I would really like to know why men love getting head so much. Some men would rather get head than have sex so I'm just wondering what is it about getting head.
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I would really like to know why men love getting head so much. Some men would rather get head than have sex so I'm just wondering what is it about getting head.
Servitude,submission to do something with some 'degradation' to it.
Just a thought.
KBC
Because it feels so good!
Not every guy loves head... most guys I know perfer sex rather then head
I agree - sexual intercourse is better - but oral sex is also very stimiulating and pleasurable - both giving and receiving.
Just wondering on the post above... how is oral sex both giving and receiving? How can the girl be getting any stimulation?
Just curious
Isn't it obvious - it's giving when the man performs oral sex on his partner. Many men enjoy receiving oral sex from their partner and reciprocating by returning the favor
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Mixed feelings here...
I've been in a relationship where I never received oral, and desperately wanted it...
Then later in a relationship where I received, for a time, almost only oral, and wound up desperately wanting intercourse...
For me, oral is a completley selfless act... whether its male or woman performing on the other partner... although either can be a nice prep to intercourse.
The sensations are different... as a man, I can say that oral can, if done well, apply more pressure and also be just as lush as intercourse... that said, there is also a loss of contact with the woman's body as experienced in sex.
So... why are men obsessed? It feels awesome. Period. And when we don't get it, it's the thing we know we want for xmas but can't seem to get.
Is it the best sex? Can't answer that. It is unique and it has a proper place in the sexual relationship. I think most healthy sexual relationships don't rely on it and don't deny it.
By the way, do you receive great oral? Only reason I ask is that the women I've been with that were able to get off well orally didn't seem to question the "value" of returning the favor. So is part of the problem that you maybe aren't being satisfied orally?
PLEASE do NOT say can't get hiv by oral!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wrestler171
The rate of infection is generally lower, but "cant" is NOT true!!
Bad, bad answer.
Primary HIV Infection Associated with Oral Transmission | Factsheets | CDC HIV/AIDS
Hello SW:
Well, a chick has about 5 things going for her when she's giving head: she has her lips, 2 hands, all her fingers, a tongue and her teeth. Chicks who are good, use 'em ALL.
She can't do near as much with her vagina (although some can).
excon
And here I always thought it was because they could just lay back and not have to do any work!
I don't like oral unless I'm absolutely sure this she is totally into turning me on and enjoys the sensation of having me in her mouth. Actually, I love to go down on her. I love when she is writhing in extassy (sp?), squezzing my ears with her legs, and pulling my hair. It gives me a rush of sexual power over her that I can totally send her to outer space without using the obvious man-object. Yes I enjoy the whole thing and anal (perhaps topics for other blog-streams) but lots of times I love to dive!
Why do girls like receiving oral? Are you for real? Because-IT FEELS REALLY NICE. I would have thought it was obvious.
It just feels incredible...
Wife would say the same thing. She loves getting it as much as I do. And Like me she really loves to do it as well.
Smoothy, you said to me : "Not if you ever actually went out with a women that new what she was doing."
I am a women, so obviously I never dated one. I am married to a man.
To just lay there, and feel good, oh yeah!!
Some men are turned on by women who will submit to them.
Why do men like head so much...
... hahaa
... why do men like beer so much? Why do men like naked women? Why do men like the new murcielago?
... because it
1. feels good
2. tastes great
3. looks sexy
4. you just want to ride it.
... not in that particular order... for any of them.
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Originally Posted by prettymulatto
Confused?? What is submisive or degrading about oral sex, for men or women? Is there something I need to know, or is it you don't like to give head? Pleasuring my partner is one hell of a turn on.Quote:
By KBC, Servitude,submission to do something with some 'degradation' to it.
No chance of surprise pregnancy and slim-to-no chance of contracting an STD.
I think what KBC is referring to is when the act is performed with one partner on their knees whilst the other stands. Clear submissive and dominant stances, though the thrill for me isn't in degrading my partner, but when they are enjoying the act. Especially when it turns them on, to turn me on! Oh yes!Quote:
Originally Posted by talaniman
It's a known fact that people who engage in any type of sexual activity rather it's intercourse, anal, and oral can get an STD. Go to search and research the information or better yet ask a physician. Now a person can use a condom for anal and intercourse for protection but not any type of condom. And for oral sex a person may use a dental dam.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wrestler171
Being in a monogamous relationship is te best way to protect yourself and enjoy sex without those other contraptions. (dental dam?? Doesn't sound sexy to me!)
I would guess for the same reason I like oral sex... 'cause it feels so darn good!
Dental dam don't sound sexy. Do an STD sound sexy?
Sorry you took it as a slight, but it wasn't, and if you knew me, my comment was in reference to my own long standing marriage of three decades, in which has been monagamous. I've never had an STD, or a dental dam, or used a condom, in that time. What you never heard of monogamous relationship? Or been in one? Don't be so defensive, it WAS nothing personal. I wasn't giving advice, just my opinion, know the difference.Quote:
Originally Posted by seductive
Seductive, please let me call your attention to the guidelines regarding using the comments feature... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum-...nes-24951.htmlQuote:
seductive disagrees: I'm just giving advice. You're grown do as you please. You find out the hard way. And there is a such thing as cheaters. You can't be around that person 24/7.
Sorry about that... I made an assumption rather than check the profile... my bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by mjl
When I give oral, it's a huge turn on for me, especially if he is vocal during. It's probably the best foreplay, and I can do it myself. Besides, it feels good to give a gift.
Pleasure is pleasure.
Great question friend one which I would enjoy answering...
Though I am a female I think I can explain it quite simply. Besides most sensor points are located in that area, it feels great to them. And when you are good at giving them, mixed with the love of doing it to a man you have the perfect reaon why they would want it.
If you don't like doing it, don't. Don't try to act or force yourself to enjoy it. However, ask a girlfriend or a friend who is good at it to teach you how to do it to provide the most satisfaction for him. If then you don't enjoy it or prefer it at least you have tried.
Most of my girlfriends hate it. But there are some of us who really do enjoy it for ourselves as much as for them. We each have our own likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual interaction.
Hmmm... guess I have to go tell my wife she's a lazy lover since she loves getting oral?.Quote:
Originally Posted by Synnen
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Originally Posted by kp2171
Heck, I love getting oral too!
EVERYONE likes to lay back and let someone else do all the work sometimes.
Guess you know better than the docs at the CDC?Quote:
Originally Posted by Wrestler171
Can I get HIV from oral sex? | Questions and Answers | CDC HIV/AIDS
Primary HIV Infection Associated with Oral Transmission | Factsheets | CDC HIV/AIDS
I think ill trust the pros here. You can pretend its not a risk and ignore health experts...
Lol... well... I think most of the guys like oral... because we just lay back and let the girls do the work... XD... sorry for saying that... but oral is fun... and I love it
And by the way... is this seriously?. the male can get HIV from the girl giving head?.
the journal of the american medical association addressed this issue almost 8 years ago, stating that up to 8% of new infections in a study could be attributed to unprotected oral sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wrestler171
if you think I'm going to trust you over one of the most respected medical journals in the world, you are as clueless as you sound.
you are propagating a lie. The risk is lower than other forms, but not 0%. An infection rate as high as 8% in a population is higher than the rate of pregnancy while using the pill... it doesn't happen a lot. It happens. The higher rate was in a population engaging in risky behavior, but that doesn't mean it cannot happen.
there's a point when you can choose to be ignorant of the facts.
itd be laughable that you rebute some of the most respected medical associations such as the CDC or JAMA with "no you cant"... if it weren't such a serious issue.
lower probability IS NOT the same as no probability.
Aids is only one diease, there are many others that are out there. And before anyone gets the wrong idea, Aids and other STD's can be transmitted by oral sex, so be careful who you eat.
Here... lets spell it out so this doesn't go on and on...
Hiv transmission is typical through blood, vaginal fluid, breast milk, and semen...
Don't see saliva there, right? That's why you think it cannot happen.
Well.. ever see your gums bleed when brushing your teeth? Think that there cannot be micro abrasions or cuts in the mouth? Think that your unit rubbing inside the mouth cannot cause these micro cuts? Wrong.
That's where transmission can occur. Has occurred. Will occur.
It isn't about saliva, its about blood.
Just as it isn't about the sweat on an athlete, it's the blood from a gash.
So... this has gotten way off topic, but I just think we need to resolve this misconception. The chance is lower, but still there.
That said... oral is still a fantastic option for sex for many, many reasons.
Less work for the guy I guess. Sometimes its nice just to relax as it were. :)
Its one of the best things you can do. I know its my fav gift. It means a lot to a guy when this is done.
Because it shows the girl really cares and does something for you. And in turn we do the same :)
It can't be all just one way
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