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  • Apr 3, 2010, 03:21 PM
    Eelarch
    What makes breasts attractive?
    I am not sure if this is the right topic but its about sexual attraction so here goes..

    As you know most guys find breasts quite attractive so I was having a discussion with one of my female friends about breasts(shes a laugh) and she doesn't know why guys find them so attractive, I couldn't explain to her why they are because I couldn't put it into words, any help about what makes breasts attractive?
  • Apr 3, 2010, 04:33 PM
    QLP

    I know a lot of women, who are straight in every other aspect, who find women's breasts attractive, as well as guys. Heck I even like my own! Perhaps it's something left over from being a baby..
  • Apr 3, 2010, 04:40 PM
    Cat1864

    How old are you?
  • Apr 3, 2010, 11:35 PM
    hollylovesbrandon

    I have heard from a lot of theorists that the female breast represents motherhood and children to a man. It being a human beings basic instinct to reproduce this attracts them to the woman for the sole purpose of populating the species.

    Don't know how true or warranted in fact that actually is but it at least sounds legit. I'm not generally one to give scientific advice but I thought it applied here. :)
  • Apr 4, 2010, 11:22 PM
    Larken85

    I have possibilities.

    1. Breasts are soft and tender.
    2. They are major sexual stimulation areas.
    3. Because we simply just don't have them. :(
    4. they make a woman seem, more like a woman (as we are used to associating breasts with women)
    5. media dictates that breasts are attractive just like they dictate that skinny women are attractive. (in earlier years men liked women with more meat on their bones because that was the norm of what was considered hot.)

    My reason for liking them, the parts individually, soft pillowy texture, and of course because it is a pleasure zone.
  • Apr 4, 2010, 11:32 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by hollylovesbrandon View Post
    I have heard from a lot of theorists that the female breast represents motherhood and children to a man. It being a human beings basic instinct to reproduce this attracts them to the woman for the sole purpose of populating the species.

    Don't know how true or warranted in fact that actually is but it at least sounds legit. I'm not generally one to give scientific advice but I thought it applied here. :)

    I agree with this, I've read studies and seen documentaries on this very topic.

    It's said that men are attracted to larger breasted women because it represents her ability to feed any offspring she has.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 03:21 AM
    Cat1864

    From November 2009:
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Eelarch View Post
    Hello im currently in high school but even now i have a huge intrest in synthetic biology, it would be helpful if anyone knew waht university courses and onwards i would have to do. thanks =]

    Are you 18 years old, yet?
  • Apr 5, 2010, 03:46 AM
    Larken85

    Cat I am not trying to cross you at all. Just interested, why do you ask her age? She isn't asking for sexual advice, she is simply trying to understand why a part of her body is considered attractive. We aren't supposed to answer those questions either?
  • Apr 5, 2010, 04:50 AM
    Eelarch

    To Cat, I'm not sure if it's the same in the US but in Scotland most people stay on for 6th year to gain extra qualifications for their chosen subject. These people are usually 18/19 and I'm 18.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 04:56 AM
    Larken85

    6th year? We only have 4 here... wow is that why we are so... jk
    That is interesting though...
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:46 AM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Larken85 View Post
    cat I am not trying to cross you at all. Just interested, why do you ask her age? She isn't asking for sexual advice, she is simply trying to understand why a part of her body is considered attractive. We aren't supposed to answer those questions either?

    This board is for 18 year olds and up. It doesn't matter what 'advice' they are wanting, if they are 17 or under they aren't supposed to be on this board at all. It gets into legal issues about minors and 'adult' matters. IF he was under 18, I would have asked that his question be moved to a board where younger members can post.

    Eelarch, thank you for answering. From your previous posts, it sounded like you could be in your last year of high school, at least, which would put you at 17 or 18 years of age. I was hoping 18 so I asked instead reporting the thread as a possible underage poster.

    To be honest, I have discussed this question with several individuals over the years and other than erogenous zone and survival of the species, I don't think any one has come up with a definitive answer because it is rather subjective and personal.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:11 AM
    smoothy

    I think they are attractive because they look so damn good. Most of the time anyway. There are always exceptions.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 02:16 PM
    Catsmine

    A favorite author of mine described them as mathematically elegent fifth order functions.

    I personally enjoy the touch and the intimacy.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 04:44 PM
    KISS

    OK, I'll bite.

    Take a random female (I'm male) and only certain parts will stand out as "attractive". You could have a pretty face and be overweight, yet the face is attractive. Hair may be attractive. Leggs may be attractive. Hips might.

    With some body parts, the breasts in particular, they can be dressed up or dressed down. Dressed down: jogging suit and no bra. Dressed up: evening gown. An attrctive breast might be described as "percky" or the entire breast moves with the body. Toned and not saggy.

    It's a part of the female body that can be altered by clothing.

    Sometimes it's not exciting completely naked.

    The other extreme might be "breast men". They may be looking for certain characteristics only.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 04:58 PM
    Alty

    Just to clear up the age issue;

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ality-u-b.html

    It doesn't matter what they're asking, this forum is for over 18 only.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:04 PM
    jmjoseph

    I don't know WHY, but I just DO.

    When I was single, you could have put a nice pair of breasts on a BROOM and I would have danced with it.

    That's just me.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:05 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KeepItSimpleStupid View Post
    OK, I'll bite.

    Take a random female (I'm male) and only certain parts will stand out as "attractive". You could have a pretty face and be overweight, yet the face is attractive. Hair may be attractive. Leggs may be attractive. Hips might.

    With some body parts, the breasts in particular, they can be dressed up or dressed down. dressed down: jogging suit and no bra. Dressed up: evening gown. An attrctive breast might be described as "percky" or the entire breast moves with the body. Toned and not saggy.

    It's a part of the female body that can be altered by clothing.

    Sometimes it's not exciting completely naked.

    The other extreme might be "breast men". They may be looking for certain characteristics only.



    Aaah, that be me.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:10 PM
    Enigma1999

    I am a female and I think breasts are very attractive, not only mine, but "alot" of other women's! It doesn't even matter what size they are...
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:28 PM
    jmjoseph
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    I am a female and I think breasts are very attractive, not only mine, but "alot" of other womens! It doesn't even matter what size they are....

    I'm even attracted to the fact that you find them attractive. THAT'S the allure of the bosom!
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:34 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    I'm even attracted to the fact that you find them attractive. THAT'S the allure of the bosom!

    Absolutley I do...

    There is something about the woman's anatomy that I find sexy! Just this past weekend, my boyfriend and I went to a strip club! Why? Because I think women are attractive! There are so many things about them that I find attractive...
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:39 PM
    jmjoseph
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    Absolutley I do...

    There is something about the womans anatomy that I find sexy! Just this past weekend, my boyfriend and I went to a strip club! Why? Because I think women are attractive! There are so many things about them that I find attractive....

    Me too!

    My wife is cool that way too.

    I've said it once, I'll say it again, God's greatest creation was woman, head to toe.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:42 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    Me too!

    My wife is cool that way too.

    I've said it once, I'll say it again, God's greatest creation was woman, head to toe.

    And see, because I am a woman... I get the best of both worlds!;)
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:50 PM
    jmjoseph

    I don't see how you get anything done. If I had breasts, I would stay home all day and... OK that's just sick.

    I love them and that's enough.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:54 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    I don't see how ya'll get anything done. If I had breasts, I would stay home all day and ......OK that's just sick.

    I love em and that's enough.

    It's called multi-tasking! For example... I am grabbing mine at the same time as reading peoples questions. Lol I am only kidding! :D


    Only kidding... No offence to anyone, please?
  • Apr 5, 2010, 05:58 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    It's called multi-tasking! For example... I am grabbing mine at the same time as reading peoples questions. lol I am only kidding! :D


    Only kidding.... No offence to anyone, please?

    LOL! You just had what Catsmine refers to as an "Alty" moment. :p :cool:
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:00 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    LOL! You just had what Catsmine refers to as an "Alty" moment. :p :cool:

    Lol nice!;) I figured it seemed right! Haha
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:08 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    lol nice!;) I figured it seemed right! haha

    LOL! Just keep in mind that Alty (me) gets into a lot of trouble when she (me) has an "Alty" (me again) moment. ;)

    Don't worry, I'll tell them it was my fault, they'll believe it. I'm a bad influence.

    Case in point, I am now hijacking this thread. :eek:

    I really need help. :rolleyes:
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:10 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    LOL! Just keep in mind that Alty (me) gets into a lot of trouble when she (me) has an "Alty" (me again) moment. ;)

    Don't worry, I'll tell them it was my fault, they'll believe it. I'm a bad influence.

    Case in point, I am now hijacking this thread. :eek:

    I really need help. :rolleyes:

    Thanks Alten! ;):D
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:13 PM
    Catsmine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    lol nice!;) I figured it seemed right! haha

    Actually, an "Alty" moment is when you realize that you're too sexy for the thread.
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:14 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    Thanks Alten!!;):D

    My friends call me Alty.

    Besides, Alten means (old/olden) in German. Let's not go there. ;)
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:18 PM
    Enigma1999
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    My friends call me Alty.

    Besides, Alten means (old/olden) in German. Let's not go there. ;)

    NO NO you are not old! If you are, then I am really old! :D
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:22 PM
    Catsmine
    Go check this out. CM's getting hitched.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/active...ml#post2303262
  • Apr 5, 2010, 06:50 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    LOL! You just had what Catsmine refers to as an "Alty" moment. :p :cool:

    She just gave me a heart attack... :eek::D:):rolleyes: From now on every time I see her post...
  • Apr 5, 2010, 07:24 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    NO NO you are not old! If you are, then I am really old! :D

    I bet I'm older.

    Want to make a wager?

    Anyone else want in on this?
  • Apr 5, 2010, 07:30 PM
    Enigma1999

    Well I am 32. I just assumed you were in your 20's? ;)
  • Apr 5, 2010, 07:48 PM
    ohsohappy

    I think breasts are attractive, there's nothing wrong with that. I also think that (as stated before) it depends on the way it actually looks. I like mine, they fit me. :)
  • Apr 5, 2010, 08:13 PM
    Larken85

    Yes alten you are an intriguing species. Very very intriguing. And I got to totally second the coment from jmjoseph. Totally agree. Had to spread the wealth
  • Apr 5, 2010, 08:15 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    Well I am 32. I just assumed you were in your 20's? ;)

    I love you! You are now in my will. You get everything! :)

    Wait, do you think I'm in my 20's because of my maturity level, or lack thereof? :(

    I'll give you a hint. I was born after 1969 but before 1971. :)
  • Apr 5, 2010, 08:21 PM
    Larken85
    Watch out alten, some of us can't do math lol. You are older than my fiancé. I mean not older but more grown... :D mature... is that a better word :confused: heehee anyway. Annoying? Not all the time, mostly very fun to discover (mentally and physically). :rolleyes:
  • Apr 5, 2010, 08:21 PM
    Alty

    Okay, to get back on topic because I totally hijacked this thread. My apologies.

    I think breasts are interesting. I am female, not gay, not even bi-curious, but I have to admit that a woman with a nice body and nice breasts, I have to take a second look, sometimes a third. ;)

    I myself am large breasted. I actually hate them. They could be a few cup sizes smaller and I'd be very happy. I'm a 32F. Yes, they're home grown. I think it's something in the water here. ;)

    I was a B cup before I had my first child. For some reason breastfeeding didn't shrink them or shrivel them up (that happens to a lot of women). They just got bigger.

    Bras cost a small fortune and because I'm not wide, I'm very narrow (32) I could wear smaller T-shirts if I didn't have these boulders. Instead I have to buy larger shirts and forget wearing a blouse, no button has been invented that can keep these babies under wraps.

    So, big boobs, you, guys love them. The women that have to lug them around, most of them would love a smaller set.

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