I was with my girlfriend for three years and we used to have great sex without protection and I would come in her but ahter sex I want to no what do other people do? I would come in her and then it would drip out and sometimes if she is on top she will let it drip onto me and other times she would just go to sleep but normally she would let it drip out onto some tissues and throw them away... She just seems annoyed sometimes because its like a mess that it drips out. What do most girls do after a guy comes in them she is the only girl I've cme in so I'm nut sure what the normal routine is dooes eeryone let it drip out or what do they do? Soory if this is a bad question would just like to know...

I always make my boyfriend use condoms, so I don't deal with this problem. And from what you said about your girlfriend being annoyed by this, she should have probably had you use one too.

P.S. I read your first sentence completely wrong and almost spit coffee on my monitor! ;)

Tissues! Laughing gets it out faster- or a trip to the loo (which is supposed to be better for you anyway). We just make sure we have tissues around. Yeh it can be very messy - maybe just save au natural for special occasions/ compromise with her if she prefers no mess? You should talk to her and find out if she actually gets annoyed or if she just pretends/exaggerates.

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As with any form of Love Making you need to talk. You both need to let each other know what's good and bad. What's good today might not be good the next time so you need to be open with each other. Many times its not what you think it is that is making her mad.

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I have had girls that have done this. Oh well! Condom's are messy too. Ummmm... Tell her to try to take the cumm and masterbate with it. That worked for me. LOL

It is messy... that is all there is to it. It's important to go to the bathroom afterwards (this allows the mess to go somewhere and it also prevents urinary tract infections -very painful) I usually sit on the toilet for a few minutes to let it drip out... then when I wipe I have to press inside myself slightly and get more out (that sounds soooo disgusting right now but I'm being honest and trying to help)... sometimes I have to get up again to wipe some more depending on the day... all in all, it's messy. No biggie!

My girlfriend you to ride me then when I came she would let it drip on me and sometimes she would even rub up against me... how disgusting!! Now oi think of it..

Wife just goes to the bathroom and it sort of comes out pretty quick when she's upright. Then she washes up and comes back to be. No messy sheets that way.

Freak her out sometime then go down on her after you . Take care of it at the same time. Wife's asked me to do that sometime but haven't gotten the nerve up to do it. Then no reason for a bathroom run.

It is perfectly nature for the excess semen to ooze out and there is nothing you can do to prevent it. My husband and I always put a towel under me before he is about to get off so that way we save the sheets from getting so messy. It is an annoyance that it won't all stay in and be so romantic like the movies... but life is messy. After sex I always have to go to the bathroom and clean myself up. It doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy sex it just means that I don't want to be slippery, slimy, and sticky. If it really bothers you ask her about it, but she is probably trying to get herself cleaned up quickly before she gets it all over you or the bed.

We have tissues so I can put one under me while I run to the loo, That way none of it goes everywhere. Then I just go to the loo then Clean up.

Hi,

Me and my husband for years would finish in bed and then go to the bathroom together and wipe off with our hand towels and then lay back in the bed. Now we use wet wipes and they are so convenient!! So when we finish, we reach for the wet wipes, clean up and doze off.

This sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.

I thought everybody just rolled over and went to sleep. I can't wait to tell the wife.

Get a towel and let her wipe that cream pie off... Easiest way.. Just keep one near by... It's a normal part of life...

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this sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.

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this sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.

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Wife wants me to try that. I haven't found the guts to do it however.

That is gross IMO... But you could always offer to go down on her if she is willing to return the favor back or vice versa... ;)

Well, I've always told her my policy was I won't ask her to do something I won't do myself. And well if you look at it there really is not much difference than her doing a non stop BJ. She's asked me abut luckily doesn't feel strongly enough to push the issue.

One day I'll do it as a special gift for her. Without prior notice of course. As a surprise. I just haven't worked up the nerve to do it yet.

There's one thing in ingesting the other persons juices, that is hot, but taking in your own is a bit much for me to stomach...

Good luck though if you decide to try that endeavor.

I don't know what most women do. I try to keep a towel near the bed 'cause I can make as much a mess as he can. I keep it under me till I'm ready to get up, then I go pee and wash up. Not to say I've never just rolled over and went to sleep but well... eew!

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That is gross IMO... But you could always offer to go down on her if she is willing to return the favor back or vice versa... ;)

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I'm not sure why, but I have no problem going down on him after we've both done our thing. I just don't really want him down there after the fact. Maybe I'm just too self conscious. Good to hear men don't like that!

Guys (myself) like BJ's... We love that feeling of control and yet that feeling of ectasy at the same time... It's something primal for most of us, although we usually are sweet and caring to get that wonderful BJ because the club over the head (cave man days) doesn't work haha... I can not imagine going down on a woman if I had just blew my load in her, I would rather lop off a ball... But I can imagine going down on her because its her juices and very eagerly treat her in that way..

My ex just went to the toilet after we finished! Cleaned up and came back to bed.

It's completely normal for the semen to drip out of the vagina right after sex. There's not much you can do to prevent that other then use a condom or pull out so it doesn't go up there in the first place.

If those options don't sound so good to you, then I suggest keeping some baby wipes by your bed side. Wipes are better to use then tissue because it won't stick the way tissue does when you're trying to clean up seman.

I prop my everything up with a pillow and hope it drips far enough IN to get pregnant, so... I'm no help on that.

But I'd just like to point out that all of you guys going EWWWW about the lickemup cleanup method had BETTER never ask for a BJ after you've already had sex with your girl.

Same concept, hmmm?

I've always put a large "sex towel" next to the bed- then when it's time.. I put it under me that way when he pulls out I can grab it up and clean myself and then run to the bathroom- sit on the toilet for a bit- clean up and go back to bed. No messy sheets- no discomfort for me feeling wet and sticky. The towel gives him something to wipe off on too before I make a dash to the bathroom. Also keeps anyone from having to lay in the "wet spot"... ewww

Generally, the exertion of the proceedings have made that particular aspect of the mess small in comparison. With all the sweat, and my partner's fluids, and in some cases 'recreational additives,' my contribution is pretty much trivial.

Cleanup by mouth is no big deal, but that's more of an intermission thing... it's usually not the best idea to end with that particular technique, at least in my experience, since getting your girl all riled up again right before you go to sleep is some kind of party foul.

Just toss your sheets into the wash the next day.

My ex fiancé would use towel to clean up, but if we woke up during the night she would let stay in her.

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I was with my girlfriend for three years and we used to have great sex without protection and I would come in her but ahter sex i want to no what do other people do? I would come in her and then it would drip out and sometimes if she is on top she will let it drip onto me and other times she would just go to sleep but normally she would let it drip out onto some tissues and throw them away... She just seems annoyed sometimes because its like a mess that it drips out. what do most girls do after a guy comes in them she is the only girl ive cme in so im nut sure what the normal routine is dooes eeryone let it drip out or what do they do? soory if this is a bad question would just like to know...

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It can be messy but if she doesn't like it then she should ask you to A. use a condom, or B. pull out when your about to come. And I hope she is on the pill or some type of birth control, because that is a very easy way to get pregnant. So just be carfull.

Maybe if she feels awkward cleaning herself up you should take the initiate to have a towel and wipes close by and help her with the clean up.

My husband and I keep a towel nearby. Then a trip to the bathroom for a shower.

Its quite a normal thing that happens after sex especially when there is no condom used. I guess if its really bothering her and condoms are out of the question then its best to have some tissues near the bed and as soon as your "done" she can wipe anything that dribbles out.

Usually Most Girls Just Get A Tissue And Push It Out Or Go To The Bath Room And Pee And Push It Out. But If She Really Dislikes That Much She Wouldn't Be Doing It. If That's Too Much Of A Hassle For Her Just Use A Condom Or Pull Out (but That Could Sometimes Be Messier).

When I wander over to the sexulaity discussions on this site I find the reactions to sex to be somewhat too conservative. I mean if sex is safe and consensual and with someone you love... well, when a guy "finishes" I was never led to believe it was "gross" or "messy" but just part of life... a good part...

Bottom line is: a woman can simply go to the bathroom and use a cloth or bath tissue as she sees fit... If she waits a while it may be more fluid and could require a bath cloth while in bed and before going to the bathroom - hope that helps... it is hardly unusual or an imposition to share in this. You are not doing something "annoying" at all. You are doing what two people in love do. If she loves all of you - I wouldn't see a problem. Hope that helps.