I have a question about this sex issue that me and my girl are experiencing. If it means anything, we're both 22 years old and are having sex about 2 times a week (we both still live at our parents' (students in Croatia don't get much money :p), so we don't get as many chances as we'd like to :D ).

My girl experiences some pain at the start of intercourse. She always get's VERY wet (I know it could hurt if she's dry) before we start, but it doesn't seem to help. I'm wondering if it's possible that she can get wet on the outside and not inside the vagina? I guess if it's possible, it could be the reason for pain. Again, I'm VERY positive that she gets very wet on the outside.

We got some lubricant, and she says it helps (pain lasts for much shorter time, about 10 seconds now, she says), but the pain is still there. I know it hurts her, so I go very slowly at the beginning, but pain is still there.

Any other info needed for any ideas on this?

Hi,
Here is a link explaining pain for both men and women. If you scroll down about 2/3 the way on the page, then look under the heading "Women's Sexual Dysfunctions Include:", you will see the first heading is about pain.

http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz...xi_gen_ovw.jsp

It could be caused by a bacteria or yeast infection, according to the information given.
Has she considered seeing a doctor? Might be a good idea if it continues. If it is an infection of some type, it could be cleared up fairly easily with medication.
I do wish you both the best.

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Originally Posted by fredg

Hi,
Here is a link explaining pain for both men and women. If you scroll down about 2/3 the way on the page, then look under the heading "Women's Sexual Dysfunctions Include:", you will see the first heading is about pain.

http://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz...xi_gen_ovw.jsp

It could be caused by a bacteria or yeast infection, according to the information given.
Has she considered seeing a doctor? Might be a good idea if it continues. If it is an infection of some type, it could be cleared up fairly easily with medication.
I do wish you both the best.

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You are right, she did have an infection some 2 months ago, and had it treated with vaginal pills and creams. I guess I'll suggest seeing a gynecologist again.

Thanks!