Originally Posted by WallyD321
Right listen up ladies and genitals... gentlmen here comes the advice.
If your girl has never orgasmed before, then she's going to be nervous about it, which is natural. So here's the scenario that I'd go through, you can chop and change it to suit you, or just forget about it altogether if you like.
1: Make her feel special, take her out somewhere, for a bite to eat (And it can be MacDonalds, need not be a £100 ($187) per meal restaurant), is always a good option. N.B. NOT THE MOVIES, you can't have a conversation there!
2: When you get her to your place use some low level lighting (If you don't have dimmer switches just put on a single lamp instead) and some mood music (I always go for either Enrique, Celine Dion or some Jazz), whatever you choose, keep it quiet!
3: Take her by the hand and lead her to the bed, kiss her gently, then go for tongues, then kiss her ears and her neck (Ask the girls on here, they ALL love having their necks and ears kissed) then back to tongues but this time start to rub her through her clothes, keep going for a good 5 minutes to get things well warmed up before you move in for the kill.
Stage 2 - The art of Stimuli Vaginas Digitalis (That's latin for fingering the !)
The technique - ALWAYS start REALLY gently, too hard and fast can kill the mood, things will speed up later! Trace a line around the labia (-Lips) with your index finger slowly, you can keep doing this for 3-5 minutes, no need to rush things! Then we start to concentrate on the clitoris. Now for those who know where the clitoris is, you can move on to the next section, for those who don't, here we go... The clitoris is a small pea-sized object slightly above the opening to the vulva, it's at the top of the . It's usually hidden under a flap of skin, but when a girl is aroused, it protrudes slightly (Much like us blokes do when we're aroused, lol) making it easier for us guys to find it. Now when you do find, don't lose it again, it is the only organ in the whole human body that has the sole purpose of sexual gratification (That's getting off to the normal speaking peeps!). Using your index finger again make tiny little circles gently on the clitoris, after no more than 5 minutes (Usually less than 2) her hips will start to grind, this is your cue to go faster and apply more pressure, after another short period of time her hip movements will increase to a very pronounced extent (That means A LOT!) this is where you use the ace up your sleeve! With the index and middle fingers of your other hand, go into the and make a motion with them as if you were asking someone to 'Come-here' (Or should that be -here, lol) you will find an object about an inch inside that feels like a sponge, this is the G-spot, stroke that, getting faster and faster as you rub her faster and faster... then... Well she'll let you know she's , and probably say a few prayers to god, lol.
Another important point which I'm just going to touch on briefly here, communicate, tell her not to be scared of the feeling when she's about to orgasm, it's one of the greatest sensation that can ever be felt, and it will be one she wants to repeat often once she gets there. It won't hurt at all (Although she may shake a bit after) and tell her that you think it's wonderful she's allowing you to experience her first orgasm with her.
To finish... an old adage... If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
Hope this helps,
Anthony
