I am 21 and my partner is 20. Today we loved each other. We never had intercourse. She is still a virgin. Her hymen is intact.
We ensured that one of us be in jeans. She gave me hand job and semen came out. Semen came on both of our hands, She washed her hand with soap properly. She didn't insert her finger in vagina anytime during the course. I took semen from penis with right hand and washed under cold running water and again I took semen which was there on penis and kept my hand under running water. I did like this 3 times but without soap. I was in semi formals so I put shirt inside jeans and wore belt by which my right hand rubbed thoroughly with shirt and jeans. Then I hugged her. We had chocolate and after 5-7 min, I inserted finger in her vagina with my right hand, only middle finger. My nails are short. I feel my hands were dry. Can she be pregnant?

How romantic, so you broke her hymen when you inserted your finger I assume , although it may already be broken from a dozen other ways.

If you do not know this answer, you need to keep it in your pants till you do.

No sperm has to get into her,

I didn't insert finger very deep. No blood came out.Hy hymen still intact. Just half finger inserted.
Thanks for your reply.

Now she vomited 2 times. She said she is having migrain and beause of migrain she vomited. Food that she had in dinner came out. She said this happens when she has migrain.
Do I need to worry?
Thank You

Yes, she may have the flu and you could catch it.

She won't be pregnant, right?

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She won't be pregnant, right?

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Too much detail for me - she gave you a hand job and semen came out? Hmm.

I find it amazing that you can feel her hymen and know it's intact. Hmm.

Yes, as FrChuck said, how romantic. Except, for the break to eat chocolate.

Anyway - what was the purpose of mentioning the chocolate?

If this 'loving' each other happened today, then even her body wouldn't know if she is pregnant or not because it wouldn't have happened yet. Fertilization and implantation take longer than a few minutes and it takes days/weeks for symptoms to occur. I suggest learning more about how pregnancy begins before you play more adult games for which you are obviously not ready.

She probably is not pregnant at this moment. She probably is sick and it is causing her to throw up.

If you are going to panic about pregnancy at this point, then stop playing sexual contact games until you are ready to become a father. Take some time to educate yourselves about pregnancy and birth control. If you don't, this kind of behavior can lead to 'over-excitement' and going farther than either of you are wanting. If that happens and you aren't prepared, pregnancy could very well be a result.

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If this 'loving' each other happened today, then even her body wouldn't know if she is pregnant or not because it wouldn't have happened yet. Fertilization and implantation take longer than a few minutes and it takes days/weeks for symptoms to occur. I suggest learning more about how pregnancy begins before you play more adult games for which you are obviously not ready.

She probably is not pregnant at this moment. She probably is sick and it is causing her to throw up.

If you are going to panic about pregnancy at this point, then stop playing sexual contact games until you are ready to become a father. Take some time to educate yourselves about pregnancy and birth control. If you don't, this kind of behavior can lead to 'over-excitement' and going farther than either of you are wanting. If that happens and you aren't prepared, pregnancy could very well be a result.

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I think the prep for this experience would have turned me off, but that's just me.

I think she's sick from worry and it was her "first time" (presumably) and the OP is a nervous wreck (and she has to bounce off that) - and, of course, the chocolate.

The chocolate was such a nice afterthought. Was it a bribe?

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The chocolate was such a nice afterthought. Was it a bribe?

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No, actually it was an "in the middle" thought.

I'm working on what she got out of the experience.

On a very serious note I find it absolutely frightening that anyone at age 21 would post something along these lines, be worried about pregnancy and think she has pregnancy symptoms within hours. That, and the surprise that semen came out.

Again, this appears to have been a very one-sided "loving each other" experience.

I know she cannot be pregnant in 1 day. I didn't bribe her. She didn't bleed after I fingered her.
She is 100 % sure that my hands were dry when I fed her chocolate.
My concern is can she be pregnant after this act?
Want ans in yes or no.
Thank You

It's very unlikely she is pregnant, but she may not have an intact hymen just because she didn't bleed. Not all virgins bleed during first intercourse (penile penetration). Her hymen may have been broken years ago during sports or running or cleaning house.

Thanks for your valuable ans. We never had intercourse.
It was just oral.
I can't remember my hands were dry or not. My finger nail are very small.
After 5-7 min, I fingered her. She is 100 % sure that my hands were dry after washing semen from my hand.

Regards

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I know she cannot be pregnant in 1 day. I didn't bribe her. She didn't bleed after i fingered her.
She is 100 % sure that my hands were dry when i fed her chocolate.
My concern is can she be pregnant after this act?
Want ans in yes or no.
Thank You

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If there was sperm on your hand and you inserted the sperm into her vagina with your hand, pregnancy could theoretically happen. Doubtful that it would, but it's not impossible. Sperm can live for a lot longer than 6-8 minutes, even if you eat chocolate. ;)

Fact is, she would not be throwing up right after it happened. It would take weeks before she had pregnancy symptoms.

My advice to you is to learn how pregnancy works, learn about sex, learn about the female body, and until you do, keep your hands out of your pants, and out of her vagina!

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If there was sperm on your hand and you inserted the sperm into her vagina with your hand, pregnancy could theoretically happen. Doubtful that it would, but it's not impossible. Sperm can live for a lot longer than 6-8 minutes, even if you eat chocolate. ;)

Fact is, she would not be throwing up right after it happened. It would take weeks before she had pregnancy symptoms.

My advice to you is to learn how pregnancy works, learn about sex, learn about the female body, and until you do, keep your hands out of your pants, and out of her vagina!

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There was no sperm on my hand as I washed in cold running water and wiped it.
I know she cannot be pregnant in 1 day. My only concern is can she be pregnant after this act?
Please go through my post and give the ans. I will be very thankful.
Regards

You do understand her hymen may have been broken already?

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There was no sperm on my hand as i washed in cold running water and wiped it.
I know she cannot be pregnant in 1 day. My only concern is can she be pregnant after this act?
Please go through my post and give the ans. I will be very thankful.
Regards

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I already gave you the answer. Yes, it's possible. Not likely, but not impossible. If there was even one sperm on your hand, that you missed when you washed, then it's possible that she could be pregnant.

But is she? Not likely. You'd have a better chance winning the lottery. But no, it's not impossible.

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You do understand her hymen may have been broken already?

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No. She didn't bleed and she is sure that her hymen is intact. She is not in any sports or anything.

"She is sure." She has never run or cleaned house? And you both have put your fingers inside her.

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I already gave you the answer. Yes, it's possible. Not likely, but not impossible. If there was even one sperm on your hand, that you missed when you washed, then it's possible that she could be pregnant.

But is she? Not likely. You'd have a better chance winning the lottery. But no, it's not impossible.

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Thank You. I washed my hand thrice and while clothing, my right hand rubbed again shirt and jeans for 2-3 min. I 2 believe that my hands were completely dry when I fingered her. She is 100 % sure that my hand was dry.
Is there possibility of a sperm be on my hand?

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"She is sure." She has never run or cleaned house? And you both have put your fingers inside her.

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OK
Thank you

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Thank You. I washed my hand thrice and while clothing, my right hand rubbed again shirt and jeans for 2-3 min. I 2 believe that my hands were completely dry when i fingered her. She is 100 % sure that my hand was dry.
Is there possibility of a sperm be on my hand?

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Anything is possible. Sorry, I can't tell you with 100% certainty that there was no sperm on your hands. You can't either, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this question. Obviously it's possible, or you wouldn't be worried.

But, like I said, it's highly unlikely that she's pregnant. Highly unlikely. Not impossible, but doubtful. Even if you had sperm on your hand it's unlikely.

This has you worried, very worried. That should be a wake up call. That should make you both realize that this is not something you should be doing until you're ready to have a child. So my advice stands, keep it in your pants, and keep your fingers out of her vagina until you learn more about sex, and you're ready to be a father.

As for the hymen. There's no way that you can be 100% certain that her hymen is still intact. Not all women bleed when their hymen is broken. It's very possible that you broke her hymen with your finger. It's also possible that her hymen was torn another way. Falling off a bike, riding a horse, bending the wrong way. She could have been born without a hymen, many women are.

It's obvious that you're from a different country. I'd guess it's a country where virginity is very important. If you end up marrying this girl, or another girl, you should know that bleeding during a girls first time doesn't always happen. Also, the lack of a hymen does not mean that the girl isn't a virgin.

Truth told, you two are having sex. No, you've never put your penis inside of her, but you are having sex. Theoretically you're both still virgins, but logically, you're not. If virginity is important to you, that's an even better reason to keep your hands to yourself and keep your pants zipped.

Good luck.

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Anything is possible. Sorry, I can't tell you with 100% certainty that there was no sperm on your hands. You can't either, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this question. Obviously it's possible, or you wouldn't be worried.

But, like I said, it's highly unlikely that she's pregnant. Highly unlikely. Not impossible, but doubtful. Even if you had sperm on your hand it's unlikely.

This has you worried, very worried. That should be a wake up call. That should make you both realize that this is not something you should be doing until you're ready to have a child. So my advice stands, keep it in your pants, and keep your fingers out of her vagina until you learn more about sex, and you're ready to be a father.

As for the hymen. There's no way that you can be 100% certain that her hymen is still intact. Not all women bleed when their hymen is broken. It's very possible that you broke her hymen with your finger. It's also possible that her hymen was torn another way. Falling off a bike, riding a horse, bending the wrong way. She could have been born without a hymen, many women are.

It's obvious that you're from a different country. I'd guess it's a country where virginity is very important. If you end up marrying this girl, or another girl, you should know that bleeding during a girls first time doesn't always happen. Also, the lack of a hymen does not mean that the girl isn't a virgin.

Truth told, you two are having sex. No, you've never put your penis inside of her, but you are having sex. Theoretically you're both still virgins, but logically, you're not. If virginity is important to you, that's an even better reason to keep your hands to yourself and keep your pants zipped.

Good luck.

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Thank you for understanding my situation and for your valuable ans. I just mentioned about hymen. I am with her from past 2 yrs. I ll keep your words in mind and won't do it again.
Just 1 more thing. I washed my hands and dried. Won't sperms die after that? I googled it and it is said that once hands dry, sperms die.
Sorry to trouble you.
Thank you.

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Thank you for understanding my situation and for your valuable ans. I just mentioned about hymen. I am with her from past 2 yrs. I ll keep your words in mind and wont do it again.
Just 1 more thing. I washed my hands and dried. wont sperms die after that? I googled it and it is said that once hands dry, sperms die.
Sorry to trouble you.
Thank you.

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Sperm can live through a lot. In fact, the vagina is a very hostile environment. In fact, it attacks the sperm. Not a gracious host at all.

If sperm can survive the vagina, long enough to reach the egg and fertilize it, a little water won't kill it. Sorry.

But, again, I really don't think you need to worry. I'd be shocked if your girlfriend ended up pregnant from this incident. If she did, I'd ask you to pick out the winning lotto numbers, because you'd have a great shot at getting them right.

You'd have a higher chance of getting hit by an airplane that fell out of the sky, then you would with your girlfriend getting pregnant from this incident.

Is it possible that you could get hit by that airplane? Anything is possible. But odds are you won't. Odds are she's not pregnant. Play the odds. Again though, I can't say it's not possible, it is. But the odds are in our favor that everything will be fine.

Don't worry about this. Really. I highly doubt she's pregnant. But do learn from this. The fear you're feeling right now, that's your heart and soul telling you you're not ready for this. You're not ready to play these games, take these risks. But really, I doubt this one incident resulted in pregnancy. Not impossible, but really not probable.

Either way, worrying about it really doesn't do any good. So don't worry unless you have something to worry about. But really, do take this as a learning experience. :)

Live and learn. Now you know, you have the information.

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Sperm can live through a lot. In fact, the vagina is a very hostile environment. In fact, it attacks the sperm. Not a gracious host at all.

If sperm can survive the vagina, long enough to reach the egg and fertilize it, a little water won't kill it. Sorry.

But, again, I really don't think you need to worry. I'd be shocked if your girlfriend ended up pregnant from this incident. If she did, I'd ask you to pick out the winning lotto numbers, because you'd have a great shot at getting them right.

You'd have a higher chance of getting hit by an airplane that fell out of the sky, then you would with your girlfriend getting pregnant from this incident.


Is it possible that you could get hit by that airplane? Anything is possible. But odds are you won't. Odds are she's not pregnant. Play the odds. Again though, I can't say it's not possible, it is. But the odds are in our favor that everything will be fine.

Don't worry about this. Really. I highly doubt she's pregnant. But do learn from this. The fear you're feeling right now, that's your heart and soul telling you you're not ready for this. You're not ready to play these games, take these risks. But really, I doubt this one incident resulted in pregnancy. Not impossible, but really not probable.

Either way, worrying about it really doesn't do any good. So don't worry unless you have something to worry about. But really, do take this as a learning experience. :)

Live and learn. Now you know, you have the information.

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Thank You for helping me.

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Thank You for helping me.

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You're very welcome. I hope you've learned something, and that you'll continue to learn. If you have any more questions we're happy to help. :)