After talking to my friend about using a strap-on with her lesbian lover I want to know how do guys feel about a female using one on you? How was the experience?

Also, I would like to hear from females that have used it on their guy.

Any responses are welcome even if your against it or for it.

Thanks for sharing,
Liz

My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)

I had to spread the rep Artlady but that was too funny.

I think my fiancé would do the same. He would be like the road runner. =)

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My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)

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Ditto!!

Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol

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Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol

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In a word... NO!! :eek:

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In a word...............NO !!! :eek:

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Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p

I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!

Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?

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I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!!!!

Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?

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They do like it a little.I think it's a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?

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They do like it a little.I think its a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?

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Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)

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Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)

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artlady agrees: I was going to say yes but the I thought about it and realized how complex it is.Good forum idea and then we can sticky it:)

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I like the idea of posting the question;

Are women more trusting then men.

Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)

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I like the idea of posting the question;

Are women more trusting then men.

Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)

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Dig that.I'm considering it now .O.K. the answer is yes.

For complex reasons that we can explore.. :cool:

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Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)

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I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

No way to back that up with statistics however.

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I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

No way to back that up with statistics however.

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I agree, most guys would say no just out of response rather than even thinking about it. If my wife came to me and it was something she really wanted to try I would consider it. I trust her completely. I feel it is only right to take it into consideration. She has tried things I wanted to do sexually that were not her cup of tea.

As long it is her with the strap on and not a man. Its not the act that makes you gay its who your doing the act with.

For me it has nothing to do about trust , my Ani has a function and that is to regurgitate food ::FULL STOP::

There will be no poo pushing going on with this little black doggy :cool:

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Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p

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Ps:Glad you had a chuckle Artlady ;)

He says NO!!

So far DSM is the only one willing to consider it. That's amazing to me.

Okay girls, how about all of you! How many of us females are comfortable with anal sex? Yes, no, maybe, NEVER! What's your take on it?

Oops. Liz, if I'm totally taking over this thread please tell me, I'll start a new one. I'm bad, so sorry, forgive me? :o

I am okay with anal and I actually was the one that introduce this experience to my fiancé. Before me he never did it.

This might sound weird but when I first did it I thought it would make your butt bigger so that's why I was open to the idea. Than I find out it wasn't true because my butt didn't get bigger. When I told my mother this, after she got a good laugh, she said " I could have told you that".

I like it, just use a lot of lub!!

I can't stand it, too painful.

My first sexual experience was with anal sex. My belief was that anal sex and oral sex meant "still a virgin" which is technically, in my little world, true! ;)

I enjoy anal sex, but do have to say, lots of lube others it will be painful. Also, you have to trust your partner and be completely relaxed with that person.

There are some major hot spots in the rectum. There are a lot of people out there who don't know what they are missing.

TMI? ;)

I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex... TMI!

Well, I've always wanted to try anal and so does my hubby, but there is something that always holds me back.

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I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex....TMI!!

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And that's pretty much what holds me back. XD
I don't think I want to do that while having sex.
That's the last thing I want to worry about while being pleasured.

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and that's pretty much what holds me back. xD
I don't think I wanna do that while having sex.
That's the last thing I wanna worry about while being pleasured.

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I've been having and enjoying anal sex since I was 14 (kids, I don't recommend this, please don't do it, wait, 14 is way too young) and I have never had a bowel movement during anal sex.

Think about it, the whole act of anal sex kind of negates having a bowel movement.

If you really are worried about that (unlikely it would happen, in fact, I'd say impossible) then fast first.

Many people think anal sex is taboo, or it hurts or it's bad for you, if it's done correctly then all of those myths are false.

Really, lots of lube, relax and enjoy! You'll be glad you did.

Wow, am I advertising anal sex on AMHD? Mods, don't kill me. ;)

LOL. I've always wanted to try, but all attempts have been too painful to continue. We used plenty of lube. What does "if its done right" mean?

If it's done right means that you have to be extremely relaxed, willing to experience it. If you are nervous your body will not co-operate and you can hurt yourself or your partner.

Lube is a must, but so is relaxation, otherwise it won't work.

Here's a site I found, read the 5 top tips section, it's accurate. Haven't read the rest, can't say if it is or isn't accurate so reader beware.

Anal Sex Yes: Having Good, Clean, Safe Anal Fun

Thanks Alty

Take a poop 2 hours before and the garage will be empty.

I have to be in a really hot mood but we do occasionally.I like it but it plays havoc with my hemorrhoids.:o

You have to be in a certain mood for this back door action. But yours was funny!

I don't know, I have never tried but I would with the right person. I just had this conversation with a man, he was open to me using a strap on on him. Although this was a hypothetical conversation.

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Synnen agrees: Just hope you feel that way about PITCHING anal sex, too.

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Absolutely Syn :cool:

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Absolutely Syn :cool:

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Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)

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Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)

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Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing?? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

Each to his own I suppose ;)

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Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing??? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

Each to his own I suppose ;)

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Not a bad thing, I was just curious. ;)

Big hug Mmykins. :)

I have tried receptive anal (strap-on or similar device.. ) from my wife-it is something that I enjoy-although she does not like the idea of me receiving-so much.

We have tried anal before (her receiving), and she enjoys it. Not very often though.

Interesting to note, anal pushes her over the brink (orgasm) considering she has never climaxed during normal intercourse-it's an intensely pleasurable feeling..

Very open X.

Well done for being so open minded.

From what I have heard a lot of men couldn't do it. (Whether they admit to wanting to or not!)