The difference in this situation is, they were not spending time with each other. THAT is the problem.
Porn is OK, getting yourself off with that is OK but you need to be taking care of each other too. If you're not, there is a problem you two need to talk about.
You should not be giving it to yourself and leaving your partener out to dry.
THAT is the problem here.

I see this all the time.
Young people move in together.
Life goes on... One day what got excited so intent on sharing a roof is too much reality. He is just maturing slowly... maybe too slowly. Consider getting your own place. He is sending a signal for space. I'd bet it might improve your relationship - or at least force some real life decisions...

SSid, HG, is this still about lynn33? She said her question had been answered a page or two ago.

Ye me too, off to watch some porn.

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Originally Posted by S SID

Dude you'r a girl, believe me men might not want sex with his Mrs but while hes surfing the net late at night while wifey's all asleep suddenly he gets the urge, gee what should he do, throw one over his thumb or wake up wifey who is likely to be grumpy. I very much doubt he has low labido so much as porn turns him on while wifeys in bed, there the element of risk the he could be caught with his trousers down too, all the more excitement which is probably what's missing.

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Catsmine has a point. This isn't about the OP and her problem.

That being said, I am not above getting another word.

You don't understand the situation. Why do you keep posting thinking that you do? Nothing here you have posted has shown any attempt at understanding. You're trying to victimize the woman here telling her that she is being inflexible.

That isn't the case. You fail.

Closed.

Someone OTHER than the OP is being argumentative.

Lynn33--you don't have the ability to send a private message yet, but if you would like this re-opened, simply start another thread in Adult Sexuality, and I will re-open for you.