People you don't understand...

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by basii

people you dont understand .......

---

We don't understand what? We understand exaly what you have told us very well. We have all been through relationships that were not what we wished they were.

We do understand. The fact of the matter is, this isn't going to be easy and that the truth hurts. It's not a cakewalk to do the things that you know you should

Am sooo sorry guys I don't know what's going on with me seriously I feel like I want to go back to drugs really...

Its OK to be stressed, nothing in life is always easy. But remember with pain, it doesn't stay that way forever. When me and my boyfriend broke up (we are back together now and have been for 8 years) it was only a little while into the relationship and I felt like my life was nothing without him. I thought about resorting to drugs, in fact I did. Three months in a Rehabilitation clinic and lots of thinking and taking self esteeme courses and stuff I realized that I didn't need him to be happy. I just thought I did. Now we worked things out. But our problems were quite a bit different then yours. I am now on my way to college in a different provence and he is behind me and supporting me the whole way. Which is what any boyfriend or husband should do. We are open, honest with each other and if something is bothering one of us we talk about it. Sometimes though that just doesn't happen in a relationship... Resorting to drugs is going to do nothing but make your life harder and you risk going to jail. Is it really worth it hun. I don't think it is.

Breaking up is rarely easy... but why settle for a bad relationship just because its easy rather than deal with a little pain to break up and find the relationship with a person you really would like to have.

A lot of the time girls don't orgasm, that's just the way it is but you shouldn fake it. It will be difficult to tell him that now, but that's why you shouldn't lie in the first place. The longer it continues the hardr it is.