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  • Oct 21, 2007, 06:26 PM
    happyTrayl
    Women and Porn (who's watching?)
    So, it is generally accepted that men will watch porn when it's available...and in the internet age it generally is at one's fingertips when interested.

    But - What number of women do?

    So, the question is:

    1) Ladies, do you you watch? When? What kind?

    That's it.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 12:43 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    Well I know of at least a couple over here;
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...tml#post617315

    Lol!
  • Oct 22, 2007, 07:01 AM
    happyTrayl
    Well, I would simply say if you read this thread just put down a yay or nay and your gender.

    And an informal poll can be taken... I would guess 65-35 men to women but who knows...

    As for me: MALE: yay.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 07:11 AM
    Gernald
    Accidentally once... got to love HBO. :-) Changed it once I realized what it was.
    I think porn is more of a guy thing.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 07:42 AM
    happyTrayl
    It just might be a "guy thng" many times... but wonder with computers - if women don't peruse since they can access easily IF they want.

    Hmmmm
  • Oct 22, 2007, 07:50 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Nope.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 08:07 AM
    Moomin
    Yes - oh and I am very much a lady!
  • Oct 22, 2007, 08:13 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Moomin
    I am very much a lady!

    Well it's not the word I would have used... he he he! :D

    Anyway;

    Male: Yay!
  • Oct 22, 2007, 08:17 AM
    Moomin
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by iAMfromHuntersBar
    Well it's not the word I would have used ... he he he! :D

    What would you have said then cheeky?

    :confused:
  • Oct 22, 2007, 09:23 AM
    Ash123
    Yay.

    As for the women %'s...

    Married?
    Single?
    2nd marriage?
    Divorced?
    20's?
    All of the above?
    Who knows?
  • Oct 22, 2007, 09:28 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by happyTrayl
    So, it is generally accepted that men will watch porn when it's available....

    Hello happy:

    Generally accepted by whom?? Unsophisticated women? Ok, I'll buy that. It's not, however, accepted by worldly women, primarily because it's not true.

    excon
  • Oct 22, 2007, 09:30 AM
    cchotiner333
    I am a woman and I devulge in the pornography on occasion. So that would be a yay. It helps spice up the romance, you know?;)
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:09 PM
    happyTrayl
    Men, by the way, often look at it on their own...
    I've read a few posts before I posted, and I gathered it has caused a stir with some women when they find their partners do.

    - I'd still like to hear on the yay or nay poll -
    - yet would like to also know (from the yays) do you ever peruse when alone?
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:14 PM
    shadylady1979
    I love porn. No problems here, but that's because I realize that men aren't watching for the other women, they're watching for the act.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:18 PM
    happyTrayl
    Good insight. The woman is not a threat - she's make believe...

    Yet, would you peruse if no guy was around?
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:22 PM
    shadylady1979
    I consistently use when men are not around. I really like porn. It's funny because whenever I date a guy, they are like YEAH!! I scored!!
    I guess I'm more like a dude in a lot of ways lol.
    Yeah for me its not about any actor in the porn (most of them are nasty anyway), it's about the action.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:36 PM
    happyTrayl
    True.
    Well, ones with women are more attractive.

    So, did you have a "normal" two parent childhood. Or were you in a dysfunctional house.
    I ask because my contention is we all like it... But I have heard that girls who have it tougher -especially in regards to father daughter relationship - are more comfortable with porn as an outlet.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:42 PM
    peggyhill
    Don't watch it
  • Oct 22, 2007, 02:48 PM
    happyTrayl
    Running at about 50/50

    So, peggy and shady lady... from 2 parent happy households?
  • Oct 22, 2007, 03:07 PM
    shadylady1979
    Yep, from happy 2 parent household. Good relationship with both parents. My ma would be horrified if she knew I watched porn, she's told me she never has and I believe her.
    I guess I started trying to rebel against the "norm" for women, but have become way more comfortable approaching sexuality in a very open way.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 03:44 PM
    happyTrayl
    Well said.

    Porn type?
    Preference?
  • Oct 22, 2007, 05:24 PM
    THATguy23
    I'm a guy.

    My girlfriend likes to watch porn more than I do, which is kind of weird to me.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 05:50 PM
    happyTrayl
    What was her childhood like?

    Is it intimidating that she watches more porn than you?
    Like you are not enough of a sexual distraction? Truth is, likely harmless...
  • Oct 23, 2007, 07:00 AM
    Ash123
    I had a GF who liked porn.
    A lot.
    Perhaps too much... :-) (she would lament when she hadn't had time to see some)

    She was fun -- but a handfull...
  • Oct 26, 2007, 08:31 AM
    Moomin
    I think when it starts to invade your 'normal' sex life then that is when a problem could arrise!
  • Oct 26, 2007, 12:46 PM
    flossie
    I agree with Moomin... it should enhance your sex life not be in place of.
    I'm a yay...
    2 parent home - very happy
    Divorced
    2nd marriage
    Pushin' 50 yrs old :(
  • Oct 27, 2007, 07:58 AM
    THATguy23
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by happyTrayl
    What was her childhood like?

    Is it intimidating that she watches more porn than you?
    Like you are not enough of a sexual distraction? Truth is, likely harmless....


    Naw, it's not like that.

    She really doesn't watch it that much once every few weeks or so.

    She'll send me links or email me pictures of other naked women - like "look at her" - I really don't know what to make of it, but I'm not bothered by it.

    I don't really watch porn no more, I use to watch it all the time when I was single though. I just don't really feel the need to watch it that often now - nor do I have the time.
  • Nov 1, 2007, 09:11 PM
    wackymb
    Female... and yes I watch it. I even watch it with my husband.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 05:37 AM
    smoothy
    Wife likes certain kinds. But only if I'm watching with her. She doesn't want to watch it alone.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 02:47 PM
    wackymb
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy
    Wife likes certain kinds. But only if I'm watching with her. She doesn't want to watch it alone.

    That's true. I only watch it when my husband does and I don't like watching the ones with just girls in it. It has to have a guy in the picture. If my husband gets to watch another woman then I get to watch another man. Only in porn movies, not real life. So, don't get any crazy ideas guys. We maybe watch a movie twice a month or whenever I ask him if he wants to watch it cause it helps put him in the mood. Well, later.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 07:45 PM
    shygrneyzs
    Female - porn free home. Although I used to enjoy watching the old "Red Shoes Dairy" stories. I had a boyfriend who had a massive collection of porn and we would watch it and laugh most of the time - poorly done ooohhhs and aahhhs.
  • Nov 5, 2007, 05:56 AM
    Moomin
    Hey shygrneyzs... you want to know some geek trivia?
    Matt Le Blanc stared in an episode of Red Shoe Diaries!
    Haha!
  • Nov 5, 2007, 07:50 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by wackymb
    Thats true. I only watch it when my husband does and I don't like watching the ones with just girls in it. It has to have a guy in the picture. If my husband gets to watch another woman then I get to watch another man. Only in porn movies, not real life. So, don't get any crazy ideas guys. We maybe watch a movie twice a month or whenever I ask him if he wants to watch it cause it helps put him in the mood. Well, later.

    Neither of us are into girl on girl stuff. She is into some stuff I don't particularly like myself, (she likes guy on guy stuff and everything goes 3-ways) but its not all about me so I watch it with her as she does with stuff I like as well. Besides... :D if she likes it now, I'm going to really like later. :D
  • Aug 7, 2011, 03:14 PM
    Shelski353
    Yes hardcore female
  • Aug 7, 2011, 05:34 PM
    afaroo

    Sorry Shelski,

    You responded to aprox. 4 years old post, check the date on top left corner of the post before you respond, Thanks.

    John

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