a low count of sperm, but enough to get you pregnant. I always tell people, it only takes one sperm to fertilize an egg.
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:26 AM
Its possible. Not as likely as the day you actually ovulated, but its possible.
The "Pull Out Method" is not really a method at all. It fails most of the time, so use something else like a condom or BCP.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:28 AM
But he didn't nut n me he pulled out n started jerkin then he came could I still b pregnant?
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:28 AM
YES You could still be pregnant.
You can not see sperm, it could be on him or his hands and easily get inside you.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:29 AM
OK
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:30 AM
but he didnt nut n me he pulled out n started jerkin then he came could i still b pregnant?
It doesn't matter if he didn't "nut" in you. He releases "pre-nut" while he is having sex with you. I would suggest getting on some form of birth control or use condoms if you don't want to become a mother.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:31 AM
Me and my partner had sex using tha pulling out method so he pulls out and we lay there I turned around and his penis wit tha nut on it swipes across my vagina yesterday wasn't my fertile day can I still get pregnant?
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:35 AM
Refer back to here please : https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/am-pregnant-116998.html
I don't like repeating myself.
ebaines
Aug 6, 2007, 08:35 AM
There's a term for people who have sex without benefit of a condom or other birth control - they're called "parents." Please investigate a more reliable method than the one you're using!
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:38 AM
Its possible. Not as likely as the day you actually ovulated, but its possible.
The "Pull Out Method" is not really a method at all. It fails most of the time, so use something else like a condom or BCP.
I have a feeling this person is just playing us. I don't like it when this happens.
To the OP, you got answers here, so refer back to here : https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/am-pregnant-116998.html
There is no reason to keep opening threads asking the same question when you have already gotten answers.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:40 AM
Hi, I'm asking this question for my friend sitting right here she had intercourse using the pulling out method when he pulled out she gave him oral but didn't swollow tha she spitted it and her hand and rubbed her vagina (I don't know why she did that but she did stupid huh) she did that 3days be4 her period is due and she wasn't fertile around tha time could she be pergo
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:41 AM
I hope you're having a good laugh at this.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:43 AM
It wasn't a joke I'm dead serious
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 08:43 AM
You can be fertile at anytime of the month. Usually it is two weeks before your period. Anytime there is penetration there is a chance of being pregnant. Precum contains sperm (though very little). If her period is two weeks late I would suggest a home pregnancy test with her first morning urine.
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
YES to all your questions. She could be and you could be. Please look into condoms and educating yourself about these things before you both have sex again.
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
The same applies for your "Friend" as it does for you. Pull out method is not good. Period. No matter who uses it. Aside from the fact there is no protection against pregnancy, there is also no protection against STD's.
You need to at least use condoms. It doesn't take that much time for the man to slip one on.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
Its not late 4 this month its suppose 2 come in 3days but since she did that stupid thing could there have been alive sprem n her saliva
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:45 AM
its not late 4 this month its suppose 2 come in 3days but since she did that stupid thing could there have been alive sprem n her saliva
You can't get pregnant from "swallowing", and by now the sperm is probably dead anyway.
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 08:46 AM
Even if there was it would not be able to make the journey to fertilize an egg. Hence the word penetration.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:48 AM
She says she didn't swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina
You can't get pregnant that way. Ejaculate and pre-ejaculate have to be shot up close to the cervix, which is why only penetration can get you pregnant.
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 08:50 AM
You can not get pregnant that way... however since he penetrated her he could have released precum which the male doesn't feel and that could have gotten her pregnant.
Based on the questions you are asking you all need to talk to a trusted adult about sex and discontinue having it.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:52 AM
Hi my sister has bv and had intercourse can tha partner get it could she get pregnant still if they had sex unprotected
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 08:53 AM
Would you stop asking these annoying questions... anytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of pregnancy and getting an STD
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 08:54 AM
Can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? Does the girl feel it
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 08:56 AM
can men bust and not no it during a pulling out method? does the girl feel it
That is the thing about the pull out method. The male has to have a lot of self control, and you are putting all of your trust into him. There are cases when the male has had an "accident" and accidentally ejaculated inside of the female. He didn't have any control over it. That is why you need to at least use condoms.
If you are referring to pre-ejaculate, yes he does this throughout sex and you or he cannot feel it. It is meant to be a form of lubrication but it does contain a small amount of sperm.
LearningAsIGo
Aug 6, 2007, 08:58 AM
she says she didnt swollow it she just gave oral for like 2sec then wipe her fingers across her vagina
Swallowing it has nothing to do with getting pregnant. Fingers can be enough to get it "up there" Its just too risky, so she shouldn't be engaging in this type of activity without real protection.
Its possible, but not very probable.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 09:01 AM
I was using tha pulling out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:03 AM
i was using tha pullin out method on my fertile 1st day which was 23rd we having sex and he pulls out but there is 2 drops of semen on his leg but he said he busted could it have been inside of me?
If you don't know the answers to any of these questions you have no business having sex.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 09:05 AM
Can you answer tha question please I know but I'm not 2 sure
You are asking for a friend or for yourself. Come out with the truth. We are not here to play games.
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
He could have ejaculated anywhere. That is why you need to stop putting so much trust into men by not using protection. Depending on how young you are, if you get pregnant at a young age a young man might not want to stick around and help you, so you'll be alone and raising a baby. Do you want that?
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 09:07 AM
You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex... if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:08 AM
You need to talk to a nurse or other trusted adult about sex...if you can't understand the basic concept of all the answers you got from all the threads you posted stop having sex. I would go to the nearest planned parenthood and request pregnancy test, and test for every STD.
And then request birth control if you cannot stop having sex.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 09:11 AM
No I wouldn't want that but we been having sex like this 4 2yrs nothing happens I'm 20 yrs old my birthday is today
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
no i wouldnt want that but we been havin sex like this 4 2yrs nothin happens im 20 yrs old my bday is 2day
Well maybe for your birthday you should get yourself some birth control. It will help you in the long run, trust me. There are guys that don't want to stick around and help raise a baby. They feel they have better things to do. I know that sounds harsh, but it is the truth.
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 09:13 AM
OMG can someone kick her off... you are that old and you haven't the first clue about sex... I hope you enjoyed your little game here today... there are some people who really need help and advice please go find something else to do
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:15 AM
OMG can someone kick her off...you are that old and you haven't the first clue about sex...I hope you enjoyed your little game here today...there are some ppl who really need help and advice please go find something else to do
Believe it or not there are actually some people in their twenties that were not properly educated as teens. Some of them don't begin to ask questions until they could already be in a predicament.
lele445454
Aug 6, 2007, 09:15 AM
I do need help and answer or I wouldn't b on this I don't want 2 hurt anybody feelins or be rude so please respect me aight
To get pregnant one needs to have intercourse. Do you know what intercourse is?
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 09:17 AM
The way you are wording your questions and all the threads leaves me to wonder. You need to go back to school and talk to a professional at planned parenthood. Always use protection if you don't want a baby or an STD.
nauticalstar420
Aug 6, 2007, 09:19 AM
i do need help and answer or i wouldnt b on this i dont want 2 hurt anybody feelins or b rude so please respect me aight
I know you are freaked out right now, but you have gotten answers to all of your questions. Just calm down and go back over your previous threads and review them again. You keep asking the same questions, just differently worded.
nbarry
Aug 6, 2007, 09:36 AM
hi, im askin this question for my friend sitting right here she had intercourse using the pulling out method when he pulled out she gave him oral but didnt swollow tha she spitted it n her hand and rubbed her vagina (i dont kno why she did that but she did stupid huh) she did that 3days be4 her period is due and she wasnt fertile around tha time could she b pergo
Hi There
Since youe friend used the pull out method there is still a possibility that she could get pregnant due to pre-ejaculation fluid and also if she is ovulating at the time. Pre- is very potent as well as the semen itself. Also, even though she rubbed the sperm on her vagina, it still may be difficult to determine whether the sperm actually traveled up her vagina. But... she should know that sperm can live up to 2 to 3 days in the womb and survive long enough to make it to the egg. Hopefully she is not ovulating. Avoid unprotected sex 2 weeks before period stops. GOOD LUCK NBARRY MEDICAL TECH, NYC
kp2171
Aug 6, 2007, 09:57 AM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/am-pregnant-116998.html
It's a waste of time and resources to ask the same question over and over.
All of her ridiculous questions have been moved to this post.
jrb252000
Aug 6, 2007, 10:06 AM
All of her ridiculous questions have been moved to this post.
You are my hero!;)
buggage
Aug 6, 2007, 07:48 PM
Even if you don't have much of an education as far as sex ed goes, you owe it to yourself and others you come in intimate contact with to educate yourself. Many schools are falling far behind in their duties to inform kids of every aspect of sex, not just how to put a condom on a banana and how to know if you have an std. (like all I learned in my school) and many parents leave it to the schools to educate their kids in this matter, or for the kids to simply figure it out.however, there are many ways to educate yourself on this subject, and one can't allow ignorance to prevail, simply because you weren't taught it.you can't just live on hopes that it won't happen. However, I might add that it sounds to me as though you and your friend both really want to get pregnant, and are really looking for ways to justify it, pretending to not know the full consequences and pretending to not want it. However, if that was the case, you would not keep having situations over and over like this to be posting. If you truly were scared, you would do something about it. Also, might I just mention, that the whole "spitting and wiping" thing is not only disgusting, but completely unsanitary. Do you know how much bacteria is in your mouth? And if neither of your wanted pregnancy, what would be the point of wiping it down there. Why have him pull out at all if you are going to try and make it happen anyway? Ridiculous. If you really are concerned, EDUCATE yourself. Do you think any of us here were just born with the knowledge that we have? Do you think we learned it all in high school? no. we've done a fair share of furthering our own educations on these matters, because we know it is important to know. Stop coasting, stop having sex until you are educated and responsible enough to under stand the concepts/consequences involved. There is lots more to life then what you are filling it with now. But if you don't stop messing around, taking chances you shouldn't take, you may not be around long enough to find out.